For the rest of my life, be quiet without arguing.

01

the heart will like it and live a slower life.

I remember that in the freshman body test, boys ran 1500 meters because they seldom exercised in high school. I ran very hard that time. Although my grades were very good, I threw up and turned pale after running. I was scared enough to choke teachers and students at that time.

at that time, I suddenly realized that it was not so cool to fight for that first place and break the record.

if you want to run fast and have good endurance, you must keep exercising every day and slowly get better, instead of running very fast all of a sudden without side effects.

We need to maintain an indifferent attitude towards the results of many things, because there are many things you can't rush, and you can't get to the top in one step, so you might as well calm down and do it a little bit.

A quiet and undisputed attitude is sometimes the one that can best achieve the goal.

02

if you experience more, your heart will calm down.

I always hear the elders say, "when you're my age, you'll understand."

I didn't understand it before, but now I can understand how they feel. In fact, what our elders say, we often feel that they are lagging behind and do not listen to them, but it is only at a certain age that we find that the original times are changing, but the difficulties and feelings of life are similar from generation to generation.

although their days are trivial, they see through a lot.

sometimes, what happens in the world is not that we don't want to change, but that we try our best to listen to our destiny, give, and strive for it. We don't have to force it, and we don't have to be upset.

after I have experienced more and ate more rice and salt, I will naturally let go of a lot of obsession and cling to love when I am young. When I am in my twenties, I know that it is really stupid, life is very difficult, and love is nothing.

when you come to the year of destiny, you will feel that you are really too attached to yourself in middle age, that the trivialities of life are trivial, and it is already the greatest blessing to be able to live healthily.

Don't fight, don't hold on, don't rob, don't be jealous, it's already another realm of life.

03

ordinary us, there is no need to fight for everything, do not let the limited life so tired.

I used to take the bus, in fact, there are seats on the bus, you can stand without a seat, but everyone likes to huddle on, stuck in the doorway, and the efficiency of getting on the bus is very low. I usually let me stand in the back and not argue about this.

my mother used to like to go to Taobao to grab things on sale at 0 o'clock. Some of them are really cheaper, but they have to stay up late and most of them can't get them, and they are very unhappy in the middle of the night.

I told her not to rob that, had a good sleep, and made up for the price difference. If I really didn't want to give up the money, my son bought it.

We are all ordinary citizens, and it is normal that we inevitably like to be greedy for small gains without losing face. However, there is no need to cling to some things, nor do we need to be deliberate. If some things give way without harming our own interests, let's give way and have nothing to lose, really.

small concessions, big blessings; big concessions, merit.

04

Are you looking for the perfect fitting long sleeve club dress to bring out your body shape and figure? This is the part for the unique, as you.

what belongs to you won't go, and what doesn't belong to you can't stay.

I always say that all encounters are meant to be.

this may seem fatalistic, but in fact, it is very applicable to comfort yourself.

on that day, I was a pair of friends, very affectionate. The girl was upset about why she didn't listen to her father's advice to study abroad, and the boys were also annoyed that they didn't study hard in high school and didn't get into the university they wanted.

I laughed at that time, and I said, "you two, if one went abroad and the other went to 985MB 211, would you two still be together?"

they laughed after hearing this.

Yes, I'm actually having a good time at the moment, so everything is the best arrangement. Even if life is not satisfactory for the time being, it is at least alive and trying to make progress, and that is the best arrangement.

because, if not for the way you are now, no one knows if you would be much worse than you are now.

cherish the people in front of you, don't look back, don't insist on losing, and don't fight for things that don't belong to you in the first place.

05

Buddhist life is also a high realm.

hard work is a kind of spirit, calm, but also a kind of spirit. We uphold goodness, do not have bad relations with the world, treat people sincerely, and deserve to be respected even if we live an ordinary life.

I've experienced a lot, and I've seen through a lot. I don't want to fight for a lot of things. It's not that I don't want to fight, but it's not worth it.

for the rest of my life, I will be calm, calm and simple for the rest of my life.