Spend the rest of your life with someone who loves you.

the warmest thing in the world is that no matter what kind of difficulties you suffer and how cruel the outcome is, there is always someone watching over you and never giving up.

I want to tell you a few stories today.

01

"I love you for 80 years, which is a long time. I miss you so much. I miss you all the time. "

Arthur, 105, and Marcia, 100, just celebrated their 80th wedding anniversary some time ago. On the anniversary, Arthur made an affectionate confession to Marcia, saying that in their 80 years of love, every day was romantic and short.

Marcia, who has been lying on the bed for a long time, has lost most of his language ability, and the only word that can be pronounced is "hello". But every time her husband said a word, she would respond with a "hello" and held her husband's hand tightly and refused to let go.

I have loved you for 80 years.

if I can, I still want to be by your side for the next 80 years.

02

"Spring is coming, a hundred flowers are in bloom, and the crabapple flowers in the West Flower Hall are in full bloom again. The owner of the flowers has been gone for 12 years. He has left us, and he will not come back. Don't you like crabapple flowers?

in the early days of liberation, you happened to see this courtyard where begonia flowers are in full bloom, and you fell in love with this courtyard, so you chose this courtyard to live in this courtyard with begonia blossoms. You have lived for 26 years, and I have lived longer than you. It is now 38 years. "

in April 1988, when the crabapple in the West Flower Hall of Zhongnanhai was in full bloom, Deng Yingchao wrote this prose "remembering the Begonia Flower in the West Flower Hall" in memory of Zhou Enlai, who had passed away for 12 years.

in an era when the flames of war have not yet been completely extinguished, the promise of being loyal to one person for the rest of one's life is precious.

03

in modern Chinese literati couples, Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu are examples of knowing each other and falling in love with each other. Their love stories are marked with romantic literati flavor: they know each other on Tsinghua campus, know each other in Hongyan Fetion, and fall in love with each other in pen and ink.

this family of three is very warm and simple, with each other and respect for each other. The so-called gifted scholars and beauties are just like this.

"in 1997, Ah Yi died. At the age of 1998, Zhong Shu died. The three of me were separated. It's so easy to get separated. The good things in the world are not strong, and the colored clouds are easy to disperse and the glass is brittle. I'm the only one left. I was soberly aware that the apartment that used to be "our family" was just an inn on the road. I don't know where home is. I'm still looking for my way home. " Yang Jiang said so in "the three of us".

once upon a time, cars and horses were very slow, letters were far away, day and night alternated, time passed slowly, and the time of life was only enough to give birth to a deep affection.

with you in this life, it will be you for the rest of my life.

04

the last meeting of Feng Ming and his wife Zhang Ping was in the hospital bed. Feng Ming, 92, is on his deathbed because of heart problems. Although his breathing was weak, he said weakly that he hoped to see his wife again.

so the hospital beds of the two old people were arranged side by side. They held hands and looked at each other. They did not speak and it was difficult for them to speak. But some languages can be read from the eyes, and some emotions can be conveyed to each other from the temperature of the palm of the hand.

-there are so many things I want to tell you.

-it doesn't matter, we're not in a hurry. In your next life, please tell me about it slowly.

05

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at the age of 2, Gao Di was "married" to Pan Tianzhi's family as a child bride. At the age of 14, she married Pan Tianzhi hand in hand. 81 years have passed, and now they are white-haired, but they are still in love.

the couple in Heyuan Dongyuan are nearly 100 years old, but they have been in love with each other in the 93 years they have known each other. This is probably the best ending of childhood.

I have seen the spring breeze and walked through the fireflies in summer. I have rewarded the emerald after autumn and tasted the powder and jade makeup of winter snow.

in the long years, looking back on the life I have gone through, it is your figure.

06

"you come to be my eyes, I will take you away".

there is a "basket couple" in Chongqing. Her husband Cao Shucai has no eyesight, and his wife Xu Houbi is inconvenient to walk. Every day, the husband has to work in the field behind his wife's back, on the one hand, he can take care of his wife, and on the other hand, the wife can act as his "eyes". This back is 29 years, rain or shine every day.

it only takes a second to fall in love with someone, but the oath of "holding hands and growing old together" takes a lifetime to complete.

if you don't give up, I will depend on life and death.

07

he said to his wife, "there is a\ & # 39; Tiger'in my name and a\ & # 39; Niu'in your name, or I'll call you\ & # 39; Tigress' later." So the name cried and cried for the rest of his life.

Pingmu Hu and Zhang Xinniu, who live in Fanpo Township, Yuzhou City, Henan Province, are currently the oldest couple in China. Although Zhang Xinniu in life is a year younger than her husband, she is gentle, always accommodating to her husband and not tit-for-tat. Over time, Pingmu Tiger understood his wife's silent efforts, so he learned to rein in his temper. Doesn't love mean running in and adapting to each other in getting along with each other?

the most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you until we are too old to go anywhere, and you still regard me as a treasure in the palm of your hand.

08

Wang Yuzhen and Zeng Shangzhe are compatriots of returned overseas Chinese from Singapore who returned to China from Singapore in 1950. In 1957, Wang Yuzhen and Shangzhe were both called "rightists". With five children and an old mother to take care of, the couple earned only 30 or 40 yuan a month and were in poverty, but the wife never complained. "come to think of it, the force that kept us alive in the first place was home." When Zeng Shangzhe recalled those days, he was still full of thanks to his wife.

along the way, we always hold hands. In fact, holding hands is enough.

09

Chinese love is not as outspoken as Westerners, especially the older generation, who may never say "I love you" to their wives all their lives. They will only prepare breakfast by swearing, tidy up their rooms and quarrel for the rest of their lives.

but that's enough.

Love is the greatest miracle in the world, and companionship is the longest confession in the world. Help each other, hand in hand white head, this is probably the best way of love.

May all affection be softened by the years.