There are some things you don't need to be clear about.
Leave some room for imagination in the relationship.
I had dinner with a friend the other day. She and her boyfriend have been in love for three years and plan to get married after graduation. I envy her and ask her how she has managed her relationship in the past three years. She told me: if you want to have a stable relationship, don't think too much about it, it is the most precious at the moment.
is the most precious at the moment.
I remember that earlier when I went out on a date with a boy, I would keep in mind for a long time that he was perfect everywhere and super patient and considerate to me. As everyone knows, this is just a way to get along with each other, even if it is not me, he will do so.
imagine the future with a smile. His hand is on your shoulder and you have figured out the name of the child in the future. When we fall in love, we always have delusions of one kind or another, expecting too much for the future, but neglecting to cherish the present.
We set each other as a partner for the rest of our lives, so we subconsciously set higher standards on him and want more love, more care, and more greetings. so, again and again, can not meet the inner standards of satisfaction, deduction points to each other again and again.
We always forget that it is the most precious at the moment.
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walking some people may only be able to walk together for a long time, while others may be able to walk for a lifetime. Fate is elusive, so why should we force a scribbled ending? When that person is by your side, it should be the happiest time, with love, care, and company.
I don't care how much you will do for me. But you took me by the hand, took me around almost half of the city, you took off your coat and wrapped me tightly, you told me that I was afraid I would catch a cold, I watched the streetlamp hit at your feet, and your figure pulled a good-looking arc in the night.
all I need is you by my side.
people who feel that love hurts, the group of people who always worry too much, want to make a clear distinction between love and hate. But in love, there is nothing clear, everything is clear, you will see the mess and scars everywhere.
if you plant flowers intentionally, they will not blossom, and willows will grow into shade unintentionally. Sometimes, people who are often not so attentive to personnel, the thin water will be light forever; on the contrary, those who believe in the heart that it is the result, but how can not go to the future. Most of the things in the world are ridiculous, and when we look back on the past years later, we will certainly be saddened.
do romantic things with a lover. A little thing is enough to light the fire. The tacit understanding of holding hands, the temperature of hugging, the sincerity of kissing, the moment you say you love me, I believe you.
not all promises can be fulfilled, but the sincerity of making promises must be true at that time. We were all willing to give everything for each other at some point, and we wanted to hold each other in the palm of our hand and never put it down.
the friend mentioned at the beginning of the article said to me when he left: I don't know why, I thought this relationship would come to nothing like other relationships, but the two of us just walked here. Now we should be inseparable. We all regard each other as family, loving, affectionate, and friends who know each other best.
get along with a variety of postures, this kind of slow and leisurely relationship for a long time is too enviable. A lot of feelings fall apart, can not find any absolute reason, always think of a tacit understanding, but few two people are made for each other. Feelings become considerate, gentle, and appropriate in the constant running-in.
Don't always think about the future, it's the most important thing in the present.