The best happiness: something to do, something to love, something to look forward to
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
01
what is happiness is a clich é question.
my partner says that happiness is ten years of practicing the same boat and a hundred years of sleeping together; parents say that happiness is a family reunion and family health; friends say that happiness is when you laugh, I am still there when you cry.
this question, maybe everyone has a different answer. But the same thing is that you and I have never stopped the pace of pursuing happiness.
have you ever thought that happiness is all around us and there is no need to look for it? As long as we have the heart, happiness will be hidden by you and me.
Roman Roland said:
the heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom.
there are things to do, although it will keep people busy. But it is this busyness that makes life more meaningful and restores its own value.
I once heard of a foreign pediatrician who opened a clinic at the age of 91.
countless children have been cured by her, and what is even more surprising is that old people who are nearly 100 years old are still busy in their posts as doctors.
when people asked the doctor why she wanted to give up a comfortable and happy retirement and choose to be busy, she said, "as long as I have a job, I feel a lot of fun."
I have something to do. Although it brings people busyness and exhaustion, life is full of rush. Such a life is undoubtedly happy.
02
in an unaffectionate world, it is probably the happiest thing to meet a person with a white head and choose one to grow old.
Get set to buy a stunning empire wedding dresses and be the centre of attention. The available collection can go well with all occasion.
shortly after marriage, Liang Yusheng's shortcomings were exposed. After repeated persuasion, the wife finally had to quit her job and take care of her husband wholeheartedly.
until Liang Yusheng announced his pen closure at the age of 60, he traveled around the world with his wife for the next three years. Three years later, Liang Yusheng suddenly announced that he would emigrate to Australia.
when friends asked about this, they knew that Australia was Liang Yusheng's wife's favorite country.
maybe we spend our whole lives looking for happiness, career success, and wealth growth.
but in fact, happiness is just someone who knows you are warm and cold, someone who is with you, and someone who wishes you well.
Happiness is that someone loves you all the time.
03
if life is a blank book, then expectation is the pen for writing.
No one knows whether the future plot of the book is wonderful, but because there is such a pen, there is something to look forward to every day in the future.
as long as there are expectations in mind, there is happiness.
some time ago, I watched a video about expectation:
there is such a poor mother and daughter. When her daughter saw that bean sprouts sold well, she said to her mother, can we try to grow bean sprouts and sell them?
Mom said let's try. So she collected plastic bottles discarded by others, as well as mung beans, and her daughter tried to grow bean sprouts.
Unfortunately, the first two times failed. Just as the little girl was ready to give up with a sad face, the mother said to the little girl, "Let's try again." I'm sure we can do it this time! "
this time, mother and daughter finally succeeded.
Yes, never give up expectations in front of life.
because we have expectations, we will find that most of the time we are only one step away from happiness. That is, let us persevere in front of life and finally harvest our own happiness.
I once thought that happiness means living idle without working; I once thought that happiness was living in the most beautiful mansion and driving the most stylish sports car; I once thought that happiness meant success and material abundance.
later I realized that happiness is actually very simple. But when you have something to do at hand, your lover wakes up with a good morning and is looking forward to life.
Happiness is all around us.
May you and I live a full life and not waste our time.
May someone know that you are warm and cold and spend your whole life with you.
May you and I have something to look forward to and hope for.