People, why do they change?

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people, why do they change?

when did you think of this question? When did you really realize that as long as time is walking, people are changing all the time?

become silent, often do not know what to say, who to say; become snobbish, try to get close to the people who can help you, try to stay away from the people who consume your energy;

become vain. Like to measure a person's worth by everything outside; become bearish, and there are few people and things that can make you emotional.

people, from the moment you realize that you grow up, you have already begun to say goodbye to your original self.

I used to think that the word "forever protect the original heart" is not difficult to achieve. Later, I found that some people's excuses are not real excuses, but some people's sadness is really sad, "never forget their original ideals and aspirations." it's really easier said than done.

I used to like to say, "I won't change". Later, I found that there are only two kinds of people in this world who will not change. Either they live in an ivory tower when they are young, with pain, love, and nothing to worry about, or their nature is optimistic enough. The heart is strong enough, no matter how fierce the wind and rain can not erode the heart.

it's just a pity that we are not as lucky as the first person, nor as powerful as the second person.

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society is a big dye vat, in which we inevitably get some colors we don't want.

people are the products that will change with the surrounding environment.

someone hurts you badly, so you learn to stop being enthusiastic about everyone;

someone secretly betrays you, so you learn not to be sincere to anyone;

someone takes all your concerns for granted, so you no longer take the initiative to give or ask for anything in return;

people are used to misunderstanding your kindness, so you begin to take back all your warmth.

becomes cruel because the soft heart is always easy to get hurt; becomes indifferent because there seems to be nothing more to be happy about;

becomes powerful because society is changing, the road is always going up, and people always want to live better and better;

becomes vain, because he has seen too many people and seen too many things. Only to find that for most people, the outside is the most intuitive reflection within them.

time is like a demon peeping in the dark, quietly changing your state of mind, your feelings, your thoughts, your choices.

some changes are the result of our active choice; some changes are what we have no choice but to do; and there are some changes that we simply don't realize until later, when we realize that everything has changed.

if the beginning of life is a blank piece of paper, then in the end, every blank will be filled with color, but some of them are what they like and some are not.

just like everyone's heart, there is the self we like and the one we quietly hate.

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in recent years, some people are getting better and better, some are getting worse, some are living more and more thoroughly, and some are becoming more and more tired.

but we should be glad that the vast majority of people are on the road to becoming better themselves, going further and further.

when you encounter difficulties, you will no longer give up and pity yourself. You will always be distressed for a while, and you will seize the time to think about all the solutions that can solve the problem.

when faced with criticism, it is no longer easy to be impulsive, either reflect on what you have done, or close your ears, stick to your own path, and let others talk.

when I meet with parting, I will no longer sink myself into melancholy and can't get out, because I understand that growing up means saying goodbye constantly, so every time I say goodbye, I must tell myself that I have to be better in order to be worthy of the people who are still with me.

changes seem to be the norm.

gradually, we know more and more how to cherish our body, go to bed early and get up early, have regular physical examination, and understand that physical well-being is the most important foundation of a happy life.

gradually, we become more and more tolerant and considerate, tolerant of our own and other people's mistakes, and considerate to all those who need warmth.

gradually, we have taken many detours, but we are still moving in the direction we originally wanted, silent and persistent, lonely but satisfied.

maybe this is metamorphosis.

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people, why do they change?

maybe, as long as time goes on, as long as life still exists, change is a natural behavior.

every minute, what we see and hear is different from the past, and every second, something new is impacting our thinking. If people do not change, how can they see a new landscape.

Don't bemoan what's gone, because if you have something to lose, you will gain something. What you once cherished and what you miss now will eventually appear in a new way.

Don't feel sorry for those friends who have become bad, because everyone must be responsible for their own choices. The past is irreversible, but there are always more new opportunities now and in the future.

Don't try to cut corners any more. those who are not worth cherishing should give up when it's time to give up. Don't torture yourself for those who can't get it. The more humble you are, the less you will be pitied.

Don't believe the oath easily, and don't be suspicious of everyone. In this society, there are good and bad, good and evil. Only by learning to distinguish between right and wrong can we take fewer detours and hurt people's hearts less.

learn to please yourself, learn to live seriously, no matter who you are now, you will eventually be a better person in the future.

No matter how the outside world changes, always believe that you will alwaysThe more alive, the better.

love yourself well and deeply.