The process of losing | "there is jet lag in losing someone."
When will you realize he's really gone?
physicist Feynman didn't shed a tear when his wife died of illness. He looked at his wife as if she were asleep. Until more than a month later, Feynman saw a beautiful dress in a shop in Oak City. He thought, "Elaine will love it." he couldn't help himself and burst into tears.
the comment that received the highest praise said: I realized at this moment that I lost you.
A few days after the breakup, I didn't feel much about his leaving. I still asked my friends out to eat, drink and have fun. I thought it was good to be single at last. Once when I went out to eat hot pot with my best friend, she said that I didn't look like I broke up at all. I dressed so delicately that there was no sign of sadness.
at that time, I thought that I was a very resilient person, and it would not be long before I could devote myself to the next relationship.
when did you realize that he left?
one night my friend called me for a voice chat. We each did our things and occasionally said what we thought. When we were silent, we only heard the thin hum of the signal, and for a moment, I seemed to hear his voice calling me, "baby".
when we were together, we used to do our things by voice. When two people had nothing to say, they would be silent, and then he would suddenly say "baby". I answered him "um". He would pretend to be aggrieved and say, "you don't talk. I thought you hung me up."
but it was only at that moment that I realized that he had left when no one would ever make a voice call again, and when neither of them spoke, the word "baby" came out quietly.
there are times when you feel sad after the hindsight, thinking that you have let it go, but after a long time, when you pass by a familiar place, see a familiar movie and hear a familiar song, the appearance of that person will suddenly appear in your mind.
how beautiful the past was, and realized how to hurt it was at the moment of parting.
when Gigi broke up, he said to me: I finally broke up. I am not happy together at all. I must have a good time when I am single.
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at that time, she said that she no longer had the same feelings about her boyfriend, and her daily concern was like nagging in her ears. she was unwilling to face the conflicts between the two people and was too lazy to solve them. Finally, she thought it would be better to break up.
when I met her later, she said another thing to me: when I was apart, I thought it was nothing. After a long time, I felt as if there was nothing around me, no one was home, and no one called me up in the morning to bring me breakfast. I don't know how to cherish a lot of things when I have them.
there are a lot of people in love who miss it in this way. when they are together, they find fault with each other, and only when they force each other away, do they realize that they were hypocritical at the beginning. I only know how to cherish it when I lose it, and I want to save it, but then it's too late.
there is a moment when I miss him very much, seeing the scenery in my eyes and listening to the songs in my ear are all memories related to him. It was only at that time that I realized his good, his efforts, his grievances, and realized what a bad person he was.
there is no relationship without suffering, and some people are afraid, so they rush to escape at the first sign of contradiction; some people are still in love, so even if they are greatly aggrieved, they do not want to be separated from their loved ones.
people and people all need to go through hardships together,
to better understand each other and get along with each other better.
if there is such a person around you, please cherish
Don't wait for capriciousness to regret not being able to protect you.
when it comes to emotion, you can still want to see:
"I like gentle people so much."
I want to fall in love.
Don't get married before the age of 30
passive people fall in love.
you used to be nice to me.