A habitual son is like killing a child. These rules must be laid down before the child is 6 years old.

as the saying goes, there is no square without rules.

if we want to have an orderly life, we have to abide by all kinds of rules everywhere.

it is also very important to teach children to set rules.

Why are there so many "bear children" in society today? it is because parents do not give them a correct demonstration at the age of setting rules.

what I fear most is not that the bear child does not do his homework, but that he has no rules.

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behind the bear children, there are all bad demonstrations from parents

I remember that when my daughter was about five years old, my mother took her to an amusement park near her home.

according to my mother's description, my daughter was climbing on a climbing toy, slipped, accidentally stepped on a little girl behind, and the child cried.

at that time, the child's mother took care of her mobile phone and did not see how it happened.

when I heard my child crying, I ran over and scolded my mother indiscriminately for what she thought of the child, pointing at my mother's nose and talking nonstop.

because my mother is not good at Mandarin, she asked my mother to call the children's parents, and the staff invited everyone to the office and so on.

my husband and I arrived as soon as possible. When the woman saw us coming, she became even more aggressive and scolded. My husband and I apologized again and again and said that we could cooperate if we needed to go to the hospital.

the baby stopped crying a long time ago, but the mother threatened to kick it back in my daughter's face before she was relieved.

later, they had to promise the amusement park to give them free play for a month before breaking up in discord.

this kind of small friction is common in children, but it will give children a very bad demonstration because adults' participation intensifies the contradiction.

Zhang Ming once said in "there is an adult bear behind a bear child":

Bear children are bears precisely because there are bear adults in front of them to set an example.

not living in public life is our old problem. This problem needs education and correction. From an early age, we have to instill this truth in our children and influence them with appropriate behavior patterns.

to love a child, not to stand up for him in everything, to let the child be the winner in everything, to establish the concept of right and wrong for the child, and to establish proper rules is true love!

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if you don't care about teaching your children, society will take care of you

knowing that there is a problem. How to fight back against bear children?

Let's take a look at the story of the highly praised author:

"whose child is in charge?" Someone complained.

but no one made a sound, and the child lit it again after the laser was turned off for less than two seconds.

someone was angry: "orphans?" No one cares. I'm in charge of you. "

the abuse lasted for a while, and a bottle of mineral water flew out and hit the bear child on the head. The bear child howled at that time, and the mother was startled, touching the child's head while scolding the people behind.

behind are a group of half-big boys, with the lights off, dark, suddenly a box of popcorn sprinkled over, sprinkled with bear children and his mother, the people next to also suffered a little affected, hurriedly away from the battlefield, moved to the side.

his mother just stood up and scolded, regardless of the child.

as a result, a bunch of messy things was thrown at the mother and son, and the mother and son finally took things and left swearing.

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it can be seen that people don't like bearing children, and they even hate parents who don't discipline bear children. if you don't discipline them, someone will discipline them for you.

as Inamori Kazuo said:

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A well-behaved child wins respect

Chen Xiaochun, a bad-tempered man in "where are you going?" Chen Xiaochun deserves every parent to learn. Although Chen Xiaochun always gives outsiders the impression that he is cold and grumpy, his education for Jasper is not bad.

in one program, ahem gave Jasper a small cake, but Jasper didn't eat it. Du Jiang said:

but Jasper still didn't eat but had to wait for Dad to come back.

then Chen Xiaochun came back, and Jasper asked him expectantly if he could eat cake. Chen Xiaochun shook his head firmly.

Chen Xiaochun has a lot of things to consider, first, because he usually teaches Jasper not to eat snacks, and second, because the program stipulates that children are not allowed to bring snacks, Chen Xiaochun does not want Jasper to break the rules.

in this society where bear children are running everywhere, the Jasper in the program has gathered a lot of fans. Netizens joked how Chen Xiaochun and Ying Caier produced such sensible little sweet peppers.

it is said in the warring States Policy that parents' love for their children is far-reaching.

how to be far-reaching?

it is necessary to teach them the most fundamental things in life as soon as possible.

knowing good or bad, knowing the rules, and being grateful are the great qualities and principles of being a person.

teaching children this will certainly make their life easier and more stable.

learn to be a man first. People who know the rules know what to do on their own, and know the meaning of honesty and trustworthiness.

when you repay society with your sincerity, society is also repaying you with sincerity.

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set rules for children.

once I took my daughter to a restaurant. The free snacks are given by my daughter accidentally touched the lid of the container and broke it.

at that time, there were a lot of people around, looking at their daughter, who was stunned and looked at me flushed.

I went over and asked my daughter to borrow a broom and dustpan from the shop assistant to break it. The film was carefully cleaned up and then asked the daughter apologized to the restaurant manager and asked the price to lend her money to compensate her for the loss.

after returning home, my daughter gave me this fee with pocket money. Although my daughter's pocket money was much less, through this matter, my daughter also learned the truth that she should not be too hasty and dare to take responsibility.

educator Professor Li Meijin once said:

the greatest wealth in life comes from his upbringing.

and the most direct embodiment of upbringing is to be able to think of others everywhere, know the rules, and keep respect and understanding in mind all the time.

I would like to share it with my parents.