What were we talking about when my current girlfriend's boyfriend and I were talking?

I bumped into him near the cake shop a few months ago. I ate and drank a little too much with my clients that night. I barely recognized him. He called me. I was surprised that he remembered my name. Well, although I mispronounced one word, I forgave him. Hey, man, what are you doing? I was like a friend he knew. I slapped him on the back. He was very thin as if I pushed him a little harder and he had to lie down. For this reason, I also asked, what do you think of such a fragile man? Of course, Ann was very angry, so angry that she didn't talk to me for a long time. I had a fight with him for this, that is, the man in front of me. He was injured by me and lived in the hospital. I helped him pay his medical bills and walked away. I didn't want to run into him again, because it was easy to remind me of the fact that Ann and I broke up. You know, once a person is lovelorn, even the towels used by two people will make you sad for a long time, not to mention such a living person. He nodded politely and said, Buy a cake, tomorrow is Ann's birthday. Shit, I don't need you to remind me of this kind of thing. Of course, I know that tomorrow is Anan's birthday. If I want to count it, I used to know what days Anan's period is. This is a provocation and makes me very uncomfortable. But I still say very gentlemanly, Happy Birthday, Happy Birthday, you are one year older, you are about to get married. He held the cake and didn't answer my question. Instead, he asked me, "are you all right? do you want me to drive you home?" Did you buy a car? I laughed and said, "it's good to buy a car. Ann likes a man with a car and a house." He didn't laugh, but said, Ann, is not as vain as you say.

maybe I was drunk. Coincidentally, the subway was closed at that time. If I walked back to Pudong from Changning District, I probably wouldn't have to go to work tomorrow. So in the end, I was carried into the car by him. I didn't think he had some strength. The car smelled good and smelled like Ann. Her favorite shampoo was Head & Shoulders. I always thought Head & Shoulders was a cheap brand, but later I found that Head & Shoulders was also very expensive, just like I always thought Ann liked dried tofu very much. only later did I know that she liked it because I liked it. I almost fell asleep in the car, but for his sudden speech, he turned on the light in the front row and said faintly, "I know you still hate me." At that time, my mind flashed through a similar movie plot, and he was supposed to take me to some wild mountain, strangle me, and then throw me into the body. I suddenly sat up and regretted getting into a stranger's car. I said, "you're not going to assassinate me, are you?" He was amused by my words and said, "Ann said that you are a very imaginative person. If that is the case, it seems that she still knows you very well." "well, if you want to kill me, remember to take me to a more beautiful place, or you will die in your grave." He turned on the turn signal and got on the viaduct. "in fact, I can understand your feelings, just like I am now the so-called mistress, you as the original should be angry, so that time you hit me, I did not fight back." "Don't be funny, it was a long time ago." "as long as you are alone or go to another woman right away, it shows that you still care about Ann." "Don't fucking see through people like God, okay? I don't think you're smart at all." He cleared his throat and the car was stuck on the viaduct. I admire the fact that there will be a traffic jam at this point. He then changed the subject: "Christmas Eve, there is no way, there are people everywhere." He was reminding me of something and immediately turned on the radio. The radio anchor was helping an aunt who had just arrived in Shanghai to find her luggage. He adjusted it again and switched it to the music channel. 

That was Anan's favorite singer, Eason Chan. One year, to buy tickets for his concert, I went to three shows with Anan, Shanghai, Hangzhou, and Nanjing. I thought there was no difference, but Anan still felt that each place was moved differently. she asked me if I would like to continue to listen to the next show with her, and then there was no next one. "as a matter of fact, I have had times like you." He took out a bag of preserved plums from under the parking space, picked up two and threw them into his mouth, and handed them back to me. I didn't want to eat them. He continued, "I was with a girl named Ning Ning for six years. From college to work, I was almost married, but you know a lot of things. One step away is forever." At that time, we should also be in love with you and in the same way. We lived in the shabby building in Shanghai, ate instant noodles, and worked two jobs. Very often, we found it difficult to go to a high-end restaurant and watch a movie like other couples. We all lived through such a hard life, and according to reason, there was no reason to be separated anymore, but one day, she suddenly told me that we were finished. " The alcohol seemed to evaporate bit by bit in the air. I felt a little stuffy.

 I opened the window a little bit. The piercing cold wind on the viaduct hit me in the face, and I instantly woke up a lot. "sometimes, you don't even find out on which day love goes bad, just like you don't know why you suddenly have a toothache. When you go to the hospital for an examination, the doctor simply tells you that your tooth is broken and you have to pull it out. You see, a lot of things are like this, things hidden in dark corners, do not care so much, over time, is the root of the disaster, funny, you always think you are still very healthy. " "then why did you break up?" I couldn't help asking. "Ning Ning said that one day, you find that there is no love at all. Love is a feeling of excitement for more than a dozen days, that is, you think you are enjoying it happily while giving, but in the end, it is just a monotonous cycle of questioning. Ask why the other person has changed, why he can't grasp these details, why he is always repeating why, just like getting dementia." ", your ex-girlfriend should write a novel." "she's a screenwriter, so, you know, thinking is always emotional, but that's not the point. The point is that our love is broken, so it is unplugged, and then our relationship, which has lasted for more than six years, is finally in the grave. Originally, the story was over, but it didn't. It seemed to be just a prelude, not much. For a long time, she had a new boyfriend, to be exact, her fiancé. At that time, I would go to the bar to drink every day. I was so drunk that I called her countless times, but there was no answer. Later, I simply stopped. I thought everything would pass. Before long, it happened to be her birthday. I sent her a present. I think she received it, but she didn't reply to me. 

A few days later. She waited for me downstairs of my office and had dinner with me. " "this is not a good development." "Yes, as you said, it's not a good development. She spent the night at my place that night. We broke up, but reason can't fool the body all the time. When she woke up in the morning, she told me that she was going to get married. she lay at the head of the bed, looking at me as if she had looked at me, thinking that I should say something, and if it was a blessing, it would be so fake, so I didn't say it at all and went to the kitchen to make breakfast. " "well, although you speak pitifully, I don't think it has anything to do with me at all. You can rest assured that Ann and I haven't seen each other for a long time. " ", I didn't doubt your intention, but later, Ning Ning and I met several times, and the situation was similar to that time. Before long, she sent me a message saying that we should not meet again. 

A few days later, her fiance came to me and fought with me. I was very unconvinced and lost both sides in the end. Do you know what I'm not convinced of? What I am not convinced of is that I always thought that Ning Ning and I were the original matches, but at that moment, I became the mistress. " I felt a little uncomfortable and there was a burning in my stomach. "are you being sarcastic?" "Sorry, I didn't mean that. I mean, love will make you feel like fucking assholes at some point. I still remember Ning Ning's favorite food, used brands, frequent places, and her private habits. But what if I know? I don't want to stimulate you with these words, but I want to tell you that some things are difficult to restore after they go bad, including an. At the age of twenty-seven or twenty-eight, when I meet someone I like, she happens to be single. I have no reason not to pursue it. If it were you, what would you think? " I took a deep breath and said, "you can pull over and let me down." "I don't mean anything." "I'm going to throw up!" I crouched by the roadside, he stood not far away, he should be frowning, no more words, he quickly left, and soon came back, he handed me a bottle of mineral water, let me gargle, I got up against the tree, took a deep breath, very tired, I said: "Thank you." "No. Well, what I said just now didn't mean to be provocative. 

I just want to say that I have a lot of feelings about you now, and one day, you will also be the driver. " "what do you mean?" "there were times when you kept checking your phone and flipping through text messages, worried about missing any information, but in fact, your phone never rang. Within 48 hours after you broke up, the world was quiet, but you were still very worried, worried that your phone was broken or the signal was not good, so you would also check Weibo, Wechat, QQ, email, Skype, and even wherever you think you could find the news. But there will be nothing. " "so people who are lovelorn are stupid." "No, I think it's normal, but you don't want to give up. Liking this kind of thing will eventually become a habit. Some people will adapt to the habit, while others who cannot and cannot adapt will try to break the deadlock, while another person may clean up the mess or add fuel to the fire. If it is the latter, then basically the relationship will be broken. " "when you tell me so much today, you just want me not to hate you. I don't hate you so much. I just think. I don't know, I think you have to be better than me before I can admit that my loss is worth it. " "but what is better than you? anyone from your point of view will feel that the person in my point of view is a mess. If I were you, I used to think that Ning's fiance would be so ugly, so sloppy, so unbearable, belittling each other infinitely. I am who he is now, and so are you one day." "it seems reasonable for you to say so." "when I talk so much today, I'm not trying to persuade you. Seeing you drink so much, I always feel that you are either too happy or too unhappy. If you are happy, it doesn't matter if you listen to me. If you are unhappy, take it as my casual words to comfort you. In the past, when I watched movies, I thought that very good a movie would make up the plot into a cycle, but in fact, everything in life is cyclical. " I looked at him with a very sincere expression and said, "I once discussed the breakup with Anan, and it was very violent at that time. I asked Anan, what is a breakup? it means never seeing each other again or even getting in touch with each other." no chance to drink coffee? Ann told me that breaking up is nothing more, it's a necessary thing for two people, you don't call, you don't return messages, you don't imagine which restaurant to eat at the weekend, you just need to think about where to spend time after work, which colleagues to bet on horses with, what kind of girl you want to pick up with, and you don't have to worry about me anymore. That's a breakup. " "I also discussed with Ning Ning that if we broke up, it would be nothing for us to meet behind her fiance. I think it's funny.

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 I sometimes wonder if Ning Ning and I like each other. " "I think I must have liked it, but as you just said, some people can get used to being the same, but others can't, and maybe, as you said, love and teeth are the same, brushing every day, always thinking to be very clean. but in fact, you didn't notice many corners until the pain was bad, and you didn't realize your carelessness at the beginning. I do feel a lot better to hear you say that. If I hadn't been drunk, I could have bought you another drink. " "Oh, no, I'm still driving." At this time, suddenly a girl chased a man and shouted to catch a thief. he was so fast that he caught up with him and caught the man.

 A man fell over his shoulder and pressed down like this. That man! "Thank you, thank you!" The girl kept thanking him. He taught the thief a few words and was ready to dial 110 when a policeman came. "Damn it, what was that?" He clapped his hands and said with a smile, "I practiced judo when I was in high school." "than you! Why didn't I fight back when I hit you? " He touched his head and suddenly looked at his watch. "Oh, I'd better take you home quickly. I'll buy her two boxes of Xiao Yang fried later." "I can't believe you didn't come out on a date on Christmas Eve?" "Yes, the doctor said she shouldn't make too much noise." "Oh, it won't be?" "Yes, it's been three months, and we're going to get married next month." "Oh, good!" At this time, I suddenly felt that I was not as sad as I thought. Instead, I had a feeling that the dust had settled. I said, "then go and buy it. It's not far from here. I'll take a taxi back." "Since I'm going to send it to you, I'm sure I'll send it home. Get in the car. It's not too late!" When I was lying in the back seat again, blowing the heat, the cheerful music of Christmas was suddenly played on the radio. I looked out of the window. Shanghai was still so lively in the middle of the night. I remembered that a few days ago, I was drunk and ridiculous. I staggered and looked at his back as if it was not as thin as I saw before, but there was a kind of stability. It was written in this book that the most beautiful place is the place I have never been to. The best time is the time that I can't come back to. The only thing I can do is not to be sentimentally attached to it, but to preserve what you already have, not to trample on, not to hurt, not to let it become sporadic and eventually disappear. I opened my phone, deleted all the information about Ann, and even deleted her phone number. At that moment, I felt that Ann finally belonged to her.