Three percent shrewd and seven percent kind to others.

as the ancients said, "you must have the heart to harm others, and you must have the heart to guard against others."

be honest, but blindly sincere, do not know how to prevent, you have to stumble after all.

the heart is unfathomable, so we have to guard against it, and we can keep it shrewd and can see through it.

treat others with seven points of kindness in order to get the help of dignitaries and make true friends.

in dealing with the world wisely and recognizing the evils of the human heart, in the final analysis, it is necessary to be a kind and kind-hearted man.

01

I have seen such a cartoon.

the two men standing on stools had ropes hanging around their necks.

A man, with a knife in his hand, cut the rope for the friend on the other side, sincerely protecting the other side's safety.

while the other kicked his stool at his feet, trying to kill each other.

when you cut the rope for others, they are kicking your stool without even knowing it.

this cartoon shows the sinister and unfathomable nature of the human heart.

people who can't see others clearly are just blindly kind and will inevitably be tricked.

it is a kind of self-protection to stay smart and see the hearts of the people clearly.

people who have seen the movie "there are no thieves" must be impressed by the silly root played by Wang Baoqiang.

he went home by train with his savings from working for many years, and shouted at the railway station that he had brought a large sum of money with him, which aroused the thoughts of many thieves.

along the way, thanks to the sincere protection of Liu Dehua and Liu Ruoying, who are also thieves, he went home safe and sound with the money.

in real life, it is much more cruel than movies. If a person doesn't know how to guard against it, he probably doesn't even know how to die.

people who trust people all over the world are clearly stupid, and those who do not know how to guard against others will suffer in the end.

like this sentence very much:

you can see the person on the other side clearly, you don't have to say it clearly, be aware of it, take precautions, and don't believe all strangers.

the world is not as good as you think, and it is far from as bad as you think. Only when you know it clearly and take precautions against it can you walk smoothly on the road of life.

02

these eight words are taught by the father of Zheng Shihua, a well-known entrepreneur.

and tell him: "as long as you do these eight words, your career will be successful."

once heard such a story:

after attending the banquet, the rich businessman accidentally dropped a copper coin in front of the hotel. Unfortunately, the copper coin rolled into the ditch.

the service staff of the hotel hurried forward and helped him pick up the coins.

the rich merchant wiped the coin clean, took it into his wallet, and took out a hundred-yuan bill as a tip to thank the waiter.

his entourage is a little confused. The rich businessman's explanation is that

should cherish every penny and let it give full play to its value, but for other people's help, it is priceless and should be politely thanked. It is his heart.

in matters of value, you should be good at calculating and be able to protect your career.

in dealing with the world, we should treat others with leniency, which is the best way to forge a good relationship.

Xiao Yun Zi, the eunuch around Zhen Huan in the Legend of Zhen Huan, can be said to be the most loyal to his master.

when Zhen Huan was an unfavored concubine, Xiao Yozi was on the night shift one day, crying under the outdoor window. She was heard by Zhen Huan and asked why.

it turned out that Xiao Yoshiko's family was seriously ill, and he couldn't go back to see him.

Zhen Huan did not treat him as a subordinate, but understood that he was also of flesh and blood with father and brother affection, and immediately allowed him to go home to visit his relatives, fulfilling his wish.

it is Zhen Huan's kindness to others in exchange for the loyal protection of the other party.

just like that sentence:

No one's life is always favorable. If you are willing to hold an umbrella for others when they encounter wind and rain, it will be possible for you to have someone to protect you from the wind and rain when you are in the wind and rain.

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No matter how talented life is, in the end, the person who walks best always wins with kindness.

03

A netizen once posted a sentence in moments:

"there is a ruler in life and a degree in doing things."

leave some space for others, but also leave room for yourself.

this world is not one person's world, but everyone's world, so there is room for everything. "

I think so.

Granny Liu in A Dream of Red Mansions, a peasant woman in the village, was ridiculed and teased by Wang Xifeng and others, wearing flowers all over her head.

she knew it in her heart, but she said, "I don't know how many lives I've been blessed."

Wang Xifeng gave her clumsy chopsticks and let her eat small quail eggs, waiting to see her jokes.

she followed the act. Quail eggs fell to the ground, and she mocked herself and said, "how about one or two dollars?" It was gone without hearing a sound. "

made the people of Jia Fu roar with laughter.

Wang Xifeng, afraid of something wrong with her, explained to her that it was to amuse the old lady, not to tease her.

on the contrary, Grandma Liu said, "as long as girls and wives are happy, everything is worth it."

she pretended to be confused and cooperated with Wang Xifeng in acting. On the contrary, she won the respect of Wang Xifeng and others, knowing that she was really sensible.

it is the wisdom of a man to see through the world with one-third shrewdness and treat others with seven percent kindness.

keeping one-third shrewd is the yardstick of being a man, the standard of measuring the hearts of the people, and also a kind of effective self-protection.

to be kind is the degree of a person's life, the foundation of human nature to treat others with sincerity, and the basis for winning the help of valuable people.

people can pretend to be confused, not really confused. Keep three percent sober and seven percent honest to be a good person.

04

as the saying goes, "ghosts are not terrible, because they cannot be seen, and people's hearts are terrible because they cannot be guessed."

if you are too kind, you will always be bullied, because the kinder you are, the more considerate and patient you are, you will often get a lot of harm.

Don't be foolish and be kind-hearted. Set aside three points of shrewdness to see whether the other person is worth our efforts.

because "in this world, people who see your jokes will always care more than they care about you."

I can be nice to you, but please don't trample my bottom line.

I can be a kind person, but please don't take me for a fool.

be grateful to those who really treat you well, and stay away from those who "you cut the rope for him and he kicks the stool for you".

the person who tramples on you is because of your credulity, the person who helps you, because of your kindness, and all causation comes from your own character.

shrewdly distinguish between the good and the bad, treat others with kindness, and maintain the background of human nature.

as Luo Guanzhong sighed in the 60th chapter of the Romance of the three Kingdoms: be lenient to others, be gentle and overcome strength, and heroes are invincible.

when you are alive, it is enough to be a little more confused and shrewd. To be kind to others, to be kind to others and to be kind to yourself is actually good to yourself.

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