A girl who is too strong deserves to be loved.

everyone wants to be spoiled, don't they?

Let's not talk about those children who have enough food and clothing for the time being.

after all, there are still many people in the world who have no money.

everyone has a mentality of dependence. From ancient times to the present, the weak like to rely on the strong. Many people don't like to work hard, but they like to be jealous of others. Girls always tell themselves that they must be independent, materially independent, spiritually independent, Barabara. But I found that when a person becomes strong, people around you begin to expect you to be alive. Whether it's your family, your boyfriend or girlfriend, or even a project or case in the company, the most common thing they say is: "it's up to you." Do well is heaven, do not do well is hell. So you can only work hard and stay up late every day to do something overloaded, just because someone said, "it's all up to you."

you feel tired,

but you deserve it, who makes you strong?

this seems like a paradox to an independent life.

when you wanted an independent life, you didn't rely on other people's self-reliance in order to be able to live freely without burden, but you were wrong. Your strength is that there will be people you can't refuse to enjoy the cool under your wings. You are tired because your wings are very heavy, they drag you to overdraft you, but also take delight in saying that my backers are excellent.

I have a friend, is a freelance photographer, in 1993, usually travel all over the country to shoot, her family situation is general, so she has always been very proud and independent, she is so tired, but also have to stay up late to fix the picture with her makeup bag and clothes on her back and take pictures under the sun during the day. Her studio is in Xiamen, while her hometown is in Hangzhou, but the studio is not as famous as she imagined. Her parents told her to go to Xiamen to find her, and the implication was that I would take care of your daily life, but my parents really didn't have the money and couldn't take out a penny. So you have to take care of the food, drink, food, clothing, shelter and transportation of the two elders. Of course, of course, I may also take seven aunts to see you and it is not good for you not to take care of them. After all, you have made a little achievement now. Her boyfriend also went to school out of town and didn't make any money at all. Every time he called, he told her half-jokingly, "you take care of me, you can make so much money now, and you have your own studio, and I follow you to eat and drink spicy food and drink."

others will always exaggerate your achievements and then feel attached to you.

Girls are under great pressure to take care of their parents in the first place, but when they are so tired, they don't know if they spend more than two people. I don't know if they have to stay up a few more nights. Boyfriend, you earn more than him, and watch you run all over the world, so it's too easy to get money, so just say, "you're so strong, you raise me."

every time I hear these words like "you earn so much", "you raise me" and "I'm counting on you". She can only smile and say yes, ah, I raise you, the other side is still moved, as if she can do nothing and enjoy the success. However, the girl is so tired, who can see it? people are always like this. when they see other people making money, they think you are so rich, why are you raising me? why are you so rich? how many times do you treat me to dinner? why, you are so rich. I stay in your house for a year without giving you money. Why, you are so rich, I lend you some money.

want to know when it is necessary to ask for something.

helping you is righteous, but not helping you is your duty, which is rarely remembered.

is it because you are strong that you have to bear the heaviest things?

A spoiled, pretentious girl will get so much care that when they show up, people will say, Oh, don't let her do the heavy work, you take care of her, don't let her get tired. However, for an independent girl who is responsible for everything alone, someone else throws a heavy job, she says it's okay, I can do it, and then a person who doesn't speak silently is tired to death to finish it, and people will think, wow, she's so good. Then let her do the job next time. Over time, when others question whether she can do such a tired job and think that it is better for a girl to have a rest at home, others will say, it's all right, she is a strong girl, and she can do any hard work. At this time, these independent girls will laugh and break their teeth and swallow. You deserve it, who makes you independent and who makes you strong.

for example, I can make a living with small advertisements, and my family is not a millionaire. I still have to think about it if I want to open a coffee shop in Beijing. But a few days ago, a discordant note suddenly appeared among the many warm and concerned little bitches backstage.

someone left me a message saying:

there will be money. Do you have to take advertisements?

I replied:

there will be money. Will you give it to me?

deserved it. Who made me too independent? when I wanted to cry, I was thought to be blind and hypocritical, so I seldom cried unless I couldn't help it.

the society instills the idea that if you want to be a strong person, you can't cry.

an independent girl should endure hardships. If you are too strong, you deserve no one's pain.

but life is so hard, but I still choose to be independent.

I'm on my own. I don't have a soft meal. I feel at ease.

I believe that sooner or later someone will touch my head and hold me in my arms.

tell me, don't be too tired, rely on me.

and then I will also take off a burden,

sprinkle a huge spoil in his arms like a cat and say,

finally waiting for you.

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for those of you who are tired.A big hug.

I hope you all have a sweet dream today.

good night, you and the world.