The best for the rest of my life

"Mom, I'm sorry, I'm sick." This is a sentence from the listener's message.

he is 35 years old, old and young. in order to make a living, he often works the night shift, but he was diagnosed with a tumor not long ago.

he himself is not afraid, but worried about his wife and children, as well as his 65-year-old mother.

the words "I'm sick" are cruel words that represent too much bitterness and guilt.

when death holds a person to the ground, how many people really understand that sentence: in this world, apart from life and death, which is not a small thing?

01

"I've made enough money. I want to live."

this is a circle of friends with an unfamiliar name on Wechat, which hurts my heart.

I pretended to be an old friend and sent him a Wechat message:

"what's wrong? Are you all right? "

he quickly replied: "liver cancer."

he often goes to bed at 3 o'clock in the evening, attends various business dinners, and drinks himself unconscious.

33 years old, with an annual salary of 400000 yuan, a house and a car, planning to get married on National Day, an illness disrupted his plans.

he said:

"I always thought I was young and physically able to handle it, but I didn't expect it!"

after talking to him, I couldn't sleep. He is the epitome of thousands of overdrawn workers.

do not want to go to work continuously, stay up late and work overtime.

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but many people forget that there is no fluke in life. When you lose your health, you are just a patient with nothing to lose between breathing and breathing.

perhaps it is not the disease itself that defeats us, but the long and difficult road to survival after the illness.

behind every patient, there is a heavy common question:

how should we choose between ideal and health, poverty and disease, relatives and money?

selling houses, loans, crowdfunding, this is not only a disaster for ordinary families to survive, but also the suffering of poverty that ordinary people have to face.

Disease also has butterfly effect, it is not only the financial burden, but also the disintegration of the family, the fragmentation of the family, the despair of the parents, the weakness of the children.

all of this makes the sick person feel guilty and uneasy, and make the sick family feel painful.

so, you might as well ask yourself two questions:

is the life you are pursuing worth your constant overdraft?

02

recently, your moments must have been scrubbed by a picture.

the recovery of the "stall economy" has set off the trend of setting up stalls, but behind this, I see the bitterness of adults.

the post-90s stall guy earns 70,000 yuan a month, which is the envy of many people. Setting up the stall is like a match to illuminate the lives of most people, and the light of hope is getting bigger and bigger.

get up at 5: 00 in the morning to cook gluten, cut gluten and buy vegetables. I go home at 12:00 in the evening, every day.

the barbecue stall is the hope of survival, and the prefix of 70,000 is to lose 20 jin.

between heaven and earth, all sentient beings suffer, and behind some difficulties is the soul with clenched teeth.

those who have suffered a lot will not make a sound. You tell them that health is important, but you can't help them pay rent, utilities, car loans, and three meals a day.

in the adult world, there is no word easy, and late at night, the streets are full of ninjas.

We are all ninjas, but if we endure, hold on like this and overdraw our bodies, we may not get what we want.

Qingqing, who hasn't updated her moments for a month, suddenly appeared yesterday. Only when asked did she know that she had been paralyzed for a month.

her son is ill. In order to see her son, she ran the risk of running to several cities and finally fell down.

she said that unexpectedly, her son's small accident beat her back to her original shape, and her body was too fragile.

illness is the dividing point of life. Before illness, many people rely on their youth, irregular meals, staying up late, drinking and clubbing, and never worry about their health.

it is only after illness that they understand that only health is precious wealth.

nowadays, there are always some kind of charity donations in moments. When the person is ill, the family savings have nothing.

such a case is not surprising, but many people's kindness is running out, so it is difficult to lend a helping hand.

so don't give your body a debt easily, there is no one to pay it for you.

Colton said:

the poorest people do not give up their health for money, but the richest people are willing to give up all their money for the sake of health. "

if your health breaks down, everything will go back to zero. There will always be people in the world who work for you, but no one can live for you.

03

We have all read the text of "sitting on a well and watching Heaven".

A frog sat in the well and a bird flew to the edge of the well.

the frog asked where the bird came from.

the bird said it flew a hundred miles and was thirsty to find water to drink.

Frog disdain:

"the sky is but the wellhead is big, how can you fly so far?"

the bird sighs:

"the sky is boundless, very big."

the frog smiled. I was in the well every day. I could look up at the sky without making a mistake.

the bird said:

"you jump out of the wellhead and have a look."

when I read stories when I was young, I laughed at frogs for being short-sighted.

later I saw a sentence:

"even if this frog knew how big the sky was, it couldn't jump out of the well!"

Yes, a lot of peopleThey all want to be rich, entrepreneurs, buy luxury cars and live in luxury houses, but when you carry your luggage back to your hometown, you will feel like a frog who can't jump out of the wellhead.

it is said that if God closes one door for you, he will open another window for you, but the well has no doors and windows, only a hole, far and high, and no matter how hard you try to reach it.

Why am I telling this story?

I want to say that most of us are ordinary people, and if our bodies and conditions can't support us to jump out of a well, we don't have to fight for our lives.

We can't have wings like birds, but we are actually very happy to see the sky at the mouth of the well.

once I went fishing with my father, and I asked him:

"Why not go fishing in the fish pond? the fish there are big."

he said:

"as long as we catch enough fish, we don't need big fish."

on another occasion, the son of a rich man in the village was admitted to the university and invited the whole village to a luxury hotel for dinner.

I finished the banquet and said,

"Dad, it's a pity that you didn't go to the banquet today. I ate abalone today."

Dad said:

"what a pity. I've never seen that before."

now when I look back on these two things, I realize a truth:

A person is really strong, not clenching his teeth, but letting go easily without scruples.

when everyone is telling you to come on and run, I hope you can shout: I'm tired, have a rest.

04

there is a saying in the memoirs of survivors:

We waste our health to win personal wealth, and then waste our wealth to rebuild our health.

We look forward to the future anxiously and forget the life at hand. Live neither for the present nor for the future.

We live as if we will never die, and we die as if we have never lived.

I think so.

I hope you take good care of your mood and body, and live a little longer for yourself and for the one you love.

there has been a saying in moments:

those who have been separated in the years, we would rather not hear from him, because it means that he is doing well.

tomorrow can be seen, years can be allowed, this situation can be a long time, rivers and mountains can wait, is the expectation of our hearts.

but tomorrow or accident, you don't know which will come first.

just like the poem written by Wang Guowei:

the most difficult thing to keep in the world is Zhu Yan's words of flowers and trees.

the world is changeable, and life is short.

May you be free from illness and disease, and may you be a hundred years old.