Parents are not "cruel", a lot of education is useless!

educate your child as soon as possible, don't wait for the child to grow up, let the society educate him for you.

educate the child as soon as possible, and the child will be grateful later and not be indulged when he should be disciplined.

-- to parents

01

every parent who dotes on their children

has to pay the price

for everything for their children and everything for their children.

nowadays, most parents are Supermen, responsible for taking care of everything for their children, and their children have become ornamental fish in the fish tank and flowers in the greenhouse.

it is conceivable that when children grow up, they cannot carry their shoulders and hands, and they will collapse thoroughly when they encounter a little difficulty.

such a child is doomed to have no responsibility, let alone a future.

the saddest thing for parents is to carry everything for their children, but make them unable to face the world.

A habitual son is like killing a son. You are reluctant to let your child suffer. In the future, he will suffer, and so will the people around him.

02

parents love their children deeply

there are no parents who do not love their children, but they should pay attention to ways and means.

all love in this world is for aggregation, but parents' love for their children is for separation.

We grow up with our children, but we can't grow old with them.

parents should not only see the present but also plan for the long-term future of their children.

Don't spoil your child and make him lose the ability and courage to fly.

on the road of life, we must finally learn to let go, and children must also learn to live independently.

03

if you love your child, you should let him suffer from labor

Yang Jiang's father said: that it is better to teach children to be independent than to be first.

Love children, start with being willing to use children and start with daily housework.

some parents are reluctant to let their children do any housework for fear of tiring them and affecting their studies.

in the long run, children have completely lost their ability to take care of themselves, only to rely on their parents, and even take it for granted that their parents do anything for them, without gratitude.

the less willing to use the child, the more useless the child will be.

Giant babies are not developed in one day, let alone the flying Phoenix.

letting children do housework is the greatest responsibility of parents to their children.

04

to love a child, it is necessary to let him suffer setbacks

A person's life will inevitably be accompanied by ups and downs, which is a part of growing up.

when it's plain sailing, don't be arrogant and complacent; when you're miserable, you don't have to belittle yourself.

ups and downs are for the normality of life, setbacks are only temporary, and when the willow is bright, the sun rises in the east.

frustration is a challenge for children. If children can't even bear setbacks, how can they go through this life smoothly?

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some storms must be borne by the children, and some tribulations must be experienced by the children themselves.

but parents should remember that it is not when they encounter strong winds and heavy rains that they let their children bear it, but they experience them from the trivialities of life, and they will be fearless when the storm comes.

05

to love a child, it is necessary to let him suffer from reading

parents should be willing to let him suffer from reading no matter how much they love their child.

you know, for the average family, reading is still the most effective way to change fate.

Reading can change one's class, one's income, one's knowledge, and one's contacts.

in this world, no road is a shortcut to life, but reading is the relatively easy one.

so when their children want to give up, parents must be ruthless and teach their children not to give up halfway.

if you suffer from hardships, you will be superior to others.

one day the child will understand that the hardships suffered for study today will pave a wider road in the future to guide him to a better life.

06

if you love a child, you should make him suffer from criticism

everyone makes mistakes, and children are no exception.

before the formation of a child's immoral concept, he will always make mistakes.

when children make mistakes, they must be criticized in time, and the key point is to let the children know what to do in the future, instead of watching the children still young, ignoring their mistakes again and again, or even indulging them, they are not willing to criticize themselves. and don't let the teacher criticize the child.

this will only make the child unscrupulously repeat his previous mistakes and fail to distinguish between right and wrong.

the growth of children needs the sunshine of praise as well as the rain of criticism.

criticism can help children keep a clear head, keep the right pace, and move forward one step at a time.

if you love a child, you must let him suffer from the criticism. Don't be afraid of criticism. Learn to accept this nutrient and go further and steadily on the road to growth.

07

to love a child, it is necessary to let him suffer from his upbringing

in today's society, no parent does not want his child to be excellent.

however, some parents forget that the essence of education is to educate people.

A person's upbringing is more important than anything else. Upbringing is the most basic quality that determines whether a child can succeed or not.

A sapling without a good breeding foundation will never grow into a towering tree in any case.

so in the process of educating your child, you should always keep in mind that your child should be an educated person.

tell your child what to do and what not to do.  teach children to learn respect, gratitude, and politeness.

08

having control, teaching and punishment is the best love for children

Huang Lei said: there are as many parents as there are in the world, and there are no duplicates.

because every home is different. Parents should think from the point of view of their children instead of being selfish parents.

because often love too much, is selfish love. That kind of love hurts more than hate.

there is no greenhouse outside the campus, and there will be no games when you grow up.

you can spoil your children, but the outside world won't.

instead of waiting for the child to be beaten by society in the future, it is better to educate the child correctly from an early age.

far-sighted parents are all a little ruthless!

the more ruthless the parents are, the better the child is!