Will steal three kinds of laziness and enjoy a lifetime of happiness (worth collecting)

in this life, the world is complicated and unavoidable.

Buddha said: everything goes with the wind, leaves do not touch the body. Most of the troubles in life come from my heart. I can't let it go, I can't forget it.

sometimes, it is also a kind of wisdom to be lazy. Some things, do not care about, but it is a blessing.

when you have a broad heart, you will find that no matter how big the trouble is, it is just a joke.

May you learn to steal these three kinds of laziness and be a blessed person for the rest of your life!

01

trivial, too lazy to get angry

in life, we are often angry about trivial things.

do not know that anger is the most worthless thing in the world.

there is a saying in the Buddhist sutra: anger is the fire in the heart, which can burn Kongderlin; when you think of anger, the door of a million barriers opens.

anger is to hold a grudge against others and often lose your temper. Once hatred arises, the blessings cultivated in the past will be destroyed at once. The angrier a person is, the less blessed he is.

people, why are you angry? It wastes time, tortures the body, and shortens life. Why bother?

it is better to be lazy and care less, so that you will feel more relaxed.

the world is wide, but I am narrow-minded.

all troubles come from the heart, and when our hearts are clear, nothing can make us worry.

once upon a time there was a young monk who was ready to go out to make love.

who knows, as soon as I walked out, I was viciously knocked down by a big man. The little monk staggered and fell to the ground, his knee was broken and bleeding, and his palm was cut.

instead of being angry, the little monk comforted the big man: "I should have walked more carefully."

the big man felt guilty and said, "I was so rude to you, but you didn't get angry with me. Why?"

the little monk smiled and said to him, "I'm too lazy to be angry. What's the use of being angry?" My pain will not be reduced by half, and if I argue with you, I will form a bad relationship. "

the big man was going to seek revenge on a man, but after hearing the words of the little monk, he immediately calmed down. Yeah! Why are you angry? If he goes, it will not only destroy other people's families, but also put himself in jail. Angry, the price paid, too painful!

A man's life is a passer-by between heaven and earth. Just let us be lazy and let him pass if we can.

it's like the cloth bag monk's "transplanting Yangge": when you plant green seedlings all over the sky, you can see the sky in the water when you bow your head; the six clean ways are the Tao, and retrogression is actually forward.

it is a kind of free and easy wisdom of life that you don't care about things and don't bother to get angry.

02

gossip, don't bother to listen to

as the old saying goes: gossip happens all day long, but if you don't listen to it, there will be no gossip.

No matter how perfect a person is, there will always be people who don't like you. In the face of gossip, take it too seriously, it will only hurt yourself. No matter how much gossip, as long as we don't bother to listen, it will pass.

No one talks about who is behind, and who is not behind.

if you care about other people's comments, it is you who are tired. Why bother? It is better to learn to be lazy and ignore it, and life will be more clean.

Tang Taizong once asked Xu Jingzong, "you are the most capable man in the Manchu dynasty. Why do people always talk about your faults in front of me?"

Xu Jingzong skillfully replied: "for farmers, spring rain is as expensive as oil and can nourish everything, but for pedestrians, they hate muddy roads; for poets, the bright moon in the sky may be a source of inspiration, but for thieves, I hate this kind of light."

"God can't satisfy everyone in the world, let alone us ordinary people."

Yes! Everyone is different, and it is impossible for everyone to be satisfied.

the gossip in life should not be taken too seriously. If you listen to it all, you lose.

Mr. Lu Xun said: go your own way and let others talk!

Life is long, wind or rain. I hope you can live according to your wishes.

listen to less gossip and go your own way!

03

people who don't care about you don't bother to please

as the saying goes: it is easy to get a daughter, but hard to find a bosom friend.

Are you craving for your perfect fit of lace flower girl dresses to add to your wardrobe? Find your favorite and it will remain fashionable and fabulous for the years to come.

how rare it is for passers-by to meet a bosom friend in a hurry on the way of life. There is no need to waste time on people who don't care about us.

Don't please those who don't like you, and don't force those who don't care about you.

when people reach a certain age, they should learn to be lazy and please others, rather than being happy themselves.

Lin Huiyin said that true calmness is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to build hedges and plant chrysanthemums in your heart. It is much more meaningful to please yourself than to cater to it deliberately.

there is no one in the world who should please each other.

Chen Daoming is a rare person in the entertainment industry. The belly is full of poetry and books, and the passage of time is still arrogant!

he comes from a scholarly family, is talented and proficient in all kinds of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. He has made his debut for 30 years and is now a treasure-level actor in the mainland.

but he doesn't look like an actor, more like an artist.

he seldom gives interviews and seldom takes part in business activities. Whenever I have time, I play the piano and paint, and my spare time life is very rich. Others say that he is a "lofty man who only bows his head in the play."

like qu Yuan who "the whole world is muddy and I am alone, but the world is drunk and I wake up";

Tao Yuanming who "does not bend over for five buckets of rice";

"I look up to the sky and laugh and go out," Li Bai of

"out of the mud"Zhou Dunyi, who is not dyed, Zhuo Qinglian but not demon ";

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the world is full of fawning bones, but only the monarch is the same.

instead of blindly pursuing the approval of others, it is better to calm down and savor your own life.

people who are really high-level don't bother to please others. "Flower fragrance is originally nature, how to seek beauty to pick and become famous", I am me, do not want to live too tired.

04

lazy people have their own blessings for lazy people.

when people reach middle age, they learn to be lazy. Be more open-minded and magnanimous.

there is no need to worry about everything and lose happiness; please others and lose yourself. Life is too short to focus on the most important things.

be chic, be happy, be confused, and be happy yourself!