Ten years of marriage comes to an end without washing dishes: a good marriage, love is hidden in the details.

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I once saw a post on the Internet: a wife who had been married for 10 years went to court to sue for divorce because her husband did not wash the dishes.

at first glance, it seems that women are too hypocritical.

looking carefully, we found that it was only the last straw that killed the camel.

the cause of the matter is that my wife's unit is very busy for four consecutive days and comes home late. When the activity is over, I had planned to have a good rest.

as soon as she entered the kitchen and saw the bowl that had been piled up in the sink for four days, she cried angrily and made up her mind to divorce at that time.

there is a line in the Age of Naked Marriage: "it took me nine years to understand that details beat love."

it took her 10 years to understand that this husband, who never does housework and never takes care of children, is not worth relying on.

A dike of a thousand miles is destroyed by an ant nest.

over the past 10 years, the levee of marriage has long been gnawed away, and the accumulation of unwashed dishes for four days is only the last bite to destroy the levee.

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Voltaire once said: what makes people feel tired is not a mountain in the distance, but a grain of sand in a shoe.

so does marriage.

how many vows of love, Prime Minister Bai's marriage, unwittingly, the heart will be cold, walking, people will break up.

A netizen said:

when I was giving birth, my mother-in-law tried to make me give birth smoothly, and my husband didn't say a word;

when I sat on the moon, I didn't coax the baby in the middle of the night, and my husband thought it disturbed his sleep.

when I refused my mother-in-law to chew something to feed the baby, my husband said to me with a black face: "ask for trouble";

the baby hit and got sick, and he blamed me for not even taking care of the baby.

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as a result, she suffered from mild depression. when her husband saw her prescribing medicine from the hospital, he said, "Don't be like those hypocritical women in the news and jump off a building if you don't want to." "then he talked and laughed with his parents as if he were all right.

what's it like to stab the wound? It's probably nothing more than that.

at that moment, her heart was broken and despair, and finally chose to divorce.

in an intimate relationship, the relationship is the most vulnerable to overdraft.

writer Ma de said: what really drives love is not strong love, but trivial time.

Marriage, only with the initial fiery "I love you" will not go far. Only in the trivial days, those warm strands, will make each other believe that "I still love you", can promote the marriage to go long and solid.

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Make people swoon over you in dark purple prom dresses! The easy way with the highest high value.

my classmate Lizi New Year's Day divorced that day. I was not surprised at all when I heard the news. I just felt heartache.

Ten years ago, when she was in love, I was the light bulb. When she got married, I was the bridesmaid standing by her side.

I have witnessed the best of the two of them, and how their once-gleaming marriage lost its luster.

she worked late into the night and called him to answer it. He said he was busy with the papers;

she was on her way back from a business trip and told him to have dinner together. But the wind and dust came home, and the cold leftovers on the table cooled her heart.

she gave birth and endured labor pains in the ward, but he fell asleep clinically, and she could not even drink a sip of water.

the baby is so big that he has never washed milk powder once, because he always says that she is busy and tired and needs to rest, just as if she is not busy, tired, working or resting;

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the trigger is a football match.

he got up in the middle of the night to watch TV. She told him to keep his voice down so as not to disturb the child. He was immersed in his own world and completely ignored it.

the next day, she posted a moments: I am not as good as a ball!

then, it broke up.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: "A man's harm to a woman is not necessarily that he falls in love with someone else, but that he disappoints her when she has something to look forward to and fails to support her when she is vulnerable."

there was no uproar or infidelity. However, with the trivialities spent year after year, her heart, like the ash in the abandoned stove, had already lost a trace of heat.

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neighbor Mei is a nurse and is very enthusiastic. Anyone who is in urgent need of some commonly used medicine will go to her house to look for it. If there is a patient who needs an injection at home, she always goes to help.

once, several families in the building got together to eat hot pot. We said that her husband was really lucky to marry a kind and good-natured wife.

Mei glanced at her husband opposite and said to us, "my good temper is all given to the patients. in fact, my husband often acts as my emotional trash can." I was angry in the hospital and came home with a bad temper. It was hard for him to put up with me for ten years. "

but his husband said," it's not easy for her in the hospital. If I don't understand her and don't let her out of breath, won't I suffocate? " "

because I know, I am merciful.

the subtleties show deep affection.

Liao Yimei said: in our life, it is not rare to meet love and sex, what is rare is to meet understanding.

those who love you, hide all your knowledge in careful care. Love your bitterness, understand your tiredness, and strive to prop up a sunny day for you in the world of ups and downs.

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playing badminton with her best friend, she said she had just quarreled with the stinky man in the family.

just as she was trying to comfort her, she said:

"when I went out, I was going to slam the door angrily. He ran over in disgust, handed me a kettle filled with hot water, put a scarf around my neck and said viciously," walk long.Click your eyes and don't fall on me again! "

I thought I was complaining, but I was fed a handful of dog food for no reason.

there is a saying: on the surface and you are angry, but still hold an umbrella for you on the inside, we all need such a person to spend the rest of our lives together.

I remember many years ago, my husband and I quarreled and ran away from home angrily.

the moment I rushed out, my husband rushed out and followed me two meters away. I scolded him again, but he didn't answer back.

after the quarrel, as soon as he found that I was running away from home, he immediately said, "I'll get out." "

then go to the neighborhood and roll around and come back.

now, I don't "do it" either. I know he cherishes me, and he's afraid it's not safe for me to run out alone. Am I not? even if he is rolling downstairs, I am still worried about him.

quarrel is the mirror of marriage. You can tell if you like it or not.

one morning, I quarreled over a trifle. When I got off work, I was still angry and planned not to cook. As a result, I found that my husband had gone home early and cooked the food. Although it didn't taste good, at that moment, I felt warm at the bottom of my heart.

"even in the happiest marriage, there are 100 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses to strangle each other in a lifetime. "

A good marriage is not without edges and corners, but because someone is willing to polish it with love.

True love, really, is between porridge and rice, in the trivial days of chicken feathers.

wish to win the heart of one person, a hundred songs will not be separated.

A good marriage, the details are woven into love, dense and soft.

May we, in the ordinary life with long streams of water, see the full spring of Hua Zhi and feel thousands of joys; in the bad days, we can see the full moon in the heart of heaven and feel the fullness of time.