Never envy other people's lives.

Bian Zhilin said: you stand on the bridge looking at the scenery, and the people watching the scenery are upstairs looking at you.

you envy other people's life, but do not realize that others also envy your life.

there are all kinds of life, each has its own joys and sorrows.

you envy my leisure work, I envy you full of drive; you envy my rich family, I envy your family reunion.

We always like to look up at other people's lives, but ignore the happiness around us.

01

envy others is an illusion

as the old saying goes: rice is delicious, porridge is hot, which kind of work is not tiring.

although the meal is delicious, it is hot and it is not easy to eat it.

every family has its own difficulties. Everyone has their own difficulties and troubles. Very often, it is just an illusion to envy other people's lives.

there is a farmer who works in the field every day, works at sunrise and goes to rest at sunset.

throughout the year, there is more than enough food and clothing, but not enough wealth.

he fantasized every day that if only he could become emperor one day, he would be rich in food and clothing.

as a result, one day in a dream, he really became an emperor.

in my dream, I kept criticizing the folds, approving more than 200 copies a day.

floods and droughts are waiting for him to make up his mind.

it was not easy to stay up until he went to bed at night when the battle report at the front came again, and the ministers woke him up to discuss the military situation.

the minister is full of tongues, saying this and that, but he doesn't know who to listen to.

being irritable, the farmer woke up and watched his wife and children sleeping soundly. He said, "I don't want to be emperor anymore."

Zweig said: every gift given to you by your destiny is secretly marked with a price.

No matter how hard you work, you will gain much.

nothing can be obtained for no reason. Behind the life you envy, there are many hardships and difficulties that you can't bear.

what you have, you have to give up, and no one has a particularly easy life.

Don't envy the lives of others. Living your own life is already the greatest happiness.

02

loving life is a state of mind

Oscar Wilde said that if you live in a sewer, you still have the right to look up at the stars.

even if you live a chicken feather, you should keep a light and love in your heart.

the Legend of Nezha became a hit in 2019, earning more than 5 billion yuan at the box office.

director Jiaozi also became famous overnight, but behind his glamour, he suffered a lot of blindness and suffering.

three years after graduating from college, he is still eating at home.

when my father died, he had to live on his mother's meagre pension.

because the income is too small, very often, I dare not eat meat.

many friends said that he was useless, and the neighbors thought he was old and useless, but he never gave up his animation.

later, his "beat, hit a big watermelon" was selected as the special prize of the Berlin International short Film Festival in Germany, and dumplings began to show off.

from getting the investment to the completion of the production of "Nezha", the dumpling team took five years to design more than 100 images, 66 script changes and 1400 special effects shots.

most of the time, because of a shortage of hands, dumplings go to battle in person, often staying up all night and not sleeping.

it was they who risked their lives to do it that led to this miracle in the history of national comics.

Nietzsche said: a man who knows what he lives for can endure any kind of life.

A man cannot fall as long as he still has a light in his heart.

struggle desperately, try to shine, as long as he doesn't give up, one day, he will get the life he wants.

03

contentment is a kind of happiness

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Schopenhauer said that

if you indulge in desire, life can only sink infinitely, and it is difficult to extricate yourself.

Don't always compare other people's lives. Only when you know how to be contented and grateful can you be happy in life.

nowadays many young people like to keep up with the comparisons and spend in advance by overdrawing credit cards.

I buy bags, cosmetics and luxury goods. I pay off my debts as soon as I get the money every month.

because I have no savings, I dare not try a good opportunity or change my job when I see a good job.

robbing the east wall to make up for the west wall, it looks bright, but in fact, I am exhausted.

the greatest happiness in life does not come from keeping up with the comparisons, but from knowing how to restrain your desires and be content.

in the Ming Dynasty, Hu Jiushao's family was poor, ploughed and read, and could only get enough food and clothing.

but he burns incense every night to thank the gods for the blessings he has bestowed on him. His wife said, "We are vegetable porridge all day long. How can it be blessed?"

Hu Jiushao says,

knowing how to be contented is a man's greatest wealth.

Don't envy other people's lives. Good health, disease-free and disaster-free, and a lifetime of peace is a person's greatest blessing.