Emotion is the demon (profound)

there is a saying among the Korean nationality:

if you can't control your emotions, you are the only one who gets hurt in the end. So most of the time, emotions determine the direction of life. Vulnerable people are controlled by emotions and become slaves to emotions, while strong people have already given up emotions and can take control of their lives.

emotion is a demon. If you don't control it, it will engulf you. If your heart is chaotic, you see in this world, it is chaotic.

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people with strong hearts will not be swayed by emotions

are not your whole life, but emotions can control your whole life.

some people are trapped by emotions, while others give up emotions a long time ago.

there is such a story in "Zhuangzi Mountain": a man crossed the river by boat and saw that a boat was about to collide with him. The man scolded the other party for not having eyes.

when the ship collided, I found that there was no one on board, it was an empty ship, and the anger had just now disappeared without a trace.

emotions come quickly and dissipate quickly. They will only get angry when they encounter problems, and they can't extricate themselves from their own emotions, which not only can not solve the problem but also may put them in an embarrassing and embarrassing situation.

John Milton once said:

in many cases, the direction of life is not determined by IQ and talent, but by the ability to control emotions.

the weak are easy to become slaves to emotions, while the strong give up emotions a long time ago.

when a person is respected by others, he will not be overly ecstatic; if he is abused by others, he will not be too angry. He will not be pessimistic about everything and will not be happy with things or sorrowful for himself so that he can live a comfortable life in this world.

as Anthony Robin said:

the secret to success is to know how to control the power of pain and pleasure without being countered by it. If you can do this, you will be able to control your life, on the contrary, your life will not be in control.

good people are good at controlling emotions. In the face of other people's slander, but also only smile face, never beak a word. The man left alone was in a hurry, but he didn't hurt anything.

only with a strong heart can you handle things without fear, control your emotions, and control your life.

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people with strong hearts don't take themselves too seriously.

most of the negative emotions in life are because we overestimate ourselves.

if a man can empty himself to travel around the world, which one can harm him. A man with a strong heart will never take himself too seriously because he knows that there is a sky and there are people outside the sky, so he can recognize himself more clearly. The famous conductor Damrosch was talented when he was young and became a conductor at the age of 20. At that time, he was so famous and arrogant that he thought he was unrivaled.

one day the show was about to begin, and Damrosch realized that he had forgotten his baton. He immediately ordered his assistant to go home to get it, but the assistant whispered to him, "maybe you can borrow it from someone else."

Damrosch was in a daze and said to the band members skeptically, "who can lend me a baton?" As soon as he finished speaking, he saw more than a dozen cellists, drummers, pianists, and so on pulling out their batons from their coat pockets.

Damrosch seemed to have been hit by something, and he began to wake up.

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he suddenly realized:

he may not be indispensable, and everyone is quietly working hard, ready to replace himself at any time.

since then, Damrosch has been humble and polite and has never been arrogant again. If you don't take yourself too seriously, you can stand in a high position without being confused, and if you are in a low position, you will not feel inferior.

in life, lower your posture and regard yourself as a speck of dust in the vast starry sky and a drop of water in the vast ocean, which will reduce a lot of pain and trouble.

handle the world calmly and treat others calmly. In the face of setbacks, you can motivate yourself; in the face of pride, you can reflect on yourself; in the face of slander, you can recognize yourself more clearly. Only when you are strong in your heart can you treat yourself with emptiness, do not despise yourself too much, nor value yourself too much, face life calmly, and face life with a smile.

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people with strong hearts can better control their emotions

Life is not plain sailing, everyone has emotions, which is normal.

but emotion is like water, which should be sparse rather than blocked. Learn to control emotions, do not take emotions too seriously, nor blindly curb the emergence of emotions.

Peter Pollard once said:

get angry because of some small things. If you are too angry, it is easy to hurt yourself. Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes, life may be much happier.

and Chuang Tzu once said:

A person who cannot control his emotions, like running water, cannot reflect his true state of mind, while a person who can control his emotions can feel at ease, full, and strong.

one day, when Harris, a famous writer, went to buy a newspaper with his friend, the friend politely said "thank you" to the vendor, but the vendor kept a cold face and said nothing.

Harris asked: "the vendor's attitude is so bad, why do you still say thank you to him?"

my friend said, "I often come here to buy newspapers, and he does this every day, but why should I decide my behavior because of his attitude?"

the poor attitude of others maybe his habit or his bad mood, but there is no need for us to ruin our mood because of him.

Master Shengyan said: "virtue is bliss, no anger is no disaster, a broad heart and a long life, great wisdom is self-affluence." Controlling emotion is a kind of self-cultivation. Life can do it. It is a kind of great wisdom not to be confused in the heart and not to be trapped in love.

here is a limerick for everyone to share with you.

Don't be angry. Life is like a play. We get together because we are predestined.

it is not easy to help each other to grow old. Should we cherish it more?

lose your temper over trifles, think back, and think about it.

I'm not angry when others are angry, and there's no one to replace me when I get sick.

who will be happy if I am pissed off? And heartbreaking and laborious.

Don't compare your neighbors, relatives, and friends, and let him do the chores of his children and grandchildren.

bear hardships and enjoy happiness together, the immortals envy a good companion.

there is a passage in "the Capital of Life":

A person's heart should be like a handful of clear water. Waiting for a piece of their field has nothing to do with the earth, has nothing to do with the wind and the moon, but a kind of kindness, a kind of responsibility, a kind of deep love.

emotions are demons. Life gets better when you decide to stop caring.

you will encounter many problems of one kind or another in your life. May you have peace of mind and take your time.

it looks like there is no road, but there is another village around the corner. May you be strong in your heart and properly place your emotions. Every plant and every tree is tender.