Never blame anyone in your life.

We will meet a lot of people in our lives.

most of them are passers-by, and only a few people stay in our lives.

Buddha said: "if there is no debt, how can we meet?"

who you will meet is meant to be.

so don't blame anyone in your life, they are there for a reason, to teach you something.

01

never blame anyone

whose life is not easy

have read such a story.

one day, a hotel hosted a wedding banquet with more than ten tables. In order not to make mistakes, the hotel manager inspected every few minutes in order to deal with the accident in time.

fortunately, there was no big mistake that day, and the manager was not relieved until the guests left one after another.

then he saw an old man in shabby clothes come in. the old man went to the table in the corner with his head down, then took a few plastic bags out of his pocket and secretly packed the leftovers on the table.

maybe there are too many people, and not many people notice the old man.

only waiters who go with the manager.

seeing this, the waiter wanted to drive the old man away, but the manager stopped him and signaled him not to disturb the old man, pretending not to see it.

after the old man left, the waiter was puzzled and asked the manager:

"Why don't we stop him?"

the manager said:

"according to the rules, we can let him leave right away, but have you ever thought that if it wasn't for family embarrassment, who would save face and come here to secretly take leftovers? If you go over there now, you'll embarrass him. \ & quot;

after hearing this, the waiter suddenly realized.

in fact, this is not love, but the manager's experience has taught him that

everyone's life is not easy, so there is no need to blame.

Laozi once said, "when Great Way is implemented, people are not to blame."

it is easy to do without blaming others when you are at a disadvantage. When you have an advantage, you are not easily blamed or aggressive, and you are kind-hearted to the bone.

disturb the world, wind and rain life, there is no such thing as success.

everyone has different pressure on their shoulders, unspeakable grievances and repression, and every day they try their best to make their lives better for themselves and their families.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy;

it is not easy for you, not easy for me, not easy for anyone.

Life is not easy, everyone will encounter difficult hurdles, everyone will encounter the experience of broken teeth to swallow, learn to understand, compassion and compassion, and learn to be kind to others.

02

the person who hurt you

is actually here to ferry you

the Nebula Master once told his own story.

at that time, the young nebula was handed over to a master in Nanjing by an entry-level master from Yangzhou, who told him that that was the best place for him to learn Buddhism. With that, he handed him over to the great master in Nanjing, and turned and left.

as soon as Master left, Master asked the Nebula, "Why are you here?"

the nebula replied, "my master sent me."

Master Father said angrily:

"A person who studies Buddhism does not have his own heart." If the master asks you to come, will you come soon? "

then he whipped him with a cane.

then Master asked, "Why are you here?"

the nebula changed its tune and said, "I wanted to come."

but the Master became even angrier when he heard this: "monks, how can you lie!"

then ask: "Why are you here?"

the nebula learned from the previous mistake and replied:

"Master asked me to come, and I wanted to learn myself, so I came."

the Master Father beat the Nebula hard with his cane:

"at such a young age, I should be so bewildered."

at night, the Nebula complained that the beginner Master had sent him to this hellish place and could not help crying.

at this time, the Master Father came in, and the nebula knelt with fear. But instead of beating him, the master father patiently healed the nebula.

he rubbed the medicine and said:

"you have all the right answers, but I want to teach you about adversity. Only by accepting adversity can one overcome the pain that fate brings to you. "

only then did the nebula understand and work hard to learn the Dharma.

there is a saying:

sometimes, people in life who seem to hurt you, they actually come to complete you.

they let you know how strong you are and how strong you are.

Goshawks also have to go through experience before they can leave the branches and soar in the sky.

only through lightning and thunder can life become more brave.

03

cherish the person who treats you

after all, no one owes anyone

this world, not everyone will treat you wholeheartedly, and no one has an obligation to be kind to you.

those who treat you well are all important people in your life, so you should cherish them.

after all, no one owes anyone a lifetime.

heard a friend tell such a story.

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when he was in college, he had a more congenial friend, and he was very kind to him.

this friend's family condition is not very good, so he will share any good things with this friend, clothes will be worn with him, new electronics. Will play with him.

once, as soon as he bought the latest mobile phone, he was borrowed by this friend, but by the time he returned it, one of the buttons was already shaky.

although he didn't say anything, he reflected on whether he was too kind to this friend, and he gradually withdrew his kindness.

and this friend is even more strange. when he no longer shares everything with him, he asks him what's wrong, and then goes to the group of classmates to spread bad words about him.

Don't blame everyone in your life, especially the one who treats you well.

No one in the world has an obligation to be nice to anyone except their parents. When you meet someone who is kind to you, you should cherish and be grateful.

people who are willing to help you do not owe you anything, it is their duty to help you, and it is their duty not to help you, nothing is taken for granted.

Love or friendship, if you cherish those who are good to you, you must understand that no one in this world is stupid and no one owes each other.

cherish the person who attaches great importance to you, and don't lose such a person.

Don't wait until you have tasted all kinds of things in the world to understand the value of the true feelings in the world.

04

Life comes and goes, and we meet all kinds of people.

some people treat you sincerely, some people pretend to regard you as; some people are nice to you, some people are hard on you.

cherish those who are good to you, and never mind those who are bad to you, for they will eventually go away and become passers-by in your life.

never blame anyone you meet in your life at any time.

learn to be grateful and learn to see things from a broader perspective.

the right person, please be grateful for bringing you happiness;

the wrong person, bring you lessons, do not blame.

No one can hurt you as long as you don't care.

Don't let someone in your life lose your ability to be happy, to be kind, and to be grateful.

how lucky it is for people to meet each other, and do and cherish it!

A man will end up with nothing in his life, so every day of his life is a gift from heaven.

how to spend a day in life, blame or rest assured, the decision is up to you.

stand in the higher dimension of life and look at anyone and everything you meet.

you will find that there is nothing to vent your anger, everything is the best arrangement.

I wish you and me peace and peace for the rest of my life.

encourage!