After reading these five photos, I figured everything out!

01

once read a story and was impressed.

Henry Ford, a car tycoon, was an engineer when he was young.

once he was in charge of building a river bank, only to find that there was a sudden storm, and the flood flooded all the machinery and equipment in an instant, and the painstaking construction was destroyed.

when the flood receded, the workers looked at the mud and rickety machines all over the ground and could not help but grieve.

Ford asked everyone, "Why are you all sad?"

the workers said dejectedly, "the ground is muddy, but what should we do?"

Ford said, "Why didn't I see it?"

the workers are puzzled: "look here, isn't it all over there?"

Ford smiled and said, "I only see the blue sky, there is not a piece of mud on it, even if there is, how can the soil resist the sun?" Soon the soil will agglomerate, and we can start the bulldozer again, won't we? "

the same thing, some people see hope, some people just feel disappointed,

actually be optimistic, smile, it's no big deal.

02

not long ago, I saw a piece of news that a car owner worked late into the night and didn't pay attention when driving home. He accidentally drove into the road ditch, and the good guy was all right. The car owner called the towing company. Unfortunately, it was too late to come during the day, and the car owner was lucky to go home and go to bed.

early the next morning, the car owner happily took a picture with the car he fell into the ditch, leaving a souvenir.

looking at the face with such a bright smile in the camera, how many people can be so optimistic in the face of accidents in life?

what else can an open-minded and optimistic person like this not survive?

03

there is such a family in the United States. their home accidentally caught fire, and the fire became bigger and worse. fortunately, all six members of the family escaped.

in the face of the raging fire behind them, they did not cry bitterly, but happily took pictures of the whole family.

it is said that in this world, except for life and death, it is a small matter. Since the fire can not be put out, it is better to accept it optimistically, as long as the family is all right and the family can live happily together, what else is it?

when you can't fix something, you might as well accept it calmly.

04

Lao San is 62 years old. he is a farmer who works as a temporary mineral powder loader in a nearby steel mill. he unloads 300 tons of goods every day, 60 cents per ton, and has been moving goods like this all the year round.

but he is very contented, because this 60 cents is not only an income for him, but also a hope of survival.

the third drank the muddy water and twisted the sweat on the towel. He said happily:

"I'm fine like this. I earn nearly 200 yuan a day, which is more than farming."

he pedaled hard on his feet and carried the goods on his shoulders, leaving his own mark on the land.

05

A girl who lost a leg because of the war still likes to chase volleyball on the beach by herself.

06

Nick Hu Zhe in the lens lost his limbs, but he still chose to laugh at life.

he typed with the only "chicken foot" in his body and gave lectures in colleges and universities around the world, sharing his stories and experiences with tens of millions of people.

he said: "the saddest thing in life is not the loss of limbs, but the lack of hope and goal for survival!" People often complain that they can't do anything, but if we only think about what we lack and don't cherish what we already have, it won't solve the problem at all. What really changes our fate is not our fate, but our attitude. "

just like the beginning of Ford's story, some people are optimistic about the same thing, others are sad about it.

writer Zhang Defen once mentioned an ABC theory in his book meeting the unknown self:

A refers to situation, event

B refers to belief, thought

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C is the result

in the same situation (A), different people's ideas, evaluation and interpretation (B), will get different results (C).

that is to say, many times when you look at things from a different perspective, you will get different answers and different moods.

since this is the case, why not look at everything with an optimistic attitude? happiness is also a day, and unhappiness is also a day.

it is better to make good use of the present, smile the attitude towards life, and face everything in the world. There is hope in life!