This is the only kind of girl who can remain attractive for a long time.
In the second half of life, the enemy is the only one left.
temporary confusion is not terrible.
the terrible thing is that there is nothing I can do about confusion.
Life can't just keep your head down.
you must have an immediate goal.
at least equip yourself first, and
refuse to stop.
I have always been a very nostalgic person, always nostalgic for people and things in the past. So I am also very keen to attend classmate reunions, for nothing else, recalling those once vibrant faces will always make me feel very young.
tidied up and drove excitedly to the city center to attend a party that had been away for a long time. When I came to the inviting hotel, walked across the corridor, and walked into the hall, familiar and unfamiliar faces appeared in front of me. When I was reunited, I covered my mouth and laughed so much that I couldn't speak. After everyone shook hands warmly, greeted each other, and introduced myself, I woke up like a dream. People I hadn't seen for years had changed one by one. We talk about careers, family, old people, and children together. During the exchange of pleasantries, I observed some subtle changes.
some of the high achievers in the class at that time still have the same elegant demeanor, and in our eyes, good students seem to be like this. High achiever Minmin has just finished studying accounting in Melbourne and has recently returned home to work in meditation. She was a very calm girl when she was a student. When she went to school for boarding, I could always see her burning the midnight oil. Now she also has a lawyer's certificate and an accounting certificate and is a financial executive of a company valued at hundreds of billions of dollars.
in fact, for people like Min-min, most of the changes are what we expect. But there was a former high achiever who surprised the people present.
You used to be my deskmate. When I was at school, she ranked first in the grade, and she always had a place in the top three. She is the kind of person who can easily get a scholarship without effort in everyone's eyes. Now, because of the trough of her career, I always see her frown at parties, her hairline is getting higher and higher, and her behavior and conversation are not as good as before. I looked at her for a long time before I recognized her.?.
only after chatting several times did I know that she slowly slackened down after graduation and unwittingly ran counter to her creed in life. Casually found a relatively easy job, accustomed to doing mechanical work step by step in the workplace, not going up or down, with a salary increase similar to that of social security adjustment every year.
she told me that it was normal to hang out every day in that company, and everyone else had their strengths, only she became a dispensable screw and almost became a person who could be replaced in the end. Unconsciously, she lost her sense of self-choice, and from then on she was at a loss and could no longer find her original self.
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I not only sigh that this person who was always ranked first 10 years ago has been eliminated by the fittest in the current of this era, and she was once a complacent person. What on earth made her stagnant?. What made her look like what she is today, she knows how warm and cold she is.
between pushing the cup and changing the cup, I found that there was a particularly dazzling person on the dinner table. If the leisurely change made us feel compassionate and saddened unexpectedly, then she surprised all the students. Now Guan Yue has no trace of mediocrity at that time. After pleasantries, everyone knew that she was already the brand director of a well-known foreign-funded company. She is usually busy at work, so she took the opportunity to visit her relatives to meet us this time. She is no longer the "grass" who used to grow silently, her manner is elegant and generous, her expression is confident and determined, and her smile is as bright as summer flowers.
I remember that Guan Yue was the least existential girl in the class when she was a student. She was introverted and not very talkative, and her grades were always mediocre.
when she just graduated, she also hit a brick wall everywhere and changed several jobs. When she is scared, she always tells herself that she is not competitive, which is a terrible thing. Now she has the amazing professional ability at work, and when I was really curious about her know-how, she secretly told me that she had not dared to slack off until she got these joyful gains. I was especially afraid of the kind of life that I could see at a glance.
after graduation, she has been firm in her belief and aimed at the door of a foreign-funded enterprise. She knows very well that if she wants to push that door open, she must possess some indispensable skill. Before entering a foreign company, she refused the temptation of all external invitations and studied English in a down-to-earth manner for several months. When others go out to eat, drink and play, she studies in the library; she studies at home when others are chasing Korean dramas and watching fresh meat, and she is still studying hard while others are still sleeping in.
No matter when and where she can learn on any occasion.
Guan Yue said that for modern women, self-reliance is the biggest bargaining chip. If you learn English, not to mention the prospect of promotion at work, the whole person's aura and the pattern will take on a new look and walk in the wind. Well, I saw her the moment I saw her.
Gao Xiaosong once said in an interview: "in the second half of life, the enemy is the only one left." When I think of Guan Yue, I understand how valuable it is to be loyal to the study that is always hot in my heart. What people fear most is that the slackness that has been dormant for a long time in the depths of my heart appears, but you don't want to defeat it.
the temporary confusion in front of me is not terrible, but there is nothing I can do about it. Life can not just bow to the road, there must be an immediate goal, walking while groping, when you do not know what the future will be, at least slowly equip yourself, can not stop.
so I also deeply realize that learning English well is a sharp weapon in the workplace, your employment options will become wider, and there will be more and more opportunities. Many of the people I know are in English.Color and stand out in the company, to rise to the top.
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there is a long way to go.
May you and I live the way we imagined.
good night, you and the world.
Goodnight, all and you.