When you are middle-aged, don't show off this in your moments.

the real high level is to learn to be a low-key human being.

Wechat has become a social software that no one can give up in the Internet age.

everyone is used to being in the circle of friends, recording their own life. A person's circle of friends represents a person's world.

record life, there is nothing wrong with it, but when one reaches middle age, one should understand that there are mountains beyond the mountains, but there are people outside the people.

the age of youth and ignorance is gone, and middle age is no longer an age of complacency after a little achievement.

so, when you reach middle age, don't show off these things in your moments, otherwise, you will be ridiculed if you are light, or you will suffer misfortune if you are serious.

01

Don't show off happiness

the more a person lacks, what he will show off.

Real happiness is not made by showing off, but by one's own efforts.

Life, such as drinking water, knows whether it is warm or cold.

what you think of happiness may not be what everyone agrees with.

the happiness that shows off in the circle of friends will only be judged by others, not the envy of others.

I have seen a short film before. The content of a few minutes has received tens of millions of hits.

in the luxuriously decorated 17th-century mansion, the host family is sitting at the table preparing for dinner, but it is slow to get started.

it turns out that they are waiting for the painter to paint their meal.

when the painter finished painting, the servants carried the picture around the world. After harvesting everyone's praise and going home, the master decided to eat satisfactorily.

time and space changes come to modern times, or when eating, facing the father who took pictures, the little girl showed dissatisfaction:

"it's just a meal, not a game. Why bother so much?"

it's too late to really enjoy happiness, so there's no time to show off everywhere.

everyone has a different definition of happiness, and your happiness will not increase or decrease because of one or two comments from others.

since this is the case, why take the risk of being hated by everyone and show off your happiness in moments?

as long as you live your own life, others really don't care about your happiness.

02

Don't show off your achievements

people who are really capable will never show off their achievements.

because time will tell. If you have the ability, you will become famous without showing off. No matter how you show off, it is like a joke.

the tiger is the king on its head, but it is silent. The goshawk flies high in the air and is silent.

the more successful a person is, the more he looks like an ordinary person in obscurity.

I have heard the story of a Tibetan mastiff and a lion before:

A strong young man led a purebred Tibetan mastiff worth a million dollars for a walk, showing off his dog to everyone.

at this time, I looked at an old bald man sitting next to a dog whose hair was about to fall off.

his Tibetan mastiff howled at the dog, but the old dog didn't even look up at it.

the boy got angry and said, "Old man, let's have a dog fight. Your dog lost 500 and my Tibetan mastiff lost 2000."

the old man smiled carelessly and said, "I'm worried about my old buddy's food next month. If you don't bet more, my dog loses fifty thousand to you and you lose thirty thousand to me."

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the boy agreed.

after two minutes of confrontation between the two dogs, the Tibetan mastiff was defeated and the wilting nest was on one side.

the boy was so depressed that he asked, "Uncle, what kind of dog are you? how can you be so fierce?"

the old man counted the money and said, "I don't know what kind of dog he is now. He was called a lion before he lost his hair!"

if you are a lion, why do you need to prove it?

A person's ability does not exist in showing off, even if your show-off gets more envy, a person with no real ability will fall out one day.

No effort, no gain, just be yourself, and God will make plans.

if you waste all your time showing off, you will lose a great opportunity to improve yourself, and it will be useless to show off again.

so, not showing off does not mean being inferior. Only when you calm down can you figure out what you need.

03

Don't show off your fame and fortune

full of losses and modest benefits.

people's hearts are unknowable. To show off fame and wealth will inevitably be envied by conscientious people and bring disaster to themselves.

so, the more successful people are, the more humble and low-key they are.

if you lower yourself and put yourself in the right position, you can get respect from the bottom of your heart.

in Journey to the West, there is such a passage in which Wukong asks about Taode fairies in Sanxing Cave. He is fickle, with 84000 hairs on his body and changes as he pleases.

one day, Wukong showed off in front of his teachers and brothers, saying that Bodhi Laozu taught him the formula, and he learned 72 changes.

then recite the formula and change it into a pine tree.

the Bodhi Master appeared, and Wukong quickly revealed his true body.

the Bodhi Master said:

"after learning this kung fu, how can you show off in front of people?"

when others see that you have this ability, they are bound to ask you to teach. If you do not teach, others will do more harm to you, I am afraid you will lose your life! I don't blame you. Just go! "

Wukong said, "how can we go without repaying the kindness of our ancestors?"

the Bodhi ancestor replied, "where is there any kindness? once you leave, you will certainly cause trouble in the future. At that time, don't get into trouble and involve me."

Wukong had no choice but to say goodbye: "never mention the word Master in the future!"

is tall without boasting, high but not proud.

even if you have the ability to be arrogant, you should keep a low profile.

acting like a fool is actually the great wisdom of life.

mature rice is bent over, because it hides its edge in order to avoid the scourge of arrogance.

Rice is like this, and so are people. It is often a flash in the pan to learn the "capable person" who cannot hide the front.

only those who do not make public, do not show off, still water flows deep, contain but do not reveal, can they keep their fame and wealth well and be a gentleman for a lifetime.

if you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.

the most important thing for a person to live a good life is to live well, and the opinions of others are just adjustments.

if you lose yourself in order to be affirmed and admired by others, that is the greatest sorrow.

"only when the land is not afraid of its low can water gather into the sea; only when people are not afraid of its low can people become king."

keep a low profile and keep a calm and calm heart in order to better develop your skills in the vast world.

May you and I both break away from the low level of "showing off in moments", judge the hour and size up the situation, be humiliated, and spend our lives magnanimously.