We've all been looking.

We are all the same, always looking, stumbling, stumbling, laughing, crying, but still trying to keep our eyes open for fear that we will miss the person we are looking for without seeing a view by the side of the road.

Wen /Yanbo people Chang'an

one

201X, one day Xiao Mu suddenly called me on QQ.

do you have time? This is the beginning of the sentence.

No. I answered.

. Do you want a blind date? The little shepherd asked again.

No. I'll continue to answer.

. I'll give you a chance, said Xiao Mu. Go on a blind date with me.

. Is a blind date such a relaxing and enjoyable thing?!

No. I type.

Oh, come on. Xiao Mu said, my family has set an index for me, there must be eight people a month, but there is only one short of this month. I really can't find a suitable one, so you should do me a favor and do me a favor.

not top. I said, there are so many men waiting for a blind date, you can pick one at random.

Oh, I don't like it. Xiao Mu said. Go ahead, she earnestly seduced, you do not regard as a blind date, that is, old friends meet and eat.

is it my treat? She set me up.

not good. Haha, I just had enough to eat, so I'm not so gullible!

Roast duck. The little shepherd typed two words slowly.

. What day? What time? Where? I asked quickly.

Xiao Mu sent an expression of wild laughter. Then it's decided. If she types, tomorrow, I'll send it to your phone at a specific time and place, lest you forget. I have something to do. I'll go offline first.

I was still immersed in the fantasy of roast duck, and she sent me another message.

by the way, don't say anything when you see my mother.

. Huh?!

and so on, doesn't it mean that old friends meet for dinner? You meet with old friends and take parents?

if I want to ask her again, I find that she is really offline.

your uncle, don't be so deceitful! What does it mean to meet your parents? Can you give me some basic trust? I just want to eat roast duck!

two

on the day of the blind date, I went to dinner with trepidation.

although I know I'm pretending, seeing parents naturally carries a dangerous aura.

when she went to the roast duck restaurant, Xiao Mu sat beside her mother. Xiao Mu waved to me and secretly made a "you know" expression.

I wanted to cry without tears, so I went over and sat down.

Auntie had so much aura that she glanced at me casually. The young man is late. She said.

my legs are weak.

Sorry, traffic jam. I have to say.

do you have a car? The aunt looked a little more serious.

No. Take a taxi. I answered.

so, do you have a house? The aunt asked again.

. No. I'll continue to answer.

do you have a Beijing hukou? The aunt continued to ask.

you guys teamed up to uncover my scars, didn't you?

. No, no. I answered honestly.

Auntie frowned. You have nothing. What are you doing on a blind date? She raised her voice.

I don't know! I'm here to eat roast duck!

this kind of thing cannot be said. The atmosphere on the table was tense, and the little shepherd dared not come out.

I try to straighten my back.

Auntie, I'm here to find true love. I said.

judging from Xiao Mu's expression, I think I'm dead.

the mother of the little shepherd, probably out of courtesy, said nothing and had a polite meal with me.

for the roast duck, I tried my best to hold back and didn't run away.

roll a cookie. Roll another one. The third one in the volume. Xiao Mu tried to make eye contact with me, ignored her, the fourth volume.

the mother of the little shepherd suddenly slapped her chopsticks on the table.

Xiao Mu was startled, and I froze with half a piece of duck in my mouth.

this is wrong. The aunt frowned again. You two are acting here, aren't you?!

it is still the eyes of the elderly. I dared not speak and swallowed the food in my mouth little by little, thinking that if I ordered another roast duck, I would confess.

I didn't expect that Xiao Mu confessed himself first.

it's not you and my dad yet! Xiao Mu began to express his dissatisfaction, insisting that I go on blind dates to eight people a month. How can there be so many people to look at? I have no choice but to ask him to make up the numbers.

she pointed at me. I continued not to speak. I haven't ordered another roast duck yet!

are you reasonable? The aunt turned around and faced the little shepherd. Looking at this posture, I knew it was bad.

sure enough, Xiao Mu's mother did not find a boyfriend to fall in love seriously since she was so old as Xiao Mu. Talking about Xiao Mu's lack of eyesight when she fell in love before she thought she was going to get married, her boyfriend ended up in a different relationship. She also talked about the fact that her colleagues sent her son's candy last year and posted pictures of her granddaughter this year. When it comes to her and Xiao Mu's father, it is not easy, so she hopes that Xiao Mu will marry soon and not be a leftover girl, and finally take a pat on the table. Say that classic line--

I'm not doing it for your own good!

. Does it have anything to do with me?

at this point, I can't eat any more food. There is still half of the roast duck left. I wanted to pack it, but I was stared back by a pair of tearful eyes of the small shepherd.

before leaving, the little shepherd mother also advised me, young man do not love old love, see you are not young, quickly save money to buy a house and buy a car, otherwise who will marry you in the future? My daughter can't marry you.

what else can I say? I had to nod and say, "Yes, Auntie, you're right."

after three

After coming here for a month, I had dinner with Xiao Mu again.

is there enough for eight people this month? I asked her with a smile.

No. The little shepherd said with a straight face, "my mother has lowered the target, and now there are six people a month."

shit, just like selling your body.

I don't talk and drink by myself. Xiao Mu drank a bottle of beer and began to talk more and more.

Why are blind dates so annoying? She said, "Last time, a man just sat down and asked me, how old are you?" When I said I was 27, he said that I was one year older than him, and I probably couldn't. His mother said that he could only find someone younger than him, but he thought I was good, so he had to ask his mother if she agreed. If not, forget it.

I blinked and felt like I knew more about the world.

this is normal. Xiao Mu went on to say that before there was another one, who made an appointment in the coffee shop and did not speak, came in and looked at my information for ten minutes before he said, he thought I was not very good, and he began to talk about how good the girls he had dated before. Some have hundreds of thousands of savings, some are protruding and backward, and some are corporate executives. I couldn't help it, so I asked him what he thought of me. He said, "your condition is not good, so only I am worthy of you."

there is another man. She went on to say that the conditions were not bad, and the garage was complete. As a result, he said in a few words that he thought I was very beautiful and liked me very much, but he could not forget his ex-girlfriend. Can he ask me to wait for half a year? wait for him to forget his ex-girlfriend completely, and then start a formal relationship with me.

who does he think he is? Xiao Mu slammed the bottle on the table, which frightened me.

I didn't know how to talk, so I sat silently, listening to her keep telling these wonderful stories and counting her. I said a total of eighteen before and after. In the end, Xiao Mu himself was in a mess, and he started with the first story. I didn't react until I even said two.

have I already said that? She asked, tilting her head.

I nodded.

Xiao Mu sighed and opened the fifth bottle of beer.

you must think I'm compromising with my parents, she said. It's not exactly a compromise. I also want to get married, I also want to fall in love seriously, I also want to go home every day someone to talk to me, ask me if I am tired today, I also want two people to travel, he held my hand at the wedding and said that he only loves me from now on!

she shook her head. It was too hard, too hard.

I still don't know how to talk.

I don't have such a tricky eye, said Xiao Mu. I have my own garage, and I don't want it. I just want to know someone who looks pleasing to the eye and can talk to each other, who can be gentle. This kind of requirement is not high, is it?

. This kind of request is difficult to meet!

Xiao Mu, who was probably tired of talking, lay down on the table and stared at the wine bottle.

do you think this kind of blind date is useful? She suddenly asked me.

Damn it, I don't know.

it's important that your parents think it's useful.

four

after another two months, I have been busy with my work and haven't had much contact with Xiao Mu. She still keeps the pace of six blind dates a month, sharing her unbearable experiences with me from time to time.

one day, when I was on duty, she suddenly sent me Wechat: I think I can do it this time.

I am very excited. She's finally getting out of the regiment!

when this sentence is sent, there is no more to follow. I didn't reply when I asked her. I was restless all day. I finally waited until I was free to send her Wechat: how's it going?

it took half an hour for the little shepherd to come back: failed.

I hold my cell phone and suddenly feel that the world is cruel.

Xiao Mu called me in the evening and told me the whole story in detail.

this time the man is excellent in all aspects, and it is said that he is also outstanding. Xiao Mu has been blind to the point of numbness. When he sees the general information, it is still bright in front of his eyes.

she has an appointment with the other party. The man asked Xiao Mu to book the restaurant, and on the day of the blind date, he was half an hour late.

Xiao Mu sighed to himself and felt that she had been deceived by the dating materials again.

the man hurried through the door, simply said "traffic jam" and sat down with a straight face. Xiao Mu was just about to ease the atmosphere when he suddenly pulled out his cell phone and said, wait a minute, let me take a picture.

and he took a picture of Xiao Mu.

what are you doing? The little shepherd asked coldly.

I don't want to go on a blind date. My family urged me to come. The man explained, I'll take a picture of you to show them to prove that I was here.

Little Shepherd can't laugh or cry.

she knew very well that the blind date ended early, but she could not lose to each other in terms of momentum, so she smiled, picked up her cell phone and said, "then I'll take a picture of you to prove that I've been here."

as soon as she raised her phone, the expression on the man's face suddenly loosened.

do you like green? He pointed to Xiao Mu's mobile phone case.

mm-hmm. The little shepherd nodded.

I like green, too. The man smiled for the first time.

Xiao Mu was stupefied for a moment. She asked subconsciously, what else do you like?

the man casually mentioned a hobby.

also happens to be a hobby of Little Shepherd.

so they chatted smoothly. At the end of the conversation, the two found that they miraculously had the same likes and interests, listened to the same songs, watched the same movies, been to the same places, and even had the same views on most things.

they sat in the restaurant, chatting from noon to evening. It was dark outside, and the two looked at each other and simply had dinner in the same place.

finish talking about each other.With regard to their preferences, they began to talk about their school days, and then went on to talk about the current situation. Xiao Mu said happily and said his vision for the wedding house in the future. as a result, the two people's expectations of the marriage house were still the same.

. This rhythm of a perfect match, she even told me that she had failed?!

Xiao Mu is very excited. While she was excited, she tried to keep calm, saying that she could not take the initiative.

after talking for a long time, the two men quieted down. Xiao Mu drank a mouthful of water and said nothing, waiting for the man to bring it up and ask her to meet her next time.

the other party suddenly became silent.

one minute, two minutes. The man hesitated for a moment before he said, "I wish I had known you earlier."

Xiao Mu's heart thumped.

the man slowly said a lot more. Xiao Mu just knew that, in fact, he had a girlfriend, but the family did not agree that he must go on a blind date. He said that he could not but his family, so he planned to deal with it casually, saying that he had not taken a fancy to any of them, and then continued to persuade his parents to accept his current girlfriend.

he came on this blind date without telling his girlfriend. He didn't tell his girlfriend a word about his family's opinion.

maybe she has guessed it herself. Xiao Mu said.

the man thought about it and nodded.

as long as she doesn't take the initiative to speak up, I still don't want to tell her. He said, this kind of thing is very painful, it is hurt to both people, since the harm is inevitable, I would rather bear it alone, when I convince my parents, and then tell her the truth, it is not too late.

I will certainly convince them. The man said, with a smile on his face.

Xiao Mu doesn't know how to respond. She is very fond of the man in front of her, but she knows very well that he really loves his girlfriend.

the atmosphere on the table cooled down. They stopped talking, hurriedly finished their meal, checked out and left.

the two walked to the door in silence, ready to say goodbye. Xiao Mu looked at each other's angular side faces, his heart was horizontal, and blurted out: we …. Can I keep in touch?

. Are you shameless? I can't help saying.

you shut up! Xiao Mu called back, I just don't know what to do! I thought at that time. I think I may not meet such a person for a long time.

I listened and said nothing.

Xiao Mu goes on.

after hearing what she said, the man grinned and said, forget it.

I have to take care of my girlfriend's feelings. The man added that I went on a blind date without telling her, met a girl who chatted with me, and kept in touch with each other all the time. For me, I may have a clear conscience, but for her, it is an injury.

it was my fault in the first place. The man finally said, so, forget it. I'm sorry.

then they said goodbye, the man took a taxi and the little shepherd drove home.

that's it. Xiao Mu said.

I don't know what to say at the moment.

is it a pity? I asked her.

on the other end of the phone, Xiao Mu was silent for five minutes and said, "I don't think it's a pity."

when I was driving home, I was very sad. Xiao Mu also said, I want to cry very much. I feel that all the good men in the world have owners. What should I do? But while I was driving, I suddenly figured it out.

is like a street lamp. She said that when the road is so long, there will always be a few street lights that go wrong, but you still have to go ahead. Maybe if you leave it on, you will find that all the street lights in front of you are on.

do you know? She went on to say, in fact, when I think about it now, I was very happy when the man said he couldn't make his girlfriend sad. I suddenly found that there are still such good men in the world, but I haven't met him yet.

maybe I'll keep looking, maybe I don't have to, and one day he jumped out by himself, Xiao Mu continued, but in any case, I don't want to throw in the towel. I'm still young. I still have a lot of time. I can wait.

I have known her for more than two years, and this is the first time I have heard her say "I am still young".

so I am also very happy. Xiao Mu, let's go for a drink! I said.

No. Xiao Mu refused. You must be out of money in your pocket and want to trick me into buying you a drink.

. Am I such a shameless person?!

I'll pay! I got hot in my head and blurted out.

of course, I didn't pay in the end. Xiao Mu stopped me from paying the bill, saying that he thanked me for being scolded by her mother for impersonating my blind date last time.

shit, that's not a thank you.

is it right to at least have another meal of roast duck?

five

after that, it is another half a year.

Xiao Mu is still on her blind date. Her parents have reduced their monthly quota from six to four, and they have to check each one personally, from checking materials to accompanying them all the way.

even so, there are still a lot of strange people. When Xiao Mu was free, he sent me Wechat and told me that I would accept all of them and thought that when I had collected a hundred such stories, I would publish a book.

although he still complains, Xiao Mu seems to be more optimistic. When he meets someone who is wrong, he smiles away. When he meets someone who is good but does not succeed, he still smiles and says it is a pity.

I haven't heard from her for a while.

I don't want to disturb her on my own initiative. Until one day, when chatting with a friend, the friend said that when he went to the mall some time ago, he seemed to see Xiao Mu and a man shopping, holding hands and looking very happy.

but this friend has more than 800 degrees of nearsightedness. He went to wear glasses that day, and he may have read it wrong.

but I prefer to believe that what he sees is right.

just as I insist on believing that Xiao Mu will find her in the end.Fu, maybe now, maybe a long time later.

for no reason, just believe for no reason.

because we are the same, we are all looking for, stumbling, stumbling, laughing and crying, but we still try to keep our eyes open for fear that we will miss the person we are looking for without seeing a view by the side of the road.

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