All good children are in charge, and bear children are used to it.

01

on the weekend, my daughter and I went to the study near our home to read books.

this library is of a commonweal nature, and there are usually some volunteers who maintain order there.

there is a box at the door of the study, in which there are shoe covers, the number of which is placed according to the maximum capacity of the study. Few people go from Monday to Friday. On weekends, many parents will take their children to read books.

We went late this time, and there were only two pairs of shoe covers left in the box at the door. I was surprised and whispered to my daughter: we are so lucky that we will have to wait a little later.

I was about to go in when a mother and son came from behind. The son was about ten years old, and the mother was dressed up in jewels.

when the child saw that there was no shoe cover in the box, he asked, Mom, what if there is no shoe cover? The woman exclaimed: no, there is no, this is not a palace, enter!

A volunteer next to him smiled and said, "Ma'am, you can't enter without shoe covers. You can wait a moment. Someone should be out soon."

the woman glanced at the volunteer girl and dragged her son in.

the volunteers on that day, two girls who looked like college students, probably encountered this kind of situation for the first time, and they stood there with a circle on their faces.

my daughter and I each took a favorite book on the shelf and sat down to read it. There are no chairs in the study, there are some sponge cushions for everyone to sit on, and the reader sits on the cushion on the floor.

the boy jumped up and down, flipped through this and that, and didn't seem to find a book he liked. His mother also helped to read it and complained, "Why are all books read by adults, I don't know how to put some children's books, really!"

the study, which had been very quiet, was suddenly stirred by the two women, and everyone looked up at them.

the volunteer girl came again to remind: you can't speak loudly here, please keep your voice down and don't affect others.

the woman snorted silently, pulled out two books and sat down with the child to read them.

after a while, I suddenly smelled the smell of urine in the room. I looked up. With a bad smile on his face, the little boy leaned in his mother's ear and said, "Mom, let her take care of us. I wet her mat." His mother smiled proudly.

all the readers around are angry. Some people say, "adults don't care about this kind of bear child!" Everyone echoed every word you said.

when the woman saw that she was in public anger, she took the child and said, "son, let's go home."

as they were about to lift their legs, the mother and son were stopped by a man of about 30 years old and said forcefully, "just a moment, I am the person in charge of this study. All the people who come here are readers, and I welcome them very much." But I hope you and your children will come here for the last time, because you are not welcome here!

the woman's mouth is still hard, but her tone softens clearly: a few broken books, no children to read, I will not come again even if you invite me. With that, he took the child at a brisk pace.

on the way home, my daughter asked me: mom, that little boy is so naughty, why doesn't his mother care?

I said, she only knows how to get used to it, but she doesn't know how to manage it. You see, the little boy was refused to come back by the study today. If the mother continues to indulge her child, the world will close more and more doors to that little boy.

my daughter nodded her head as if she didn't understand.

02

I have a distant cousin who gave birth to a son at the age of 38 and was spoiled in middle age.

once, I went to a relative's wedding, and my cousin went with her eight-year-old son. At dinner, we were at the same table.

the child was completely inconsiderate and kept turning the table. There was dissatisfaction in everyone's eyes, but no one was ashamed to say it.

after a while, my cousin's son finished a box of yogurt and slapped the empty box onto a dish, splashing juice on several people. A boy who looked a little older than him looked angry and clenched a small fist to hit him. Cousin hurriedly said: little brother is younger than you, you have to give way to him, do not bully him. The little boy glared at his cousin's son and buried himself in the meal.

my cousin's son ate so fast that he was almost full. He stood on the chair and spit on the food on the table. Now everyone can't eat, put down the chopsticks and look at them.

my cousin smiled, took her son down and said, "the boy was naughty when he was young. I wish he were older."

someone next to him said, "you don't care about your son, he's not young, it's not naughty, it's evil!"

it doesn't make sense to sit down any longer. Everyone gets up and goes home. What was supposed to be a festive occasion was broken up in discord by a bear child.

my cousin came by taxi and asked, "who's on the way? why don't you give us a ride?" There is no one to pick on.

the little boy and his mother, who clenched their fists just now, were walking out and looked back at his cousin's son and said, "you are so rude. Remember, don't come when my brother gets married next year. I hate you!"

that sounds so relieving that the little boy spoke his mind.

maybe it's because there are few children in every family now. Many adults feel that they suffered a lot when they were young. Now that the conditions are good, their children should be good and precious, and they can't let them suffer a little bit. As a result, from doting to doting, pampering and indulgence, there are many bear children.

03

I saw a message on moments a few days ago that a pair of Chinese parents took their children on a trip to the United States because of the bear child's prank, which triggered a fight between his father and a young man on the plane.

this kind of behavior is so dangerous that it can even lead to the death of people in the plane crash.

result, bearAs soon as the family of three got off the plane, they were taken away by the airport law enforcement officers who were waiting there. The final result was that the customs refused the family entry on the grounds of intentional injury, and arranged for the plane to be repatriated in the early hours of the next morning.

the three members of the bear family originally went to travel, but they all went to other countries, but they were refused to come back.

some netizens say that this kind of child taught by his parents will one day have to taste the cold taste that the world specially gives back to him.

No, you see, the bear child has already tasted all kinds of rejection before he has grown up. Society is not your mother, no one will spoil you.

A professor at Fudan University said in a speech: after all, children are not adults and must be disciplined and punished. To give in blindly in the name of love is the greatest irresponsibility to him. Today, the child can't fight, scold, or even give a look. Tomorrow he may be able to go to the hospital.

Yes, take care of the children as soon as possible.

Don't give up doing good even if it's not important, don't do bad things even if it's inconspicuous.

you indulge your child's little evil today, and over time, it will slowly condense into tomorrow's great evil, and it's too late to think about it again.

all good children are controlled, and bear children are used to it.

your pampering is not loving him, but harming him.

you don't want to shout at him, hit him, stare at him, it doesn't matter, the world will slap you back sooner or later.

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