Give, leave it to someone who cares about you.

01

I have seen such a sentence: "the fish trusted the water so much, but the water boiled the fish; the leaves trusted the wind so much, but the wind blew off the leaves." "

We are always defenseless against someone because we trust him, and we are willing to pay because we cherish a certain relationship, but in the end, the one who hurts you the most is often the one you love most.

after a few times of pain, I have learned more and more that the most important thing in a relationship is not to like or fit, but to understand each other.

because love may fade over time, and appropriate conditions may deviate in getting along with each other. Only when you understand it can you feel at ease with each other.

you know my pay, I know you care, so you will care about my pay, I will cherish your care, such a relationship, can go on for a long time and firmly.

I remember the saying that if you take one step towards me, I will have the courage to take the remaining 99 steps and run to hug you, but I want to say that a good relationship is not like this.

I know that it is difficult to equalize the balance of feelings. There will always be one person who loves more and the other who loves less. But if it is too unbalanced, one side tries his best to increase his love, while the other is always perfunctory. The party who has no bottom line to yield and accommodate can only move himself in the end and have nothing after being bruised and bruised.

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you can love someone especially, but you can't even have a bottom line.

good feelings, you must be willing, you come and go, you take the first step for me, then I am willing to take the first step for you, so down-to-earth, to work in the same direction.

the only way to love a person is to be matched and evenly matched.

02

I have read such a sentence to the effect that the biggest regret in a relationship is not that you miss the best person, but that when you meet the best person, you find that you have used up the best of yourself.

if you have experienced that kind of disappointment, if you have experienced the kind of disappointment that is good to a person, but you can't cherish it, and you can only feel discouraged to leave in the end, you will find that even if you meet a very good person in the future, you don't dare to give as unreservedly as before.

you really want to trust him, but you are afraid that it will be like before, in the end, the moon will be empty and your sense of security is so scarce that you dare not love or show who you really are.

you are frustrated to find that you have almost lost the ability to love bravely because of a period of wrong giving and a bad past.

although the person who really loves you will slowly come to your heart, open a happy window for you and let the sun shine in, this state will make the emotional road very bumpy and need to overcome more and more difficulties.

so you see, if you give to the wrong person, for a long time, you will face not only unrewarded disappointment, but also self-doubt and self-denial, which is really not worth it.

you should remember that those who love you are reluctant to wait for you for too long, will not always be cold and dry, turn a blind eye to your grievances, and if a person has to haggle over any kindness to you, then he must not be the one who deserves your affection.

it's really free, but it's not cheap. You make yourself so expensive that you shouldn't make it cheaper for others. What's more, people who really care about you will never let you be humble to the dust.

Don't fall in love with a person easily, let alone give to a person easily.

No matter when, no matter who we are facing, we should cherish our love and giving, just as birds cherish their feathers.

I hope that at the best age, we can all meet the person you cherish the most, love will be responded to, and our efforts will be cherished.

for the rest of your life, be sure to leave it to someone who really cares about you, okay?