When you reach middle age, you must do these five things as soon as possible.

Young people look forward to the Spring Festival, while middle-aged people are afraid of it.

what middle-aged people hear from the New year bell is not only the joy of bidding farewell to the New year and welcoming the New year, but also the hasty footsteps of the years.

the footsteps of the years are in the hearts of middle-aged people, a little heavy and a little helpless, reminding us all the time that we must do something as soon as possible:

01

filial piety to parents must be done as soon as possible

the parents in the family are getting old.

as the saying goes, "cold in spring and warm in autumn", even if the old people in the family are in good health, they are not sure when something big or small will happen.

the happiest thing in life is not how much money or how big the government is, but that there are parents at home who can be filial.

chat with them more and buy them more gifts. Although they say they don't need it, they can be satisfied and relieved.

because all they need is the heart of their children!

filial piety to parents, enjoy more family happiness, will make oneself less regret in the future.

02

teach children to reach middle age as soon as possible

, which is the most important time for children to go to school.

there is a saying that "in the first 30 years, the father respects the son, and in the second 30 years, the son respects the father." the child is our dependence and spiritual sustenance for the rest of our lives.

whether they do well or not directly determines the quality of our later lives.

at this time, we must remember that there are less useless social activities in society and more companionship for children.

after all, educating children is our most important career.

03

exercise must be done as soon as possible

when people reach middle age, their bodies begin to go downhill.

except that the height is no longer rising, weight, waistline, blood pressure, blood lipids and blood sugar all begin to rise slowly.

the body of a middle-aged person, like a car that has been driving for ten years, is bound to have major and minor problems if it is not carefully maintained.

so, those wines that should be pushed should be pushed as far as possible. If you can't go to the overnight card game, don't go.

playing ball, running, swimming and practicing tai chi, even square dancing, must at least participate in one event.

after all, the car can be replaced and repaired when it breaks down, but our health is broken, so we have no place to buy it, and even accessories are hard to find.

04

learn to give up as soon as possible

people reach middle age, there are too many unrealized ideals.

the ancients said, "if you have not married at 30, you should not marry again; if you are not married at 40, you should not be an official again." of course, this is a bit absolute.

but some of the truth contained in it can be referred to.

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when people reach middle age, most of their careers have been stereotyped. If the unrealized ideal is still out of reach, it is wise to give up as soon as possible.

if you have not endured a part-time job in middle age, it is not bad to accept your fate, and it is not bad to be a small clerk all your life;

if you are not rich in middle age, then forget it, and we will be satisfied if we can achieve food and clothing.

after all, we are neither Ren Zhengfei nor Jiang Ziya, who can start a business in the middle-aged and become officials in the elderly.

if you try your best to achieve an ideal that has not been realized in half your life, you may only ask for trouble.

05

if it is not adjusted in advance, depression will follow from intense work to doing nothing in the future.

cultivate a hobby, like to travel and play ball, like to practice calligraphy and learn to play chess quietly, and so on one day when you are free, you can give your spirit a sustenance.

now that there are few children, we will grow old, it is impossible for our children and grandchildren to go around the knee, and eventually we have to have fun on our own.

Middle-aged life always passes quickly. Plan ahead and plan early so that you won't be in a hurry in your life.

do the above five things in advance to make us more calm and calm for the rest of our lives.