Wechat hidden rule: there is a kind of respect, called "Please reply"!

almost everyone who uses Wechat has encountered this maddening situation-your message is sent out like a dead end, with no reply at all.

those who do not reply to the message may not see the message, may not have time to reply, or may not bother to reply.

there will always be people who think that some messages "just see it, don't reply", but they ignore the eagerness of the person who sent the message.

"receive a reply" is a basic etiquette on Wechat, which can best reflect a person's character!

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receiving a reply is a kind of respect

once, a friend in human resources complained to me angrily.

she said that her company would hold a regular meeting a few days ago, and the senior leader would also be present, requiring everyone in the company to attend.

at first, she sent a notice on the company's WeChat group, telling them that they would have a meeting tomorrow.

but the message was sent for half an hour, and the group was quiet and there was no one to talk to.

she thought that everyone might be busy or left a message without interrupting, so she sent a notice again, @ everyone, adding a "reply received".

this time, colleagues began to send "received" one after another in the group, but until the end of the day, there were still two colleagues without any reply.

after work, my friend was still worried about it and called the two colleagues directly. As a result, one said, "I'm sorry, I thought I replied," and the other said, "I saw the notice. I just know. I don't have to call you back."

the attitude of the two men angered their friends.

indeed, with the increasing development of modern communication technology, Wechat has almost replaced the phone. In this era when everyone's mobile phone is still in hand, we are used to receiving information, but often forget the important social etiquette of "getting a reply".

I have investigated my friends and found that many people are not in the habit of "getting a reply".

some people say they are "lazy cancer" and don't bother to reply this kind of notification information.

some people said, "I've been notified anyway, so I'll just follow the notice."

some people say, "I get a lot of notifications a day, and it's too troublesome to reply to each one."... "

is it really that troublesome to respond to the word "received" in less than 10 seconds by moving your fingers?

heart to heart, have you ever thought about how anxious it would be if the person who sent the notice could not receive feedback from everyone? How worried?

in order to confirm that the other person has really received the message, the person who sends the notification often has to be patient and talk in private one by one, which is really a waste of time and energy.

and if we can take the initiative to reply "copy", it will make the other person a lot easier.

this is not only a kind of respect for others, but also the embodiment of our own sense of responsibility.

people who know how to be considerate and respect others, their character will not be bad!

02

people who respond to things

have seen such a question on Zhihu:

one of the highly praised answers is:

I think so.

the word "receive" seems simple, but it contains a spirit of contract.

replied "received", as if to say, "I know and understand this!" "I will finish the task on time!"

abiding by the contract and taking the initiative to assume one's own responsibility is a reliable and responsible performance.

in the "logical thinking" program, the host Luo Zhenyu once told a story:

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in order to demonstrate Luo Zhenyu, the old reporter picked up the phone and called Haier's headquarters.

after the phone got through, he said directly, "I'm looking for Luo Zhenyu."

the customer service at headquarters did not snub and asked, "which department is he from, please?"

the veteran reporter casually made up a department, and the customer service wrote it down and said, "give me a few minutes. I'll check it out and ask him to call you back."

the name and department are made up, and we all know that the final result must be "check no such person". Generally speaking, when you come here, it will be regarded as a harassing phone call, so forget it.

but after a while, they received another call from Haier's customer service: "Haier checked all over, but couldn't find this guy."

finding someone is not a difficult task, but the difficulty lies in doing a thing from beginning to end and turning a task into a "closed loop".

details can be found in character, even for an switchboard operator, which shows the dedication and reliability of the whole enterprise.

I have seen such a short story on the Internet.

the leader of a company asked his employee Xiao Ming to apply for the qualification certificate the company needs.

three days have passed and no reply has been received.

the leader finally couldn't help writing a private letter to Xiao Ming and asked, "have you got the certificate yet?"

Xiaoming said, "it was done yesterday."

the leader asked, "Why didn't you say so in advance?"

Xiao Ming replied, "you didn't ask!"

after listening to this, the leader felt that Xiaoming was very unreliable and that he would not leave it to him to do anything important in the future.

Buffett, the god of stock, once said: "Reliability is a more important quality than intelligence."

and "reply" and "feedback" are actually the best proof of a person's reliability.

big things depend on ability, trifles on character.

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receiving a reply is a kind of care

some people say:

in fact, you don't have to "second" the messages on Wechat, whether they are from your family or colleagues, but you must "reply".

even if you say "busy, come back later", you can avoid worries and guesses in the minds of the people who send you messages.

friend Shaddock said that when she first fell in love, she often felt tangled and sad because her boyfriend didn't reply his messages.

she usually sends several messages:

"have you received my message?"... "

while the other party is like a well, there is no reply at all.

when Shaddock couldn't bear to ask questions, her boyfriend apologized again and again, saying that he had muted his phone during the meeting and had just watched TV in the living room. He didn't know that he had received a message on his phone.

this kind of unresponsive emotion often makes grapefruit feel worried about gain and loss, and often secretly angry.

later, when Shaddock and his boyfriend explained their feelings seriously, the boyfriend realized the seriousness of the problem and promised that his cell phone would never be muted again when he got home and would reply to Shaddock's message in a serious and timely manner.

later, their Wechat conversations went back and forth, grapefruit no longer worried about gains and losses, and their relationship became more and more stable.