I thought you'd know me better than anyone else.

people sometimes risk their whole lives for the sake of a wish that doesn't know whether it can be realized.

those who laugh at their stupidity are, after all, just passers-by in life.

| Akutagawa Ryunosuke

1.

the department where I used to work is called the marketing department.

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when I first joined the company, the director told me, Xiao Yue, to add these more than 60 people in our marketing department as friends of Wechat, and get familiar with their work and acquaintance with them as soon as possible. I said yes, I will integrate into the environment as soon as possible.

when I got home in the evening, I added them one by one.

what shocked me was that of the more than 60 people, there were only three boys, and all the others were girls.

this imbalance between boys and girls, I think only in our art school, did not expect, in the workplace, girls to live more and more like men.

on the day I resigned, a girl chatted with me in private. She only dared to complain to me about the hard work when she said she was not a colleague, but what is not hard to do now? She said that she and her boyfriend had not seen each other for a long time, because they were in different places and were busy with their respective works. sometimes, she felt that her boyfriend knew less and less about her than her colleagues. But she loves her boyfriend so much that she maintains a long-distance working relationship.

after graduation, I found that there was no shortage of such girls around me.

when chatting with them, I feel that each of them is better than the other, and their independence at work makes them realize their social value, but it makes them lose their original tenderness and eventually becomes a careless rough man in return for their feelings.

2.

what makes a girl become a strong woman? I think they need people around them to understand what they are thinking because everyone has unspeakable difficulties.

after watching the movie the Devil in Prada, it made me think a lot.

the Devil is dazzling and beautiful and strong in front of the media.

however, as she wears glasses and sits on the sofa, she explains the rest of her schedule to her assistant, including the upbringing of her children and a divorce certificate.

in the end, however, Anne Hathaway's character gave up her career and chose love.

We can say that this is a choice, but Selina, a member of s.h.e, also divorced her husband, which is also a choice.

in her announcement, I was impressed by the sentence: "Love used to be my whole life, but now my mind has changed. I don't want to be occupied by love only. I also want to do what I like." This is a very mature decision but also appears to be very mild. A friend showed me a moving picture on Weibo. When Selina stood up, her best friend helped her with her skirt for fear that she would fall, while my husband stood by and just applauded.

Women's thoughts are always at the bottom of the sea, and the one who can understand our hearts

may be our best friend or our partner.

but in any case, girls who regard love as all,

their thoughts are always "I thought you would know me better than others."

3.

people who know you will always fit you very well,

so I always like to do this kind of test.

sometimes I always retweet my questions on moments, and sometimes I find that my old friends who don't get in touch with me are 100% right, but my friends who talk a lot now don't know all about themselves.