People who don't have you in their eyes, why worry about it?

in this world, not every contribution will be cherished, and not everyone will care about you.

some people, you pay to them, not only can not be well-intentioned treatment but also let the other person take an inch.

Life is short, why let people who don't see you affect your mood?

your efforts deserve better.

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people who don't respect you are not worth respecting

there is a saying: "the greatest respect for people is in words and deeds."

people can only pay full attention to those who care.

and those who don't see you don't care how you feel at all.

they talk and do things, regardless of whether you are comfortable or not, as long as they are happy.

during the reign of Yongzheng, Ji Xiaolan served as a book of ceremonies.

once, when he went on a trip to Wutai Mountain, he met the abbot of a local temple.

seeing that he was simply dressed, the abbot thought that he was not a man of status, and such a man would not make many contributions to the temple.

standing in the doorway, the abbot said carelessly, "sit down", and then shouted "tea".

Ji Xiaolan felt perfunctory, a little uncomfortable, but kept quiet.

Ji Xiaolan said that she specially came from the capital.

the abbot respectfully led Ji Xiaolan into the inner hall and said, "Please sit down and make tea."

after some detailed discussion, the abbot knew that the person in front of him was Ji Xiaolan, the Shangshu of the Ministry of Rites, and immediately respectfully invited Ji Xiaolan into the Zen room.

then smiled and said, "Please take a seat and I'll make you a nice pot of tea."

Ji Xiaolan was amused and wrote a couplet: "sit, please sit, sit up; tea, make tea, make tea."

when the abbot saw it, he was very ashamed.

at first, the abbot felt that Ji Xiaolan was just an ordinary pilgrim, so he did not treat him casually, and when Ji Xiaolan revealed his identity, he entertained him respectfully.

this sounds realistic, but that's often the case with human nature.

people who don't care about themselves will not be taken seriously at all and will not be given enough respect.

people who care about themselves will not only take care of their eyes, but also consider your feelings, take care of your emotions, and make you feel respected in every word and deed.

so for those who don't have your disrespect in their eyes, stay away as soon as possible so that they won't get hurt.

02

people who don't cherish you should not care about

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there is a very realistic saying: "you give the best to others, but they don't even look at it."

this sounds heartbreaking, but it is true.

to give to those who do not cherish you is to ask for trouble, and to be ignored is to consume enthusiasm. Why should you care about people?

in a school in a mountain village, two college students, Xiaomei and Xiaoqing, came to support their teaching.

because of the limited conditions, the school arranged for the two people to live in the same shabby room.

Xiaomei is more diligent and can bear hardships, while Xiaoqing is more delicate.

Xiaomei usually cleans the room and controls the daily life of the two.

Xiaomei wants to live under the same roof, and the two should take care of each other.

so whether it is beating rice or boiling water, she will bring a copy to Xiaoqing.

at first, Xiaoqing will thank Xiaomei, and after a long time, she takes it for granted.

once, Xiao Mei was ill and asked Xiaoqing to bring a meal to the canteen.

Xiaoqing refused Xiaomei under the pretext that she was busy and whispered that this minor illness was nothing.

later, Xiaomei overheard Xiaoqing on the phone and said:

"My roommate is a fool, like a babysitter, you don't have to worry about helping me clean my room every day."

Xiaoqing's words make Xiaomei very heartache.

since then, Xiaomei no longer takes care of Xiaoqing.

within a few weeks, Xiaoqing couldn't stand it and said that the environment was too bad to stay, so he went back to the city.

Zhu Deyong said:

to those who do not cherish you, even if you do not care about the return, their uncherished will hurt you.

so there is no need to show enthusiasm and patience to those who don't see you in their eyes.

since they don't cherish your goodness, they might as well take it back in time and leave it to someone who cares about you.

03

there is no need to rest assured that  

in life, there are always some people:

reply to your message in time; when you need help, he will be the first to come forward; when you are lost, even if he does not say, he will notice. People like

to take you seriously and take you more seriously.

in this world, everyone is not a fool. You can feel whether a person is good to you or not.

your heart should be given to those who see you.

once heard such a sentence:

A person who will take you seriously.Is the one who cares about you.

people like you are sincere in what they give to you.

Don't worry about those who don't see you; cherish those who have you in their eyes.

people often say, "if you look at the wrong person, you will miss your whole life; if you look at the right person, you will laugh forever."

what scares people most is that you dig out your heart and heart in exchange for false affection from others.

there are feelings, but there is no response; for some people, the care is forgotten.

Why should you always care about those who don't see you in their eyes?

only by trusting those who have you in your eyes can you be worthy of your heart.

you don't have to be nice to everyone for the rest of your life. It's enough to be nice to those who see you in your eyes.