In fact, he wants to break up with you.

he suddenly began to be very busy, he repeatedly said that recently he is too tired not to be paranoid, he will no longer contact you unless you take the initiative to call him, he aggrieved to say no, ah, give me another chance. Please be careful, he may already want to break up with you!

the first stage of a cold and violent breakup: he is suddenly very busy

he is suddenly very busy when you are still immersed in the joy of being passionately in love.

your reaction is: I want to be good /or why he is so busy, you refrain from reducing the frequency of contact, and he won't ignore you at all, and occasionally send you text messages. Call

but there is no onomatopoeia, such as "I'm home!" Become "I'm home"

PS: hugs and kisses become less

stage 2: you start questioning

when the first stage lasts for a while, you think you're not as enthusiastic as you used to be, and finally you start asking him

why he's been like this lately?

this time, This kind of person won't tell you directly, "I don't really love you that much" or "I'm already in love with someone else."

they usually say, "No, I've been tired lately" or "under a lot of stress" and then tell you "Don't think about it".

there will be a relaxation of time after that, and your feeling is that he touched your head to comfort you.

the third stage of cold violent breakup: if you do not contact him, he will not contact

when there are some signs of improvement in the second stage, the degree of coldness between you may not exceed that of the first stage, but it is impossible to return to the time before cold violence, he suddenly stopped contacting you.

this is the sign of the so-called third stage.

at this time, if you send a text message, he will reply, and if you call, he will also answer it.

but I won't contact you if it's not necessary.

your madness is endless again: what is he thinking? Doesn't he love me anymore? How could we do this?

A series of question marks make you lose yourself gradually.

you will ask your friends for advice and ask yourself that you have great emotional ups and downs, and the focus has all shifted to this relationship.

but when he doesn't say anything, you don't want to break up.

stage 4: when you start saying, let's break up

this time women usually say, "I can't stand it. Let's break up."

the mentality at this time is to redeem it, not to break up.

usually, people who use cold violence at this time will say, "No, or give me another chance." In short, I want you to stay and not to let you leave.

at this time, you feel a little better and feel that the other person still cares about you. However, this good mood is also mixed with a lot of unease.

Cold and violent people just hang your mood.

Cold violent breakup stage 5: ease

this stage, because, with the previous stage 4, he will be a little nicer to you.

you will feel that the other person is back, which is with too many feelings of apology. It won't last long, very short.

stage 6 of a cold and violent breakup: when you begin to believe that love is lost

when you begin to believe that love is lost and regained, they begin to reply to stage 3, do not contact you, and get worse.

for example, the text message you sent may be lost, and the phone you called may be turned off.

stage 7 of a cold and violent breakup: you have gone crazy and lost yourself completely

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when you have gone through the first six stages, your mentality is very bad.

your feelings are so strong that you cry easily, cry before you can wait for his message, and cry when you walk past the places where you used to have good memories.

you wander back and forth between breaking up and not breaking up. I can't sleep or eat, but it's a pity he doesn't know all this.

the eighth stage of a cold and violent breakup: when you break up, he is silent.

it takes a long time to go through the seventh stage, painful round trip, friend persuasion, scolding, you will enter the eighth stage of no greater sorrow than the death of your heart.

you sent a text message saying you broke up, and the other person responded in silence.

conclusion-people who will use this way of a breakup, the eighth stage is the full stop of your breakup

people who generally use this way of breakup are afraid of commitment and have no sense of responsibility. They choose to escape, they do not even dare to break up this kind of people has an extreme inferiority complex.

maybe if one of them has P legs, it can also speed up the process of breakup.

usually after silence, you ignore them, and they will come to you and say: I'm sorry. Similar to redeeming but ambiguous words.

the root cause is that they can't be sure whether they can love you or not.

Summary-Why is it the most hurtful?

the invisible thing about this breakup is that it allows you to follow your emotions with him for a long time. And gradually lose myself, every day in the way all your topics become him.

you pay attention to a lot of this, you pay attention to the experience of your friends.

you occasionally numb yourself to feel that he loves you, and you occasionally live in cruel sobriety.

conclusion-what kind of people will be broken up with cold force?

I summed up a circle, I think three words-good girls!

Why are good girls vulnerable to cold violence? Because they can't find a reason to break up with you, they run away.

some people say they are waiting for you to break up, and then say yes.

this is not entirely the case, because good girls are too good, and they need it and don't want to be responsible for it at the same time, then there will be a round trip between cold and hot.

Summary-write to those friends who are going through any stage

Dear, I love you so much, because I have hurt you too.

but how can the person who loves you be willing to make you so sad?

ask yourself, is he worth it? In other words, he doesn't deserve it.

do you miss him or your unfinished love in your heart?

the plans you have left to the worthy ones, you know, it won't be him!