I only owe two people in my life.

as the ancients said, "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the son wants to raise but kiss."

in life, we are always busy chasing, and we always hope for a long time to return to our parents.

you don't know that filial piety to your parents can't wait a moment.

parents love deeply and never ask their children for anything in return.

We should see this affection and try our best to return it in time.

01

Children with parents are the most blessed

recently, a video shared by netizens has become tearful.

in a family in Qingdao, Shandong Province, a 92-year-old grandmother is making dumplings slowly.

while netizens'72-year-old mother, Ge You lies on the sofa, eating cherries while watching TV.

netizens advised grandma to let her mother give her a hand.

Grandma waved and refused, saying lovingly, "Let your mother have a good rest!"

Grandma's movements are very slow, but she can give her daughter a good rest, with a contented smile on her face all the time. The mother on the sofa is also relieved to enjoy this indulgence, like a child, carefree.

it turns out that no matter how old you are and when your mother is in pain, you can put aside the pressure of life and inner pain and only taste the warmth and joy of the present moment.

A friend around her, her mother died early. She was so strong that she never cried.

once, when she went out with us, she heard a song "Women's Flowers" and suddenly burst into tears. Only when she asked, did she know that it was her mother's favorite song.

A child without a mother is like a boat without a harbor, drifting in its heart and having no choice but to carry on.

every holiday in the past, Aunt Li, the neighbor, would spend half a day booking a high-speed train ticket home a week in advance, buying his father's favorite wine, carrying his mother's favorite cakes, and running to the high-speed railway station like the Spring Festival.

however, during the holidays these years, she always signs up for a group trip by herself.

when someone asked why, Aunt Li sighed and said sadly, "Don and the old woman are gone. I don't have a home. It's the same wherever I go."

Zhou Guoping said: "No matter how old a person is, as long as he loses his parents, he will become an orphan."

lost their parents, no matter how beautiful the scenery has become overshadowed, no matter how many achievements are only pale.

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all one's life is owed to his parents

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the famous painter Wu Guanzhong once told the story of him and his father.

he was born in a poor peasant family. His mother was weak and sick. the whole family was supported by his father, and he was both a father and a mother.

in order to save money, his father often rowed a black boat to send him to school, but never stopped the boat near the school, just so as not to be seen by other candidates or parents and laugh at his children.

in order to collect tuition fees, his father beat rice day and night; when he got to school, he made his bed non-stop, and when his father left tired, Wu Guanzhong cried bitterly for the first time in his life.

in the dark night, my father was still feeling the dark, clumsily sewing him a tattered quilt.

he woke up in his sleep, saw this scene, and secretly swore in his heart: when I succeed one day, I must repay my father!

it is a pity that when he became a generation of painters and wanted to be filial to his father, his father had already passed away.

he can only be reunited with his father in a dream and wake up wet on his pillow.

in fact, Wu Guanzhong can see that his father's efforts are not easy, and he is secretly determined to repay, which is a kind of comfort to his parents.

it is a pity that some people do not know that they do not cherish it. They are not grateful or rewarded with their parents. Instead, they complain and beat and scold.

A few days ago, a video of a son beating a sick old man with slippers in a medical hospital in Linquan County, Anhui Province, caused a heated discussion on the Internet.

in the video, a man in black is beating an old man lying in bed with slippers. The man was so strong that he slapped, and the frightened old man dodged weakly.

the video photographer asked the man loudly, "what are you doing? I called the police!"

the man in black responded arrogantly: "come on, come on, if I don't fight, he's not all right. Look at him pretending!"

the person he said was faking illness was none other than the old father who gave birth to him and raised him.

it turns out that in April this year, the old man in the video was hospitalized with a cerebral hemorrhage, and his son, who was a migrant worker, rushed back to care. These days, the elderly urinate incontinently and are unwilling to cooperate with turning over, which leads to the infuriating scene in the video just now.

although the man in black was later detained and punished, his father was recovered and discharged from the hospital.

but I'm afraid the old father's heart riddled with holes can no longer be repaired.

the father brought up his child through painstaking hardships. When he was old and frail, he was not carefully cared for by his child, but he was even rejected and beaten!

the Law of five points says: "if in a hundred years, the right shoulder bears the father and the left shoulder bears the mother, it is convenient in size and rare in the world to provide for clothing and food, and can not repay the kindness for a moment."

even if we spend a hundred years supporting our parents on our shoulders and supporting them with all the treasures of the world, it will not be enough to repay the kindness of our relatives for a moment.

when you are young, you want to give your parents the best, but you don't have the ability; when you have the ability to fulfill filial piety, your parents may be white-haired, or they may have turned to dirt.

A person cannot repay the kindness he owes his parents in his life.

when you can fulfill your filial piety, don't give up blame; when you can repay a favor, cherish it.

03

loving parents is the hardest part in life.Shi Tiesheng, a writer of spiritual practice

, once told the story of him and his mother.

after his legs were paralyzed, he became hostile and angry.

watching the geese flying together, he would break the glass in his house in chagrin; when he heard the sweet song, he threw what was at hand against the wall.

when his mother saw this, her eyes were red and she came over to push him to Beihai Park to enjoy the flowers. He beat his feeble leg hard and growled at his mother, "No, I'm not going!"

unexpectedly, the hand of the disease had already been extended to her mother, who was already in the advanced stage of liver cancer.

his mother was tortured to death by liver pain all night, but she still put up with the pain to cook medicine for him, forced a smile in front of him during the day, took good care of his sensitive and fragile heart, and encouraged him to regain hope for life.

after his mother died, Shi Tiesheng often pushed his wheelchair back to the yard where he used to live with his mother.

he was heartbroken when he remembered his bad attitudes towards his mother in the past.

people always fail to realize that they should leave the best temper to their parents.

only when parents are alive, considerate and considerate can they leave fewer regrets.

Lu Xun's good friend Xu Shouchang once commented on Lu Xun: "Lu Xun's greatness can be seen not only in his creation, but also in his words and deeds in the treatment of his mother's diet."

Lu Xun was upright all his life and never gave in against his will, but he was only obedient to his mother.

once, Lu Xun's mother read his article and said, "there is nothing to see. How can this be regarded as a novel?"

it turns out that my mother likes to read novels by the New Mandarin Duck and Butterfly School, which is the work of Zhang Henshui.

therefore, Lu Xun did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to buy back Zhang Henshui's "Golden Fan Family" and "Beauty" for his mother.

not only that, until Lu Xun died in 1936, for more than six years, he wrote 116 home letters to his mother, kept telling her that he was safe, and specially sent her recent photos in order not to worry her.

in fact, you don't have to wait to love your parents, and what we can do doesn't have to be vigorous.

on a business trip, make a phone call to report that you are safe, and bring a special product to the elder to taste it. When you get home, let the elder have a rest, cook a small dish by yourself, and the family sits around the stove, happy and sweet.

the important thing is to be grateful and kind to your parents. This is the hardest part of being a child.

04

there has never been a long day in this world.

Don't leave yourself with regrets

Bi Shumin said a passage that makes people think:

A person's life is only short of two people: my parents who gave birth to me and raised me.

the feeling of parenting is greater than heaven, and it is worthless to be rewarded in this life; the kindness of parents is as heavy as a mountain, and it is difficult to repay it in this life.

when parents see each other, they lose one. No one knows which side is farewell.

once lost, no one will spoil us as treasures, and no one will treat us like children.

walk in the disappearance, live in the treasure.

May you give your parents the care and love you need most at the moment, hold their hands, go through the most precious years together, and leave no regrets for yourself.