Far-sighted parents will say these six words to their children

01

Child, you have to go on your own,

but we will always support you

Child. Everyone has his own way of life, maybe mottled and smooth, but no matter what kind of road it is, you have to go alone.

you have to go your own way, wipe your own tears, eliminate your own pain, and learn to carry all the joys and sorrows, successes and failures along the way.

it's not that Mom and Dad don't love you, and it's not that we are forcing you to grow up, be strong, and be independent, but that only one person can experience all the joys and sorrows and bear all the joys and sorrows.

along the way, some people will surpass you and others will fall behind you. Don't be impatient, don't be complacent, don't be afraid, don't be careless, it's better than anything else to walk your own way in a down-to-earth manner.

We'll be watching you in the back, watching you get bigger and better.

No matter how serious things are on the way forward, you should remember that Mom and Dad will always be there for you, and we have always been your biggest fans.

Seek for fantastic cheap ball gowns and flaunt feminine curves? Immediately after buying, you get a peace of mind.

02

Child, whether anyone likes you or not,

you should like yourself

child, maybe you are not so popular in the group, maybe there are not many good friends who really like you, maybe the person you fall in love with will not love you so much in the future, but in any case, you should learn to like yourself.

writer Bi Shumin once said: it is better to love yourself than to wait for others to love you.

Why do you have to ask for the love of others? the more humble you are, the more you pin your hopes on others, the less you will get love.

Child, you are the treasure in our eyes. We take care of you all the way to grow up. We really don't want you to suffer because no one likes you.

people, the most important thing is to recognize themselves. You have so many advantages, generous, kind, considerate, brave, sincere, persistent. You have enough reasons to love yourself.

on the way of life, learn to recognize yourself, don't belittle yourself to nothing, and certainly don't think too highly of yourself.

try to be the best of yourself. Those who really like you and appreciate you will be quietly attracted to you.

03

Children, do not eat the bitterness of studying now,

will eat the bitterness of life in the future

Children, you may feel tired from school and immerse yourself in the ocean of reading, exercises and examination papers every day.

but do you know? Mom and Dad wish they were like you, as long as they read and study, they don't have to think about anything else. Unfortunately, we can't.

there is too much pressure in the adult world. Maybe you think Mom and Dad are relaxed and free to do whatever they want.

but that's because we never show you the pressure of life. Real life is not as simple as you think. There have been too many difficulties at home, and we are always holding on.

Mom and Dad strive to create a relaxed and comfortable environment for you to study hard, in the hope that in the future you will grow up, enter society, get some light of knowledge, and don't eat the bitterness of life.

remember, you are studying for your own future, not for our expectations. If you don't eat the bitterness of study now, you will eat the bitterness of life in the future, and at that time, it is useless for you to regret it.

04

Child, we don't need you to provide for the aged.

but you have to be grateful for your child. You always hear people say that raising a child is to prevent old age. If you've heard that before, don't believe it.

the present era is much better than before. Parents have worked hard for many years, and no matter how depressed they are, they will not be reduced to the point where they are unable to provide for the aged.

remember, we gave birth to you because we wanted to have a child, and we raised you because of our responsibility as parents. We don't need you to help us with our old age, but you have to be grateful.

No parents want to give everything but raise a "white-eyed wolf", which is really chilling.

We have seen a lot of similar news, and after every sigh, we will be glad that we have not spoiled you too much, nor have we neglected you too much.

We are really willing to do everything for you, but you know, no one is born to be nice to anyone, even if we are your parents.

A grateful person deserves to be treated kindly by everyone around him.

05

Child, be kind,

but if someone bullies you, remember to call back

child, your parents have always taught you to be kind.

see that the elderly should take the initiative to help, the bus should take the initiative to give up their seats, and students should take the initiative to help if they are in trouble. You've done all this very well.

but if someone takes advantage of your kindness and someone bullies you for no reason, remember to give a tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye.

not everyone is a good person in this society. For those who bully you first, the best way is to fight back hard.

goodness is ignorance if it is unguarded, and cowardice if it is not resisted.

Mom and Dad don't want you to be a kind person. Kindness is the foundation, but on this basis, you have to derive your strength.

those who know how to refuse and resist have the courage to live a good life.

06

Child, nothing is more important than the body

Child, the first important thing to be a man is to know how to save your life.

every time Mom and Dad see that you don't take good care of yourselfTheir bodies are particularly heartache:

paralyzed on the sofa to watch TV for more than an hour;

often eat junk food and cold drinks, and the physiological period is no exception;

I don't know how to sterilize immediately, and sometimes the wound is often inflamed;

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what you don't care about is your body, but it's our hearts that hurt. Maybe you are still young, and you still don't know how much physical pain can afflict you.

but bad habits are a kind of chronic poison. It doesn't matter if you do this once, but every time, your body will remember it for you until you are in your twenties, thirties or forties. Those hidden dangers will break out.

son, nothing is more important than the body. We can accept that you are gluttonous and playful occasionally, but you should know that you are responsible for your body.

because in this world, the last thing you can't sympathize with is the torture brought to you by your body, and even your parents can't bear the pain for you.

really, take good care of your body.