Good luck and good luck are not as good as a good state of mind.

Lin Qingxuan said:

"nine out of ten things go wrong in life. I often think about one or two things, but I don't think about eight or nine things, and everything goes well."

I think so.

joys and sorrows are the norms of life. Instead of being depressed all day long, you might as well learn to live with what happens.

A lot of things, a different state of mind, there will be a different situation.

psychologist Adler also said:

the sky and the earth are not as wide as the heart, and good luck is not as good as the state of mind.

A good state of mind is the best way to maintain good health!

01

less comparison makes less trouble  

once hear a story about two birds, one living in a forest and the other living in a cage.

the two birds were envious of each other, so they switched places.

it wasn't long before both birds died.

the birds who went to the cage began to miss the freedom outside and died of gloom.

those who have freedom and yearn for the comfort of the past, because they cannot hunt, eventually starve to death.

the two birds that had settled in peace with each other did not end well because of their desire to keep up with each other.

as the old saying goes:

Honey, which is regarded as a treasure in the eyes of others, maybe a deadly poison to you.

Don't envy anyone's life, because no matter how good other people's life is, it doesn't mean it's right for you.

like the saying: "comparison is a thief who steals happiness."

because there will always be people in this world who have more than you, blindly use their weaknesses to compare the strengths of others, only get a steady stream of pain.

the comparison makes people be blinded, always envy others, but turn a blind eye to their happiness.

but the most precious thing in the world is never "ask but cannot", but "have now".

the moonlight in front of your window is better than anyone's moonlight because it only belongs to you.

Mr. Yang Jiang put it well:

if you are in the right position, you will have less trouble; if you have the right state of mind, you will not be tired.

instead of worrying about keeping up with others, it is better to live in your world.

02

some people say:

once there was a man who got a big and beautiful pearl, but he was not satisfied because there was a small spot on the pearl.

so he ruthlessly peeled off the skin of the pearl, but the spot was still there.

he just kept cutting, and finally, the spots were gone, and the pearls were gone.

he couldn't afford to be ill from now on, and on his deathbed, he told his family with great remorse that if he had not cared about that little spot, he would still have the pearl.

those who are contented are always happy. Tolerance of life is tolerance of themselves.

people are happy not because they have more, but because they care less.

American President Roosevelt's home was stolen and a lot of things were lost.

A friend wrote to comfort him as soon as he learned about it.

Roosevelt quickly wrote back to his friend to thank him, saying that he was all right and that God had blessed him.

because, although the thief stole his things, he did not hurt his life;

the thief stole only part of the things, not all of them;

the most fortunate thing is that it is the other party who is the thief, not himself.

it was unfortunate to be stolen, but when Roosevelt did not care about the misfortune of being stolen, he was out of it.

Aristotle said:

"No one can torture a man but himself."

when you learn to control your mood with your mind, you can control your life. The state word of

state of mind is a little bigger when taken apart.

when you have a big heart, things can be accommodated; if you have a small heart, you can't let go.

is like a drop of ink falling into a glass of water, the whole glass of water will be contaminated, but if it falls into the sea, it will not have the slightest effect.

A man whose heart is as broad as the sea, life is calm everywhere.

03

less complaining, happiness comes to

remember the story of the old monk and the complaining little monk?

one day, the old monk cooked a delicious meal, and the young monk complained while eating, saying that the way down the mountain was not easy and that the incense in the temple was not strong enough.

when the little monk finished, the old monk asked him, "how did the food taste?"

he replied, "I was always complaining, but I didn't notice."

when the old monk asked him to taste it again, he realized that the food was so delicious. The scary thing about complaining is that when you complain, you ignore the beauty of the moment.

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like the famous saying on the Internet: "how can a pair of tearful eyes see stars all over the sky?"

most of the time, the beauty of life depends on your state of mind.

Miss Guo, from Shanghai Yong'an Department Store, was forced to make a living by sweeping toilets.

but she still wears a cheongsam to brush the toilet every day and insists on flipping books with tweezers and baking cakes on the coal stove.

in the years of suffering, she still smiles at life and leads a picturesque life.

if the heart is sunny, there is no fear of the cold; there is light in the eyes, everywhere far away.

in the adult world, no one's life will be plain sailing.

those brave people are just used to spending their time complaining hard.

in 2019, Li now became popular because of the movie "Dear, beloved".

countless people envied his "instant popularity", but in fact, he ran through the dragon trap, had hidden in the snow, and waited for eight years of cold and summer to wait for the advent of Korean Shang Yan.

in those low days, he never gave up, stuck to his dream, and constantly studied all kinds of performances.

to make the character fuller, he learned the authentic Chongqing dialect and successfully gained more than 20 jin in 45 days.

spend all your time complaining about hard work, and one day, suffering will become a light to light the way ahead.

the less you complain, the sooner happiness will come!

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A good attitude leads to

as Zhou Guoping said:

"the body is dominated by the mind, and a good state of mind is the best way to maintain good health."

less comparison, you will be able to grasp the beauty of the present;

Don't worry about it, life will be full of scenery;

stop complaining, and a bright future will be waiting for you.

broad-minded is a blessing, open-mindedness is the road, and a good state of mind is better than any supplement.

when you have a good state of mind, happiness is always with you.

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