Love can't be like a poem. It can't be like that.

Love cannot be poetic, because imaginary love will remove the true ordinariness and triviality, and love will become ethereal and lose its roots and sense of security. But love can not be like this, rigid dogma is only written in the framework of the strategy, the adjustment of life is a necessary catalyst to keep love fresh, with adjustment, you can better understand each other and help each other, wipe the wolf black ….

things start with an APP a few days ago.

A couple's answer was published on an APP a few days ago. Why don't you want to watch Korean TV dramas with me? Even if you stay with me for a while watching?

the boyfriend's answer is very interesting. He told a story about his ex. After Ren sent a breakup word like a Korean TV series, the man was surprised and thought, why don't you want to watch Korean TV dramas together? Because I want to live a real life with you. You watch one movie after another, step by step like the devil's pace?

the boy finally wrote: there are many ways to love someone, to love each other comfortably. I prefer to take the initiative in our lives rather than be moved by other people's stories.

the next day, in my circle of friends, many people commented with all kinds of thoughts and golden sentences. Some people said that girls just wrote, watching a TV show had to be put into reality, and they didn't see if they were as beautiful as flowers. Some people say that men are completely thinking of animals in the lower body, and marketing some romantic scenes with them is to cast pearls before swine.

coincidentally, after arriving at the company that day, a female colleague had red eyes. I asked what was the matter. She sighed that she had a big fight because she showed her boyfriend a question yesterday, and her boyfriend grabbed the door and never returned.

I tentatively asked, where is the point of your quarrel? The girl said, only that he should know a little romance, girls do not like reality, there is still a fairy tale in mind, hoping to have a better love, even if they get married and have children, there must be some romance between the two, right? Otherwise, can you still call it love? He scolded me for watching Korean TV dramas and not doing housework every day, but isn't he busy playing games?

I smiled. You two laugh for fifty steps and laugh for a hundred paces. Don't talk about each other.

I once asked the female friends around me why they like watching idol dramas or Korean dramas so much. The answer is almost the same, rich and handsome, rich second generation, wearing tailored clothes, all kinds of coincidences, falling in love with a loser or poor girl, both sides at first all kinds of misunderstandings, do not like it, and then a few male and female matches or mix or mix, the two fall in love and switch back and forth before their brother and Agassi. Then there was a big change, and the two broke up again, and finally, the male and female couples joined or mixed again, and finally became the right fruit to wipe the wolf black.

this theory even my mother knows that my mother is a typical enthusiast of Korean TV dramas. She was influenced by "watching and watching" and "the Men of the Bath House owners". She thought that Korean TV dramas often had hundreds of episodes, and then passed through the mind. It turned out that there were so many handsome men and beautiful women and crying plots on the video website, so she was moved to tears every day with my iPad in her arms.

I once asked my mother curiously, how can you still watch this kind of idol play for young girls when you are in your fifties? My mother glared at me. What do you know? What woman doesn't know about love? Who says only young girls are affectionate?

I held my forehead and walked away. I thought my mother could be a writer. I took a rest.

think about it carefully, women are more emotional in the face of emotion, and they will avoid a lot of unsatisfactory reality to their dependence on movies and TV dramas. My mother often uses the characters in so-and-so to criticize my father's dislike of travel and so on. The romantic gene in women's bones determines that they want to establish the most romantic expectations, and this kind of romance is not allowed to be touched by reality.

the romantic gene of boys is the product of another attribute compared with girls. Physiologically, the sensory stimulation of girls emanates from the subcutaneous brain, acts on the cerebral nerves, and is more sensitive in the right brain. On the other hand, the senses of boys are stimulated directly from the adrenal gland and act on the male Coleman of the man.

this is why the romance of women is to watch movies, eat western food and go to the park with you, while the ultimate romance of boys is to push you down. Of course, now many strong girls also say that I want to give you a monkey. This. It's not within the scope of what I'm talking about. Ahem.

on another level, there are differences between boys and girls in their attitudes towards real love. For example, in an APP problem, boys tell stories about their ex holding umbrellas. Girls hope that boys can put their coats on girls as they do in TV dramas, talking and laughing and waiting for sunny days and rainbows, while boys hope to pull her to find eaves to hide from the rain.

who are you saying is wrong? Based on what I said earlier, they are all right. Girls are more adaptable, so girls are in a weak position in the relationship, and are used to bearing and waiting when unexpected situations come. On the other hand, most of the boys are strong personalities, possessive and protective, and hope to conflict and resist in the most direct way when emergencies come.

so, in terms of love, girls are mostly like poems, while boys are generally the same.

does romance exist in love all the time? I think romance is the word we think about when we pursue it, and it may be more appropriate to change it into a mood after marriage.

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my uncle and aunt are very ordinary people. My uncle is a middle school teacher, my aunt works as a clerk in a bank, and she is also a fan of idol drama. They have been working together for 20 years, and both of them are people who can create an atmosphere. More accurately, my uncle is relatively weak in this respect. Compared with his aunt, his character may be more expectation and cooperation than construction.

but my aunt is lively, and she is still as keen on new things as a little girl in her forties, such as going to the world of two on some anniversaries and eating in a western restaurant with a good environment. These things made a small surprise waiting for my uncle's exclamation, but although the uncle could not think of the form, he would prepare a bouquet or small gifts in advance to please his aunt.

the same is true of my uncle, which is the most annoying thing for men who like shopping, but he doesn't mind saying beautiful things about her shopping when his aunt comes back from shopping. Moreover, my uncle will use a lot of careful thoughts to please my aunt, such as the recliner made by myself, keep the ticket stubs of all the cinemas, parks, and trips they have visited together, cook soup for my aunt attentively, and take my aunt to the supermarket after work. Will take the initiative to wash dishes and do housework. He will create the joy of life within his limited conditions.

I once secretly asked my aunt, you love watching Korean TV dramas so much. Those men in Korean TV dramas are all financiers. My uncle is not a successful career. Won't you blame him? Aunt smiled, are you stupid, those people in the Korean TV series can compare with your uncle? Your uncle is alive.

I was deliberately meant to talk to her, so the people in the South Korean TV series didn't die either? My aunt hit me on the head, no matter how good the idol drama is, it can't be real, it's not yours, only the people around him are real, if he's not good, you can make him good, don't you just get a bargain when he's good? The people around you have to live a lifetime.

I rubbed my aunt's painful head and made it clear. In a trance, I thought my aunt was also a writer.

for plots as gorgeous as idol dramas, girls are more likely to be moved by boyfriends who take care of them in real life. However, when you meet an indifferent boy, you have to put those vulgar plots on yourself.

for a boy who likes to be able to create sentiment in life, his behavior will make his girlfriend feel more romantic than those idols. But it is a pity that there are not many such boys, and some of them are not straight. Therefore, love, such as poetry is still the case, the need for both men and women to communicate and adjust, do not all by their temper to come.

the contradiction between the so-called Korean TV dramas and living, in reality, is a running-in problem in the early stages of love between men and women. After years of love experience, life will erode the initial feeling of love clean, when the companionship and responsibility of affection will become the daily theme, no longer need to speculate on each other's intentions, there is no need for deliberate romance, they will pass on their love for each other to their loved ones, but also will pass on each other's love to the next generation so that the long-flowing love is lasting.

want to say to the girls, sister, your partner will not be able to satisfy you as you expected at some point, but you have chosen him as your partner and you have to tolerate his shortcomings. He can't fully understand what's on your mind, so you can tell him and try to understand and communicate instead of blaming and complaining. You must understand that the hand in the hand of love is the distance of the heart, you have to be close to the distance, not estranged. If you have something to say, crying, making trouble, hanging three won't solve the problem.

then say to the boys, dude, take the initiative, women are always romantic, you try your best to catch up with the woman you love, you have to take good care of her, your wife is used for pain after all. When the sky falls, you hold it, but she cleans the backyard for you and has to have children for you. How about watching a Korean TV play with her? When you watched the World Cup, didn't she drink beer and follow you foolishly? Heart to heart, it seems that you have wronged yourself, but you have grown up in love, home, and everything, and you are the one who succeeds in the end.

Love cannot be poetic, because imaginary love removes the true ordinariness and triviality, and love becomes ethereal, losing its roots and sense of security. But love can not be like this, rigid dogma is only written in the framework of the strategy, the adjustment of life is a necessary catalyst to keep love fresh, with adjustment, you can better understand each other and help each other, wipe the wolf black ….

you have your inner romance, I have my way of care, invisible and tangible, see the movie, this is women and men, this is your seemingly different but the same way of love.