Is a hundred years of harmony a myth?

Is a hundred years of harmony a myth?

Douban column [reading novels on Tuesday]

Zhang Rui married Minx, a well-matched woman, but he was still worried about his ex-girlfriend Sira. When he was in a dilemma about whether to divorce or not, he found that his problems were more than that. One side is the perfect partner, the other is once passionately in love, "A hundred years of Harmony" is actually a man's ups and downs of the honeymoon.

the author deconstructs the love myth of the supremacy of true love with a Woody Allen movie tone, rewrites the secular meaning of the relationship between men and women and marriage, and gives people a unique emotional understanding.

A hundred years of Haohe

1

Minx and I met through blind dates. She's about the twelfth person I've ever had a blind date with. I didn't ask which one I was.

it rained that day. She was wearing a black trench coat and work card was still hanging around her neck. The rain is probably very heavy, her hair was wet a few strands, in the brightly lit lobby of the hotel, slightly inconsistent with the painting style.

the doorman tried to take the umbrella in her hand, but she refused. It was a pink umbrella with a touch of cherry pollen. It took a long time, and there was some discoloration in the folds.

this is what I saw later. This umbrella was kept in her glove box all the time.

like a looming secret.

We got married after knowing each other for half a year, not for a long time. My mother is satisfied with her, her mother is satisfied with me, the right age, equal conditions, no one will take advantage of each other, so the project is moving forward especially quickly.

she doesn't have any requirements for the wedding theme. The girl from the wedding company asked her, "what color do you like?"

"Pink." I answered hastily and looked at her proudly.

Minx smiled and took my hand and said, "Yes, pink."

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the wedding was pink and was teased by my colleagues: I didn't expect you to have a dream wedding.

my assistant Emma is also getting married the following year, and her boyfriend refuses to make any compromise at the wedding: why the King of Thief theme? I want World of Warcraft! The two men had a cold war over this for a while.

she said, boss, you are the perfect man.

I once wanted a travel wedding, flying over 12 time zones from Shanghai, driving to Chile, and finally changing ships and drifting to the Antarctic Circle, taking a picture in each time zone. And hang it on the wall of the new house.

now I'm exhausted when I think about it.

We spent our honeymoon in Mauritius. Coinciding with the rainy season, the locals said that a torrential rain had just passed and the whole sky was like a wet wall. The thick woods looked angry and bored, with drooping leaves swaying with the wind, as if they had been scolded all the time.

Minx has been reading email. I can't see anything. I'm old. Long-distance flight is like torture. I can't sleep. I can't wake up. A dream is linked to a dream. The whole person is like an overloaded computer, sweating after sweating.

it was noon when I struggled out of bed. I looked around drowsy and found that Minx was long gone. She left a note telling me to rest first and come back for lunch.

this is the first time I have been able to read her words carefully. The words are not big, but they are full of bones and tendons. Each stroke is like a taut bow string, as if the words have a sound. My handwriting is not good, so she can teach her children to write in the future.

it began to rain outside again, and I don't know what she did.

when I went to the lobby, the waiter immediately asked me what I could do for you. I don't need help. I'm just bored and worried about whether Minx has shelter from the rain. There are not many Easterners staying in this hotel. Sixing remembers me. As soon as the waiter walked away, he immediately greeted him and said, "your wife has an umbrella, pink, don't worry."

then he looked at me and I looked at him.

is it popular on this island to give face-to-face gifts? The little man is about to stick to me.

Minx came out of nowhere and greeted us from a distance. When Sihu saw her, he immediately left me and leaned over enthusiastically. Minx naturally gave him a $10 bill, and Si Li left with a red face on his face.

Oh, it dawned on me.

Minx explained: this hotel has more European guests, although the European economy is not as bad as before, in the original colony, how to highlight the sense of superiority without tipping?

it's probably so boring that we laughed about it for a long time. Picking up the sunny stalls, we took several photos and put them on our moments to deal with all kinds of relatives who came to greet us. The sun, the beautiful scenery, and the endless clear shoals do not laugh like boredom.

my old classmate asked me if I was a newlywed. He is also in Wechat of Sira. I don't know what to answer without hurting Sira,. I can only send a smile on my face.

this is my most popular boss, po, who sent me a big red envelope to tell me to have a good rest and congratulated my old enemies.

it makes sense that ancient people liked to celebrate with marriage. Everything is like Hollywood values, no matter how messy it used to be, marriage can cure everything. There is an illusion of happily ever after.

2

because the flight time is too long, my biological clock is like a cat that has been abused. I must go to sleep in the middle of the night. Minx was very considerate. She prepared melatonin and hot milk for me. After reading for a while, I had Rest alone. She didn't even need me to turn off the lights, just pulled down the blindfold and soon made a uniform sound of breathing.

Sira still has no reply. She hasn't contacted me since we broke up. This is not like her temper, she has a big temper, reasonable and unforgiving, really broke up, did not expect her to be so quiet. We haven't seen each other for more than a year, not long or short, but I have a lot of guilt.. It was originally planned that if she got into trouble and gave her a sum of money, it would be regarded as something on her mind. But she left quietly.

my mother told me: "you want to get married voluntarily, not I forced you, but since you want to get married, you have to be worthy of your wife and children."

I know what she means: Sira, and I are no longer possible.

or being with someone you love is not a pleasant thing in itself. People will show animal nature in love, exclusive, stupid, rely on instinct to do things, years of culture and education will be destroyed, what they do is very unseemly. Without Sira is good for me and without me is good for Sira.

I said, "Mom, don't worry, I won't be like my father."

Mother's eyes are a little red.

the next day I flew to Mauritius with Minx. Minx specifically asked me if I wanted to take my mother with me. She said the place was so beautiful that her mother would like it. This is a good companion, isn't it? Generous, quiet, tolerant, filial piety, and do not need me to love you to intimidate others to do things they do not want to do.

like the holy water lake, you come, I am here, you go, do not send. All over Mauritius, that's my favorite place. Minx is not, she likes the Black River Valley, she has a full set of mountaineering equipment, less rain, she is going to climb the mountain.

Sira did not give me a like or reply. All my po hang there quietly, like the clowns of Chafu, can't wait to show off.

did she block me? I was surprised and immediately searched the Internet to find out whether I had been blocked without disturbing each other. Maybe most of the people with this problem have the same context as my current situation. Someone advised: it makes sense to ask if you can talk without blocking. You can't even talk to others. What's the difference between blocking and blocking?

it really hit the nail on the head.

I'm the one who can't even talk to her, and it's a good thing she blocked me. But I'm afraid she's sad. She cries too easily. I sat by the hotel swimming pool in a daze, the off-season swimming pool against the semi-cloudy day, like a pool of tears, so that my whole heart was about to drown. Minx's call rescued me. She met an old friend on the mountain and told me that everyone had dinner together in the evening. Her voice was very happy. I was like pulling up a life-saving straw and escaping back to the bustling human world.