Sensitivity is a disease, soft heart is fatal.

all talk about people's troubles, in the final analysis, there are no more than nine words:

can not let go, think too much, easy to be sensitive and paranoid; unable to forget, too tangled, easy to be anxious and tired.

01

if you think too much, you will get sick

the philosopher Schopenhauer once said:

think about it, it is true.

most of the time, the root of our pain is not others, but ourselves who are too sensitive.

sensitive people who care too much about what others think of themselves will be haunted by trifles and fall into wishful thinking.

there is a young man who has just joined a company for a month. When she comes home from work every day, she will complain to her roommate about her experiences in the company.

on one occasion, she had a little problem with her work, and she was aggrieved when she was pointed out in public. She always felt that she had been targeted by the leader, and she dared not express her views at a meeting.

on the way, I met several colleagues and wanted to say hello, but they did not respond to her, which embarrassed her and felt that her colleagues hated her.

every time I hear a little gossip, I get into the right seat, thinking that others are talking about me, so I think hard about it and fall into the entanglement of self-condemnation.

the more she thinks about it, the more depressed she becomes, and she is depressed all day long, which leads to no improvement in her work.

on my way from work one day, I happened to meet a colleague who said hello in the elevator.

when I chatted, I realized that the other person was just looking at her phone, didn't notice her, and didn't deliberately ignore her, so she breathed a sigh of relief.

in life, some people feel very tired, not because the current situation is so unsatisfactory;

is often because there are too many things in mind, always care about what others think of themselves, too anxious, and make themselves feel tired.

most of the time, because of a simple word or inadvertent act of others, they become sensitive and paranoid and begin to think that they have offended others without knowing when they have offended others.

No one knows that being too sensitive and thinking too much can easily cause emotional depression and make you exhausted and overwhelmed.

02

if the heart is too soft, it will hurt  

there is a saying very true:

soft-hearted people do not like it in the face of other people's requests, but would rather be involved than refuse others. at the weekend, Ginger plans to go out for afternoon tea in summer and says to introduce her to a very good fund.

who expected summer to reply with a sad face: "well, there is no spare money recently, so I am very depressed."

when Ginger asked her why she found out that her cousin had come to borrow money from her again.

this is not the first time my cousin has come to borrow money from the summer.

when my cousin just graduated, he borrowed money from her if he wanted to start a business. The money he had borrowed before had not been collected, but now he has come to borrow it again.

Ginger was puzzled and asked Xia, "Why don't you refuse him?" Make your own life so tight. "

Summer said: "I don't want to borrow it either, but I'm afraid he'll be unhappy and ruin our relationship."

so every time he begs me, my heart softens and I lend it out again. "

there is a line in "Godfather" that goes like this:

you are soft-hearted in everything, give in when you are wronged, give in without principle, and live a tiring life!

know that a soft heart is a disease. If you indulge each other too much, you will only bring pain to yourself.

03

Don't worry about life. It's a sunny day

people are tired because they care too much about other people's eyes.

but in fact, no one in the world can satisfy everyone and be understood by everyone.

Life is only a few decades in a hurry, so don't ask for trouble.

Don't worry too much about how you look in the eyes of others, just live happily and freely.

A young man has a lot of troubles in his heart, so he goes to talk to a wise man.

when he saw the wise man, he began to complain endlessly.

the wise man listened to his troubles and said nothing. He took a teacup and poured a pot of water into the cup. The water was about to overflow and did not stop.

seeing this, the young man hastened to remind: "stop, the cup won't fit."

the wise man smiled and said to the young man, "your heart is like this teacup, entangling everything, so there is no room for other beautiful things."

when the wise man finished, he poured out all the water in the cup and poured tea into the cup. As soon as the youth drank it, the fragrance of tea refreshed their hearts, and suddenly woke up.

Life is too short to be easily swayed by other people's thoughts.

instead of racking their brains to live in the eyes of others, it is better to abandon those unnecessary rules and regulations and live their own wonderful life.

just as the ancients said:

people who only worry and worry in their eyes will naturally feel that life is like a quagmire and cannot move, while those who have nothing on their minds and do not struggle can easily find the joys of life.

Don't worry about life. If you want to open up, it will be sunny.

04

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because they care too much about other people's feelings, they don't have the heart to refuse inappropriate requests.

but in fact, we always care about others carefully, and over time, we will only make ourselves physically and mentally exhausted.

Voltaire once said:

the sand in shoes is like the eyes of others. We can only carry it lightly if we pour out the annoying sand.

A man lives for a lifetime and a plant for autumn.

Don't be too sensitive, don't be too soft-hearted, and don't be bound by the eyes of others.

your life is your own, so just live as you like.