Tokyo Women's Atlas. Enviable life. What on earth is it like?

If you choose vanity, you have to pay the price of vanity. The rule of adults is that they are willing to lose

the hostess Aya was born in Akita Prefecture in northeastern Japan and spent the first 20 years of her life with a lovely appearance. Because I was not willing to be a quiet woman for many years, I went to Tokyo after graduating from college and began to pursue my ideal life.

I also learned the three mysteries of a happy life.

one, desire

Aya is an out-and-out material girl who set a life goal of "wanting to be an enviable person" at the age of 17. In her 20 years of floating in the east (Beijing), this sentence has constantly influenced her choice.

the desire to be 20 years old is to stand out.

she lives in a low-rent business district and dreams of becoming a different woman with both a career and love. She works hard and lives hard.

she falls in love with a gentle and handsome fellow townsman and participates in a weekly fellowship where she has a chance to catch a rich son-in-law.

she sees her future in this pilling underwear and is determined to change her hometown boyfriend to be gentle and handsome as soon as possible, cook for her, and accompany her for a walk. She cried happily but still persuaded herself not to get lost in this readily available happiness.

25Murray's 30-year-old desire is to enter high society through marriage.

at the age of 25 or 6, she became a brand manager and received a salary that was unmatched by her peers. She also got what she wanted to be with a rich and handsome man, and everything went unbelievably smoothly.

at the age of 27 or 8, the wheels of fate are always similar. Gao Fu Shuai left without saying goodbye, just like her ex-boyfriend from her hometown.

only after being dumped did Aya know that Gao Fu Shuai, who was talking about unmarriageism, actually cheated on a young and beautiful model

. Only after she was dumped did Aya know that Gao Fu Shuai, who was talking about unmarriageism, actually cheated on a young and beautiful model

the desire of 30-35 years old is to find a man who can support his wife to fulfill her dream.

30 years old, she changed to a higher-paying but more stressful job to maintain a high-spending life. The boss of the white bone girl was very hard on her, and under increased pressure, she met a man who could give her a breath and bring her into upper-class life.

she became a disdainful mistress of many people and began to enjoy both mental and physical pleasure.

33, she was stimulated by her peers who were surrounded by her children and was determined to start a family.

she left the upper-class man and began the arduous road of dating. At this time, she found that the dating market was very unfriendly to women over the age of 30. Her career and personal aesthetic efforts are worthless here.

just find a good partner. Although the object is old and ugly, he has a luxury apartment and an annual salary of 9 million yen (540000 yuan). Most importantly, he said he hoped he could help his wife fulfill his dream.

Aya thinks she can finally settle down in this city.

desire between the ages of 35 and 40 is the truth of finding a happy life.

at the age of 37 or 8, Aya discovered the truth behind the so-called happy marriage.

although the husband earns more, he hardly touches the housework; although they have similar incomes, they are very different in aesthetics and tastes because of their different growth paths. Aya thinks that the next generation is a natural thing, but the husband thinks that the child is one of the necessary medals for women, and even regards giving birth as a task.

the most ridiculous thing is that his phrase "willing to support his wife's dream" actually comes from the best-selling blind date book on the market.

she began to think, what is true happiness?

II. Cheating

desire can't be satisfied all the time, so what's the secret to maintaining happiness? It is also one of the laws to deal with this cruel society, three words: deceive yourself.

33-year-old Aya broke up with a rich married man, thinking that he would have a lot of unbearable feelings. As a result, the man left without looking back. It is simply ridiculed by the whole world. I thought I had already accepted the rules of the game of love, but I still feel cheated when I lose it.

the angry Aya called the man's original match: "your old man is having an affair." The other party's reaction was very interesting, just "Oh", and then began to answer the phone before the auction, without any emotional waves, as if nothing had happened.

until Aya herself became the woman who survived the marriage. When she found the secret book of matchmaking, Aya was not even surprised and instantly regained her calm.

Aya, a 40-year-old with a divorce certificate, slept with a fresh meat waiter in a coffee shop. What's wrong with believing that the other person simply likes himself?

she finally stopped worrying about the other party's purpose in getting close to her.

also stopped worrying about whether life gave her an egg or a bomb.

3. Be willing to gamble and lose

if there is only desire and deception in life, it would be too boring. This show tells us more than these two points.

all the way around, past the intersection of people and all kinds of men, Aya suddenly stopped. She began to think about what kind of life she wanted after all.

first love is gentle and down-to-earth, but it can not provide rich food and clothing.

Gao, rich, handsome, and married men can give her everything she wants, except marriage;

the old ugly husband gave her marriage, but let her know the flashy truth;

the handsome young man made her understand that she was no different from the rich men she had been attached to, at least in appearance.

with each step forward, she is trying a different life, but she seems to be standing still forever. She envies strong independent women and housewives surrounded by her children; she longs for a life in the spotlight as well as plain happiness.

the cleverest thing about the screenwriter is that these people with completely different lifestyles whom the heroine envies say the same sentence: "I am very happy." This is not a compromise to the cruel status quo, let alone an added satire for the sake of irony.

Ayakaya said this to her cheating husband with a smile

the truth of life is not perfect. Accepting yourself is the first step to happiness. This is an adult attitude. If you choose a sharp knife, you will know that the tip of the knife will rush toward you one day. Choose to protect their tortoiseshell, you will know that you are not destined to go far away.

finally, Aya found a well-matched partner and still secretly envied a couple dressed up in high society on the street.

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how nice! She was not defeated by life after all, and she still had the courage and strength to fight.

what does an enviable life look like?

just dry your tears, nod, and move on.