Find a man who is willing to be soft for you for the rest of your life.

it is interesting to see a sentence: "sometimes I love you very much, sometimes I want to shoot you, but on the way to buy a gun, when I see your favorite sweet soybean milk, I forget that I am here to kill you."

at first glance, it is forgetful, then it is difficult to love and hate, and it tastes sweet and happy after reading it several times.

Wenger. Julie wrote in the Law of Happy Marriage: "even in the best marriage, there will be 200 thoughts of divorce and 50 impulses to strangle each other."

Life is too short. If disputes are inevitable, may you meet a man who is willing to coax you and spoil you.

01

men who argue with reason all lose

some people describe a woman as a cat, emotional and elusive, and you never know what offends him.

A joke on the Internet is very true:

the boyfriend said: the facial cleanser you just bought is ginger?

after hearing this, the girl felt that her stupid boyfriend could not even distinguish between lime and ginger. She also remembered that her boyfriend did not like ginger, that he did not put ginger in cooking for him, and that he did not like green peppers but his boyfriend didn't remember every time. I also remembered that my boyfriend actually remembered that his ex-girlfriend didn't like bean sprouts.

the girl said, "go alone and pack up and go."

boyfriend:?

you never know when your girlfriend will explode, or when she is already angry.

it sounds funny and helpless. is it really angry?

there are jealousy, grievances and anger. Is to care about, is undisguised possessiveness, but also disguised coquetry and full of love.

every time her inexplicable temper is nothing more than a little more care and love.

it so happens that many men don't understand and begin to argue with reason.

A bosom friend once restored the psychological change of quarreling with her partner on the Internet:

"I made an appointment to see a movie, but there was an urgent delay in the company, and my girlfriend said that she had been disciplined for a long time but did not go, which was too disappointing.

the man thought: didn't you explain it? it's not my fault. Why did she ignore what I said?

Women think: if you want to talk, you have to speak well. what kind of attitude is this?

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the man thought: I have raised the volume on the key words, how can she still ignore it?

Women think: why are you amplifying the sound? Are you trying to yell at me? "

Women complain, men try every means to reason and persuade, but women will not listen to a word, only care about the attitude of men.

she will ponder and ponder over and over again: "Why is it so hard to coax me? you dare to yell at me. If you don't love me, you just don't love me."

what's the result?

No matter how much men say, the more chilling women feel, even though men have the upper hand, they do not know that there have been earth-shaking changes in women's hearts.

the battlefield of love, the man who fights for reason will never win.

02

A man who is soft is not a pussy, but a man who loves

has seen a super sweet couple's daily routine:

yesterday I played chess with my wife. After five moves, I was in sight.

my wife's face elongated and insisted that a horse could walk the word "field". Because it was a Chollima, I put up with it.

he also said that soldiers can go backwards. They are special forces, and I put up with it.

I have to let the elephant cross the river. It's Dumbo, and I put up with it.

the worst thing is that the gun can be played without chess or more than two, because it is an anti-aircraft gun, I still put up with it.

what's unbearable is that the car can turn, and it's plausible to say that there's a car that can't turn? I put up with all this and continue to struggle to lock in the win.

but in the end, she used my taxi and killed my general.

said that this was a spy who had been lurking for many years and was specially sent to work undercover.

in the end, she won.

so she happily went to wash clothes and cook.

what an unreasonable lady, what a man who can bear it?

is it timid? It's pet or love.

netizens leave messages and feel that it is not a place to be reasonable, and men who reason with their wives have serious problems with their IQ. "

Zhang Jie also revealed on the program: "at first, I didn't want to apologize because I thought I was right, but then I thought I wouldn't do anything to apologize."

so you have to be sincere and say 'you're right' from the bottom of your heart. "

you say that it is really the woman's own fault, but she has been humbled again and again, does she really not know?

not necessarily.

she can feel the favor and love of a man. When she is given preferential treatment, she will only become more grateful and sweet, feel that she is precious in the other person's heart, and thus be doubly kind to him.

A win-win situation, why not?

03

wife, the blessing of a family

Hu Shi is notoriously "afraid of the inside". In his later years, Hu Shi lamented: "tolerance is more important than freedom."

he said: "the ancients used to persuade women to follow three virtues, and men to get three from four.

the three followers are: first, the wife should follow her when she goes out; second, the wife should obey the orders; third, the wife should follow blindly if she says something wrong;

the four points are: first, the wife should wait for makeup; second, the wife should remember her birthday; third, the wife should bear beating and scolding; fourth, the wife should be willing to spend money. "

A few words that are playful and reasonable don't sound like a smile.

is to understand, to hear, to be vertical, to seem helpless, but to see through and have great wisdom.

some people sigh that the face of the wife determines the direction of the whole family.

look at a family and a husband.The noodles are all fake, and the wife is the blessing of a family.

only when the hostess is in a good mood can the child be well educated and the family can be taken care of.

when a small home is warm and stable, parents can feel at ease and men can do their careers with peace of mind.

Ang Lee has also revealed that his happiness comes from his wife.

he said, "if my wife can smile at me, I will relax a little bit and I will feel very happy." Just because I have become a father and a husband does not mean that I can naturally gain their respect. You still have to earn their respect every day. "

being alert and warm-hearted, Li Bihua sighed that how much love a woman needs before she is willing to stand by the kitchen and wash the dishes clean.

A man cannot take everything for granted and take it for granted just because he has become a husband.

the same home does not become a home because of men and women, there are always contradictions, there must be humility, only mutual respect, will become a warm destination.

04

find a man who is willing to be soft for the rest of his life

Sheldon, who is cute in the Big Bang Theory, said, "she's a girlfriend, and I have an obligation to agree with her."

overbearing and indulging in words, the envy of outsiders, the happiness and gratitude of girlfriends.

but will girlfriends really be spoiled and arrogant and lawless?

sometimes when I think about it, countless people are lamenting women's vexatiousness and tortuous brain circuits. in fact, they are really very simple and easy to coax.

netizens posted dynamic records and girlfriend's daily routine:

"once made her angry, she walked away for almost two hours without saying a word. I could only follow her, apologizing but trying my best to amuse her.

seeing her downstairs, I think it's over. I'm going to be angry all night.

she stood on the steps, suddenly turned and opened her arms and said: hug.

I was about to burst into tears, so I immediately followed her and hugged her.

I heard her lying in her arms muttering, "I'm still angry!"

I often wonder whether every girl likes to get angry and think, and even makes decisions silently at the bottom of her heart. As long as the other person says one more word, I will let bygones be bygones. As long as he comes to me on his own initiative, I will never make trouble in the future.

even though she had forgiven for a moment, she couldn't help but want to see what a man would do for herself and his attitude.

over and over again, just to apply for recruitment: does that person love himself as always.

whether it is a woman's common fault or the absence of sense of security, there is a very piercing saying, "one day you find that she is done, then she will leave."

No matter how much I care, I just hope that the people around me love and care more about themselves.

only for the rest of your life, you can find the man who loves you as much as ever.

willing to be soft for you, willing to see through your duplicity, willing to accompany you flowers and horses, to see the scorching sun and flowers.