The charm of a man lies in what he has experienced.

Chapter 1.

I have a female friend who is very close. We have known each other for more than ten years.

when I was in high school, I chose to go to an art college, but she was actually more versatile than me. There are not many roadblocks on the so-called guidance set up by my parents. In Shandong, for a girl, when the so-called science was king a few years ago, choosing art seemed to mean that I would not be able to eat when I was growing up in the future. At that time, I told her that you should go to the art exam with me. In fact, I could see how eager she was to be with me, but after thinking about it with her family, she decided to extinguish the craving in her eyes and finally chose the accountant.

A few years ago, it was said at that time that science was good for employment, so everyone tried their best to squeeze into science, and those who chose liberal arts and arts were always discriminated against and said that they must have a bad brain or poor grades. Reason represents excellence. But I don't believe it. I got 150% in three main courses in the college entrance examination. I got 135 in Chinese, 130 in English and 130 in maths. When I finally chose art, I came to the Communication University with a score of 630. if you can choose, be sure to choose something you love, something you don't love, even if you choose, and get good grades, what's the use? Rewrite fate, in their own small choice: choose what you like.

Chapter 2.

I went to college and began to hear new remarks.

A girl must choose a stable career, become a teacher, take an examination of a civil servant, marry a good old man who can stabilize your financial life, and then have a child. As a task before the age of 30, it is done. this may also mean that this junction is the end and the beginning of another period of fate, from this "dot" to the endless repetition of the same life path for the rest of life.

my character is very stubborn, I am not reconciled, I hope that, like ink drops, I can follow my heart and pursue the life I yearn for. Last year, this friend of mine said that she was really not interested in accounting. she wanted to study acting. I said, as long as it is what you want and what you want to pursue, I will support you, because every choice you have to make will affect your fate. We sigh for fate, but fate is made by ourselves.

in fact, every step of life's journey is unique, and it doesn't matter whether it's right or wrong. Our lives are full of challenges and unknown choices. Sometimes we regret the decisions we made, but when time goes by, we look back and find that every decision has made us who we are today.

Chapter 3.

We are no longer a dot.

yesterday there was a high school classmate who had been out of touch for a long time. She added my Wechat through someone else. I have been missing for several years, and it seems that I have suddenly returned to my student days when I had nothing to do with pleasantries. She said she now works in a bank, works as a cashier at the front desk, mechanically repeats the work of collecting money every day, and then sometimes forces a smile. She saw my Weibo and thought I was living a good life. I could do what I like, be a freelance photographer, take pictures and write articles. But she hates her job very much. I said, our paths are all chosen by ourselves. In fact, we should know what other people are going through behind what we can see in front of us.

if that's right, I remember that in high school she was a girl who loved to dress up and was clean and beautiful. at that time, she wanted to take part in the acting department of Nortel, and she could always see her performing in the drama club at the back of the classroom during the recess. We all laughed at her for being smug, but we all had confidence in her. As a result, during the college entrance examination, her father ordered her to apply to a normal school, and she did not resist, but just felt that she also wanted to be stable. After we set foot on university campuses in different directions, we all dispersed. Goodbye is now. I can see that she is not very satisfied with her choice, but she told me that she still wants to come to Beijing, she is ready, and she will come as soon as she is ready. "I still want to do what I like. I can start with my internship." . in fact, we should bravely follow our original heart. It's a rough road, but if we can do what we like, we won't be afraid of hardship.

Chapter 3.

I never magnify my difficulties, because this is my own choice, and of course there is no sweet without suffering.  

and the charm of a person lies in what he has experienced.

once I was huddled in the middle of the big and small woven bags of Spring Festival travel on the overnight green leather train. I stood with my suitcase for 14 hours, and my feet were swollen when I got off, from the dry and cold snow in the north to the wet and cold snow in the south. When I first arrived in Beijing, because there were too many students for the exam, I could no longer book a hotel, and in order to save money on travel expenses, I found a half-basement at the school gate. The room was only six square meters. As soon as I entered the door, there was a bed, no Scald, no heating. In winter, I put all my clothes on the quilt and put on three layers of socks before I could barely keep warm. I don't let my parents follow me, because I don't want them to suffer, and I'm stubborn. I think I should do all the things I want by myself.

so when I received the news of the second test and the third test, I hid in bed.I don't feel cold at all.   maybe only when you have worked so hard,  

will you feel like you really deserve it when you get something.

Chapter 4.

I have too many such colleagues, friends, boys will be restricted less, girls seem to follow the established track, if work can not be chosen again, then we can also choose interests other than work, if the trajectory of life cannot be chosen, but we can still choose lovers, there is nothing we can not make decisions by ourselves, some, just do not dare to try. When ink drops in water, ink chooses water, and the track formed by the free flow of ink is our way.

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