Parents look like the first half of their lives, hiding the end of the second half of their children's lives!

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the appearance of parents in the first half of their lives

hides the outcome of the second half of their children's lives

the famous German philosopher Jaspers once said that the essence of

education is that one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul summons another soul.

parents should not drive their children forward with a whip, but should grow up with their children at all times.

in Shanghai, a 49-year-old mother and son were admitted to graduate school at the same time.

the son was admitted to Fudan University and his mother was admitted to Guangxi University.

this inspirational mother's name is Yuan Mengyuan, and she is a hostess.

after busy work, I attended the professional courses of Jiaotong University for 3 consecutive years, spent more than 700 days memorizing words, and persisted in online lessons.

the news has caused a great deal of discussion, but the story does not end here.

with the deepening of the news, we found that she has been in the habit of studying with her son since childhood.

after graduating from a junior college, she signed up for the adult college entrance examination, and the school she applied for was Fudan University.

Why should I be admitted to Fudan University?

Yuan Mengyuan said it was for his son.

because when my son was in college, he showed the idea of going to Fudan for graduate school, but the son was not very confident.

Yuan Mengyuan said she would set an example for her son.

so she said to her son, "I'll wait for you in Fudan. If I pass the exam, it's up to you."

sure enough, Yuan Mengyuan was admitted to an adult undergraduate course at Fudan University and became his son's "sister".

two years later, when it was time for my son to take the postgraduate entrance examination, Yuan Mengyuan made another decision: accompany his son to take the postgraduate entrance examination.

because the postgraduate entrance examination is an arduous process, I am afraid that the child will not be able to hold on. I am afraid that he will give up halfway. "

and the original Dream Garden is also very literary imagination: "Mother and son take the postgraduate entrance examination together, it is very happy and romantic to think about it."

the original Dream Garden really taught by words and deeds, became a role model for the children, and trained the children into her pride.

as a saying goes, "what parents look like in the first half of their lives hides the end of the second half of their children's lives."

parents' words and deeds have a direct impact on the future trend of their children's life.

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behind good children

there must be better parents

there is a good saying: if the child is a seed, then the family is the soil for growth.

parents' imperceptible education for their children is much more profound and intuitive than schools and teachers.

behind an excellent child, there must be better parents.

watching "Walking Mountains and Rivers at 30 degrees North Latitude", Wenwen, the 10-year-old daughter of Wang Yu Heng, is a fan of strength.

by the bonfire at night, Wang Yu Heng asked her daughter Wenwen a very profound question: "are you afraid of loneliness?"

Mandy replied, I'm not afraid.

Wang Yu Heng asked why, Wenwen said: "A person can not be alone anywhere, there may be no one around him, but at least there is life."

another meaning of Mandy's answer is that as long as the spiritual world of life is rich enough, then he will not feel lonely.

it is rare for a 10-year-old child to have such profound insights and thoughts.

many netizens began to sigh that Wang Yu Heng's family education is really high.

but looking at Wang Yuheng's resume and his teaching to his daughter, you think that with such excellent parents, you should be able to cultivate such excellent children.

Wang Yu Heng won the first place in the design major of Tsinghua University by 40 points higher than the second place that year.

painting, calligraphy, design and creativity are all first-class. He can also play the guqin and write piano scores. He is good at MVP of Tsinghua Basketball. He is good at raising animals, covering all aspects of land, sea and air, and is also good at craftsmanship.

on the stage of "the strongest brain", Wang Yu Heng became famous and was called "the Eye of Ghost Talent" because of his strong ability of observation and discrimination.

daughter Wenwen has 100,000 reasons. Wang Yu Heng is her encyclopedia.

when they climb the mountain together, Wang Yu Heng will introduce its habits to her daughter in detail when they encounter a plant that her daughter does not know.

he said: "my education to my daughter has always been not to let her know how valuable things are, and to think more about whether she likes to do it and whether she needs to do it."

under the guidance of her father at Tsinghua University, her daughter Wenwen certainly likes reading.

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I have seen the full set of Harry Potter and three-body in the second and third grade, and even read the brief History of time.

Wenwen, the daughter of a single-parent family, is not self-abased at all. On the contrary, she is lively and confident and has become a strong child.

good parents, children tend not to be too bad.

if you want to raise a good child, please make yourself a good parent first.

only if you are good, your child will be better.

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what you want your child to be

you have to be the parent

educator Sukhomlinski once said: "to a family, parents are roots and children are flowers. Parents often 'see' their children's problems, but do not know that they are actually their own problems' blooming'on their children. "

what kind of family, what kind of children.

what kind of parents, what kind of children.

I have read such a story:

there is an Edwards family in England, which is a real scholarly family.

Edward Sr. is a diligent and knowledgeable man.The philosopher.

among his descendants, 13 have become university presidents, 100 have become university professors, more than 80 have become writers, more than 60 famous doctors, one has become an ambassador, and more than 20 have become parliamentarians.

also in England, there is a Zucker family, but it is very different from the Edward family.

Old Zhuke is a notorious alcoholic and gambler, fooling around all day and often beating and scolding children.

in the eight generations of his descendants, more than 300 people have been beggars and tramps, more than 400 have been maimed by alcohol, more than 60 have committed fraud and theft, and 7 have become murderers.

there has never been a gentleman in their whole family, let alone a useful talent.

this shows how important the quality of family education is, and the power of role models is endless.

parents are a mirror of their children, and children are copies of their parents. The shadow of parents can be seen from their children.

Dong Qing once said, "you can be what you want your child to be."

the best way to educate your child is to be the parent of what you want your child to be.

what is more useful than teaching by example is to lead by example.

in order to cultivate an excellent child, parents must set a good example and become the pride of their children.

if you go further, the child will follow.

if you stand higher, the child can see farther.

raising children is a self-cultivation of parents.

parents should join hands with their children to move forward together and become better themselves for each other.