When you reach middle age, don't take everything too seriously!

when people reach middle age, they can't help sighing that it is too hard to live in this world. With the growth of age, the heart becomes heavier and heavier.

in fact, most of the time, people are tired precisely because they take everything seriously, which adds too much burden to the mind.

as the saying goes, it is better to take it lightly than to look down upon it. In life, don't take these things too seriously.

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first: take money too seriously

as the saying goes, when people die of wealth, birds die for food.

in this materialistic world, how many people devote their lives to pursuing a rich life, because they can not feed their desires, take wealth too seriously and fall into the whirlpool of money.

everyone knows that people's happiness is not in direct proportion to money, and money can never buy time, health and sincerity. Only by belittling money can one's heart be lighter. Only in this way can one be more happy.

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second, don't take gains and losses too seriously

Mr. Gulong once said:

if you get something, you lose something at the same time.

I am deeply convinced that gains and losses in this world always complement each other. Most of the time, it seems to be lost, but on the other hand, it is also a kind of gain.

therefore, don't pay too much attention to the gains and losses of the moment. Your future is much broader than that.

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third: don't take your feelings too seriously.

there is a saying: deep love is not longevity, wisdom will hurt.

people who fall in love and forget themselves are all infatuated, but no matter how much they love someone, they should not put all their body and mind on that person.

indulge too much in a relationship, it will only consume yourself too much and make your life miserable.

always remember that love is not everything in life, you are all in your life. Instead of being aggrieved in love, you should learn to love yourself.

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fourth, don't take yourself too seriously

the most common mistake people make is to overestimate themselves.

when you get along with others, you think you are important, but you are only dispensable to others; you think you are indispensable, but you are just irrelevant to others.

Don't take yourself too seriously, because in the eyes of others, you are really not as important as you think.

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Fifth, don't take age too seriously

We often say that time is a knife, and a knife urges people to grow old, so with the growth of age, many people will be nervous, anxious and hesitant.

and this sense of age crisis invisibly obliterates our pursuit of life and disturbs our rhythm of life.

Life is too short. We should maintain an optimistic attitude, a state of mind that does not regard age as a limit, but only to enrich our lives.

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finally, don't take everything too seriously

Life is impermanent. We take it seriously, we care, and we can't beat the occurrence of accidents.

the people we care about may be separated in a sea of people on that day, and the things we value often end up not as we wish.

if you persist and refuse to let go, these obsessions are likely to torment us and become our weakness.

Life, be bearish, just cherish the present, those superfluous things, let nature take its course, let them go with the wind!

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when people reach middle age, there is nothing insurmountable, there is nothing to let go, don't take everything too seriously.

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