Scum man, mama's boy, why are the men you meet unreliable? Are you blind? You haven't read this book!

good girls are more gullible, aren't they? Be honest! When I was at school, I was taught not to fall in love with puppy love. Staring at the little mandarin ducks on the playground, they could only do this math problem with one push of their glasses. When he finished his bachelor's degree and master's degree, he was suddenly held by the ear to find a man to marry at a specified time and place. So in a panic, whoever said a few good words and bought two good bags sold himself.

however, over time, the test is not only loved words, and sex, but also the worst, whether you will be bullied by your mother-in-law, beaten by your husband, or cheated into not paying back hundreds of thousands of dollars. No, no, no.

there are so many people that you can't try it one by one. On every blind date, I asked if you would receive 64 pinches on behalf of your wife like a white painting, and would you rather have a broken arm than save your enemy to make your wife happy? no, no, no. Do you think you will be accused of being insane?

of course, there is a way to find out. There are so many clues in life, but you have to be able to observe.

for example, will an honest person be a good husband? In the story of Peacock Flying to the Southeast, there is an honest hero, Jiao Zhongqing. When the couple whispered, my wife Liu Lanzhi complained about my mother-in-law, saying that I got up before dawn and could weave five pieces of cloth in three days, and your mother was not satisfied with me. It's so hard to be your wife!

Jiao Zhongqing immediately ran angrily to his mother and said, Mom! I've had bad luck all my life. I finally got a good wife. She didn't do anything wrong. Why do you always dislike her? Do you think Jiao Zhongqing's mother fainted with anger? Have you patted the table and cried and scolded, saying that you had raised a white-eyed wolf? Are you determined to kick your wife out?

the key to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lies in having a wise son. Liu Qi, the emperor of the Han Dynasty, his mother preferred his youngest son. Liu Qi knew how to please his mother when he saw it. Once when he was drunk, he said to his brother, when I die, the throne will be passed on to you.

later, when it was time to establish a prince, my mother urged Liu Qi to say, hurry up and pass it on to your brother! Liu Qi suddenly suffered from procrastination and promised that there would be no action in his hands, but the minister in his hands, ah, turned over the wheel and reasoned with the old lady, asking her to understand how young and simple she was.

finally, the old lady felt unreliable and gave up the idea. And Liu Qi didn't even blush with his mother. The man of "Peacock Flying to the Southeast" is mainly replaced by Liu Qi, and there will be no one who will be forced to divorce and die later, "lift to clear the pool and hang the southeast branch".

in the Historical Records, the Liang Xiaowang Family tells how Liu Qi's mother preferred her youngest son and broke her heart to make him an emperor, how Liu Qi coaxed his mother and how to squeezed his brother with other people's hands.

in the end, however, when it was said that Liu Wu had been beaten to death by Liu Qixu, the old lady said angrily, the emperor finally killed my son. Sima Qian suddenly wrote, "the emperor was afraid and didn't know what to do"-Liu Qi's face was sad and shocked, and he didn't know what to do.

in this sentence, Sima Qian shows the perspective of Han Jingdi in this story-the baby is also very bitter! Sima Qian used "Liang Xiaowang Family" to write about Liu Qi, who faced his mother, and "five families" to write about how he treated his sons. A person, in the face of colleagues, playmates, parents, and brothers, maybe different people at all. But before you give up your life, you always want to know more about how many faces he has.

for example, you want to know if you meet a violent man, and you want to know how bad-tempered he will be.

when a person has the worst temper, he must face a troublemaker. Zhang Liang met not only, but also three times in a row. One morning, while singing, Zhang Liang walked slowly up to the ragged old man, stood in front of him, knocked his feet up, and his shoes fell to the bottom of the bridge. That who?! Go and pick it up for me! "

Zhang Liang inner OS: Nima! What a psychopath! He raised his fist and wanted to be beaten, but the old man looked old and endured it. Pick up the shoes, kneel and put them on for the old man, who laughs and goes away. Zhang Liang stood and watched, feeling very subtle.

in a twinkling of an eye, the old man who had gone two blocks turned back and told him to wait for me here at dawn five days later. As we all know, Zhang Liang went at dawn and was rejected by the old man, so the rooster went and was disliked again. So he went in the middle of the night and finally got the first bucket of gold to reach the peak of his life-- "the Art of Public War."

some people say that this is because Zhang Liang is polite, punctual, and a good boy. However, the first author of this story, Mr. Sima Qian, said, bullshit! Would he raise his fist first if he was polite? But why didn't you hit it in the end? Because I can be patient. When the strength is superior to the weak and the value of force is dominant, he is still able to discipline himself with reason, observe etiquette and refrain from violence. This is the reason why the old man called "this kid is good."

this is the third thing Sima Qian wrote down in Liuzhou Family. First of all, because of Qin Shihuang, Zhang Liang's family broke the country, and his brother was not buried, and then he said that Zhang Liang spent money everywhere to kill Qin Shihuang, looking like an outlaw. But then, Sima Qian turned his pen and talked about Zhang Liang, who was patient, insightful, and eventually became a winner in life.

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Sima Qian is a master at seeing people, so he is also a good storyteller. The stories he tells are all to tell you that the person I am going to talk about has such a completely different aspect in his character.

of course, Sima Qian is also very nosy (the character is very important, but more importantly, look at the face). Speaking of Zhang Liang, at the end of the speech, he said, I thought Zhang Liang must be 2.2 meters tall and have a big beard, but then I saw his portrait, he looked so good, just like a pretty girl!

Sima Qian wrote 130 historical records, which he said was to "understand the changes of ancient and modern times at the time of studying heaven and man." The history of "understanding the changes of the past and the present" is still after the "study of heaven and man". And "blind date" belongs to a tiny part of "the moment of Heaven and Man". "phase" means "seeing" and "observing", carefully studying whether a person can be a friend and husband.

Sima Qian has a daughter who has married him to a man named Yang Chang. This Yang Chang has a biography in Han Shu, but it is extremely short, which shows that Sima Qian's son-in-law has been selected very well: there is a biography in Han Shu, which shows that Yang Chang is doing well, and Yang Chang's final official to prime minister couldn't be better. There is a biography and short, indicating that the mix has been good, good life and death, there is nothing to write about.

however, you have to compliment Sima Qian on finding a good son-in-law, who is likely to be modest and modest.

Yang Chang is reliable at best, but what does Sima Qian think of as a "good son-in-law"?

in Qin Benji. Win the third elder brother married the eldest sister Ji next door as a wife, did not expect that from then on Ji's elder sister's several wandering brothers. Sister Ji said you should go and help my third brother go home and inherit the family business. Brother Chun-San patted his chest, one word! Ji's third brother thanked her with thousands of thanks and promised to give Ying's third brother land as a gift of thanks. Unexpectedly, he looked innocent as soon as he got home. What did you say? The wind is too strong!

within a few years, there was a famine in Ji's third brother's house, and there was no food, so he went to win the third brother's house to borrow grain. Brother Yi was an animal husbandry man in his ancestry, and he was relatively honest. He was pitiful, and he lent it to him. But when the famine broke out in the family and borrowed grain from Ji Lao San, Ji Lao San smiled and said, "Don't borrow it."

in a fit of anger, Brother Ying picked up the guy and took his brother to fight in a group fight until Ji was tied up at home, ready to kill for the Spring Festival. When Sister Ji heard of this, she asked someone to pile a pyre, climbed up the pyre with her two children in mourning, and began to cry, make trouble and hang herself three times: Lao Ying, I tell you, if you want to kill my brother, this day will not pass! Brother Yi thought about it for a long time but forget it. It's not worth it if the family is destroyed and everyone dies. Brother Ji asked people to release Ji's third brother and married him to eat and drink. Later, Ji's third brother died, and Ji's second brother was found back to inherit the family fortune.

the newcomers commented on Brother Li, saying that he had lost money in his marriage and had been a cow and horse for their surnamed Ji all his life. However, Sima Qian wrote Historical Records and rewarded the first achievements of the Qin Dynasty in unifying China to Brother Yi. In the Preface to Tai Shi Gong, he wrote about the three most important kings of Qin and spoke 20 words, of which 16 words were about Brother Ying San and Qin Mu Gong. Because he is a person who talks about "benevolence and righteousness".

Chinese people have always been bragging, but to say that you can marry your daughter is the most sincere praise for a person. Sima Qian thinks so, too. In the Book of the Five Emperors, he wrote that Yao heard that Shun was a good young man, and after inspecting for a while, he felt that he could cultivate and inherit the family business, so he married his two daughters.

Yang Zhao talks about Historical Records of Douban time. He will soon talk about Qin Benji and the story of Qin Mu Gong. In addition to Qin Benji, Yang Zhao can also talk about the gangsters in the biographies of assassins who want their employers to take care of their wives and children, and also talk about "staying in the Hou family," that is, the beautiful man Zhang Liang, who is a gangster but can endure.

looking at Historical Records, we can naturally see Sima Qian's praise and criticism of ancient and modern figures, see how their character and will sculpt the fate of themselves and this country, and see their strongest desire collide with an unpredictable destiny. illuminated will. But the most fascinating thing is to talk about "people", the appearance of a person who is worthy of respect and delivery.

Historical Records has too many hats on its head, and the whole country is crushing the weight of people to death. Like a Bodhisattva in a temple, you have to kneel before you can read it. But you can also not walk this heavy road, anyway, they talk about their family and the world, you just need to listen carefully, what a reliable husband should be like? Although Historical Records are written in classical Chinese, there is no need to be afraid. isn't that why someone took you to read it?