Why are you advised to be with people with positive energy?

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my friend told me something that frightened me.

her parents drove and picked her up from the station for the holidays, but she jumped out of the car when she was very happy.

it's no big deal, but we just don't get along with each other, and the negative emotions on both sides are getting bigger and bigger.

Mom said coldly, "come on, I don't care about your business in the future!" The friend was so angry and sad that he pulled the door and jumped down.

the Empress Dowager was afraid. Fortunately, the speed was not fast and there was no passing car, otherwise she might have been killed.

my friend said, "I don't know how I got on my forehead and did such an irrational thing."

those negative energies that we often underestimate are very likely to burst out at some point, driving us to do things we regret.

it is a compulsory course for us to stay away from it, not to be influenced and controlled, and not to ruin our lives.

02

if you stay away from negative energy

there is a news: a father and son quarreled and the son said he was going to jump off a building. The father said, "then go to hell!"

my son jumped off the 11th floor. The father rushed to the window to catch his son, but failed to catch him.

he cried bitterly with his son's body in his arms and regretted it, but his son never came back.

A murderer said in an interview in prison: "my parents used to say to me when I was a child: 'people like you are sure to go to jail when you grow up, and you may still be a murder.' I am exactly what they want me to be. "

words of negative energy are like invisible swords, piercing the heart to pieces again and again.

in the program I am an orator, the famous host Kou Naixin once said in tears:

"I hurt a lot of people with the weapon of speaking, especially to the man I love most." But not every lover we hurt, we still have time to apologize and fix it. "

Don't say negative words to yourself, and don't let yourself get worse under constant negative cues.

Don't say negative words to others, don't talk hurriedly, don't let the irreparable harm make us regret for the rest of our lives.

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stay away from negative energy

Last year, there was a "Blue Whale death Game" that made people's voice change.

CCTV Newsweek interviewed a boy named Xiao Yao. His arms and thighs were scarred by knives, and the word "blue whale" was particularly shocking.

the reporter asked, "who gave you this?" "myself." "Why did you cut yourself with a knife?" "I'm curious."

Xiao Yao accidentally enters a death game group, and the rule in the group is that the game specified by the group owner must be completed.

out of curiosity, Xiao Yao started the game, listening to sad music, watching scary and desperate movies, and carving words on himself with an art knife at a specific time.

in the process of completing each challenge step by step, Xiao Yao gradually lost interest in life and was numb to self-harm, and finally decided to complete the ultimate task: suicide.

some of the people who took part in the game pulled out at the early stage, while others, like Xiao Yao, were intervened by the police in time to save their lives.

more people listen to the terrible lie:

"Life is too bad to get better. Nothing good will happen in your life except to commit suicide when you are young. "

it's really thoughtful and frightening.

writer Li Shanglong said:

"negative energy is whipping other people's bad and scolding social injustice; positive energy is telling you that no matter how bitter it is, I can still make efforts to change some of it."

if when we come into contact with some games, music, news, books, movies, articles, we feel deep pessimism, resentment, cynicism, sadness and powerlessness, feel that there is no hope in life, and even have the impulse to hurt ourselves or others, then these messages must be kept away, just like the snakes that seduce Eve in the Garden of Eden, they erode your heart imperceptibly.

there is an ancient maxim: "Light in the eyes makes the heart happy; good news moistens the bones."

the information we see should give us light in front of our eyes, feel nourished and happy, even if some of the content is negative, it is to make us think and alert more and make us better.

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stay away from negative energy

there was a time when a friend was afraid of one of her neighbors.

neighbors seldom smile, always worry about their faces, and feel angry and dissatisfied all the time. They say:

"my father-in-law is so annoying that I told him to put things back in place and forget them every time!"

"my mother-in-law cares too much. It's annoying!"

"my husband is like a wooden man every day. He doesn't take the initiative to do anything. I really regret marrying him!"

"Oh, the child is so troublesome that it's exasperating to do homework!"

every time I vent with my neighbor, my friend's heart is also full of negative emotions. when I get home, I don't like my husband, I quarrel with my mother-in-law easily, and I can't help getting angry with my children.

until she began to stay away from her neighbors, her life became bright again, and the atmosphere at home changed greatly.

the child said, "Mom, it's nice that you like to laugh now."

everyone has times when they are emotionally depressed and depressed, and most people are willing to change and eager to make a breakthrough.

people with negative energy just complain and reject any suggestions and attempts.

when you are with some people, you feel depressed, irritable, feel overwhelmed, and your life is dark. You must stay away from such people.

never overestimate yourself. When you yourselfWhen you are not strong enough, you simply cannot help each other on your own.

some people say that the most important choice in life is to choose who to be with and who to work with.

in this math problem, negatives don't get positive, and another person with the same negative energy will only drag you into the abyss.

only when you have enough strength in your heart and full of positive energy can you help and influence others.

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stay away from negative energy

there is a story in which two people go to the hospital for examination. One learns that he has cancer and is depressed, while the other is glad that he is not ill and relaxes happily every day.

after a long time, I found that the diagnostic reports of the two men were reversed! The real cancer patient who is thought to have no more than three months to live has lived for five years. And people who were not sick actually got stomach cancer.

Feng Zhimei, a famous marriage counseling expert in Taiwan, said something:

at the beginning of a meeting, she was talking eloquently when the host suddenly interrupted her: "Mr. Feng, you talk too much, please stop talking."

she was hit hard by shame and self-pity, and she thought angrily, "it's too much. I'll never pay attention to anyone or say a word again!"

but soon, she adjusted and chose to think positively: "he doesn't really want to hurt me, he's for the progress of the meeting." Since I have been invited over today, it shows that I am useful for the meeting. I will talk if I am arranged to speak, but I will not talk any more. "

she came out of her negative thoughts, no longer felt hurt, and took part in the discussion of the following meeting with a smile and gentle humility.

years later, someone said, "Mr. Feng, I admire you so much." That meeting, instead of humiliating her, won the admiration and respect of many people.

the Bible says: keep your heart above all else, for the effect of life comes from the heart.

maybe we can't choose the circle and environment in which we live, and it's hard for us to avoid negative energy completely, but we can choose:

every time, when negative energy comes, we close the door of our hearts and leave a window for positive energy to shine in.

our hearts will be stronger, our lives will be happier, and our lives will be more influential.

06

in life, negative energy is like an invisible devil, always saying negative words in people's ears and hearts, making us easily believe:

"We are just unimportant. Other people just hurt us on purpose. We can never compare with others and will never succeed."

and positive energy is like an angel, constantly debunking lies, bringing warmth and hope, confidence and change to our lives, making us understand our own value, understanding the difficulties of others, knowing that there will always be gains in our efforts, and there will always be a turnaround in the future.

fortunately, we can make a choice at any time.

there is a passage in

the greatest salesman in the world:

when I wake up every day, when I wake up surrounded by sadness, self-pity, and failure, I fight it like this: when I am depressed, I sing loudly.

when I am sad, I laugh heartily.

when I am in pain, I double my work.

when I was afraid, I went forward bravely.

I put on new clothes when I feel inferior.

when I'm upset, I raise my voice.

when I am down and out, I imagine my future wealth.

when I can't do what I want, I think back to my past success.

when I belittle myself, I think about my goals. "

such people have an open heart, bring their own light, do not complain in frustration, do not be proud in prosperity, not despair in adversity, and not arrogant in prosperity.

take every step of life, sincerely treat everyone around you, love sunshine and warm heart.

May we all stay away from negative energy and make our hearts purer and our lives better.

everything in the world will open the way for us, and nothing can stop us from leading to happiness.