Do you know how special you are to me.
The self in the eyes of others is also what we strive to build.
1.
each of us is made up of countless keywords, and the countless permutations and combinations of these words form countless unique individuals. You see yourself, others see you, with what they know about you and the stories that happened to each other, and your memories make a slight adjustment to these words, but the combination of those words make a unique you.
when I was a child, I was particularly afraid to take part in activities that "need to introduce myself".
because there is always a link, that is, using a few words, about a minute, to introduce yourself and express what kind of character you are. Maybe I am a lively person? But I usually have quiet moments, so I always introduce the most corny sentence: "I am a girl who is sometimes cheerful and sometimes quiet" (there is a smile here). Later, when I grew up, I began to feel that the words I introduced myself were just "myself in my own eyes". If I could hear other people's descriptions of me, I might find a new self.
everyone's gender is irreplaceable. To fall in love with you is to fall in love with your unique beauty.
from then on, there was no one else in my eyes.
2.
my friend told me, Zhao Yue, sometimes you are always confused and things will become hazy. I quietly wrote down these "not very good" labels to me in my friends' eyes to improve myself. But my friend also told me that your confusion sometimes makes you look cute, and your dull expression is also your characteristic. In the same way, your warmth, your rabbit teeth, and all your tags represent the real you.
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when all the words are put together, you will find that these keywords make up your portrait, and at different stages of my life, I will hope that I am not my old Ctrl+C,. Every fleeting time allows me to distinguish the past.
when I was a child, I wanted to be an enterprising and intelligent child, so I tried my best. Later, when I grew up and went to college, I hope I was cool, not that my expression is cool, but that I have a cool personality, dare to love and hate, have my own unique perspective and judgment on things, and have my own opinions and personality to choose some things.
now, I hope that the key words on my body can make me warm, so I begin to wear away the prickly part of my character slowly, hoping that every time I appear, there will be a bright smile on the corners of other people's mouths.
for those words, I am happy to add one by one, just like the body that needs fitness from discipline, specific keywords will make myself better and better.
3.
at a friend's party a few days ago, we played such a game called psychological encouragement.
this is a negative energy party, and we sit in a circle to spit out recent tragedies and grievances with our own recent noisy mood.
one of the girls said that she was not very confident. The boy she liked didn't like her, and she didn't think highly of her. In the company, when she wanted to help her boss carry mistakes, she always felt that she was not a person inside and outside. Over time, she became suspicious of herself, feeling that she had lost the label and meaning that could be added, and was wearing off her diversified personality label bit by bit. Remove.
another boy, a designer, is changing his designs every day. Every time he thinks his masterpiece is actually very good, he will be called back by his client, saying that it is not approachable enough. He began to wonder whether his aesthetic was really good.
the environment in which we live every day makes us "de-tagged".
sometimes we don't know what we should measure ourselves by.
so each of us took a blank piece of paper, wrote what each other looked like in our own eyes, and posted it on their faces and clothes. when we took off the key words written to us by our friends, we were very moved and felt that some of our existence could still be affirmed.
4.
really, never bow to yourself in your life.
you are unique and always beautiful, no matter the key words of minor shortcomings or advantages, they all constitute a unique you, and we have different needs at each stage of our life.
whether it's our psychology, our physiology, or even spread to our hair, our skin, we need to customize unique keywords.